All Questions

Guys: Poking a girl in the arm?

What's it mean if a guy is always poking you and stuff? I didn't think much of it till I noticed someone say it was a way of flirting. So is that true guys? Is that and constant teasing a way of flirting with a girl?...

Katy16

Guru Age: 30

Do white guys like exotic women or white girls only?

I am half white (English, Irish) and half North Indian (of Persian descent). I'm quite light, kinda the same color as Kim Kardashian, or a bit lighter..olive skinned I guess. Without wanting to sound arrogant I get told...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you rather ALWAYS be the persuer. (or) ALWAYS be the persuee.

Being the persuee : You may not get persued by anyone you like, or persued at all. You can bot persue. Even if you like someone. You can only be persued. Being the persuer : You may not get who you want, or get anyone at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy says he doesn't want to hurt you

This guy who I'm interested in tells me that he likes me. The problem is he's with someone right now, and he knows that I know it, and so he ended his admission by saying he doesn't want to hurt me, but he can't help the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I want my own bedroom when I am married! How would you feel about this?

I have decided that when I am married, I would like to have my own bedroom, and maybe even my own spare room/office to do whatever I'd like with as well! I have been living with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. I love...

RyeLee

Xper 4 Age: 36

He asked me to hang out on his birthday!!

We've been hanging out and are pretty flirty with each other but were not official or anything. He asked me to hang out with him on his birthday...I want to make it really special for him but I feel awful because I don't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Are guys usually rude towards their crush?

So I like this guy and I'm very confused about his behavior towards me because sometimes he's flirting with me and then like 5 min later he's rude to me. He stares at me most of the time and he jokes around with me as...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He cheated on me.. broke up with me.. then texts me after 8 months?

What the heck is my ex thinking? He cheated on me with a 2nd girlfriend (that's right - not just a one time thing). Dumped me for that girl by no longer replying to me (I mean it - he simply started ignoring me one day...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Long hair, Short hair or medium length?

Which do you like better Which do you have Which do you like on opposite sex or just people you would date?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Okay yes another how to stop being a simp (punk).

Okay so yeah I am having trouble with woman mainly approaching and keeping them. So I have this girl in my summer class (which is half way through). I caught her looking at me a couple times, and I have been looking at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Hot guy with ugly girlfriend? What are your thoughts?

Ever seen a couple like this? what goes through your head when you see one?

sexyasianboi26

Guru Age: 109

I need my space please leave me alone? what does it mean? :(

Ok so my husband sent me" I need my space please leave me alone" on a text after he had his court done over with. I called him after a few hours he never answered I called him again and no answer and after that he sent...

marimarnava

Xper 5 Age: 36

Society & Politics

Would you be upset if your girlfriend or boyfriend hacked your Facebook?

I was just curious if you would be upset if your girlfriend or boyfriend hacked your Facebook? why and why not?

Chantie2812

Xper 7 Age: 32

Does it mean anything if a guy lets you try his drink?

This is properly going to sound dumb but I'll ask it for the craic! Well I was at the bar with the guy I really like and he was getting a drink. So I asked just for conversation really what it was and he said it was a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you like being naked at home?

I loved that especially though is sleeping naked. Makes me feel so safe and comfortable..

Manindark

Xper 6 Age: 35

Do you still find women in old paintings attractive, compared to what is percieved as ideal today

I'm not usually into art, so I'm not sure about the era but I mean paintings like this link link link link link link like not overweight, but not as skinny as models, p*rn actresses or actresses...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

WHY is my guy friend rude to me?

And I'm actually really nice to him , there are some things he does for instance he always slaps my forehead (doesn't hurt)..or once he flashed his *** to me and today he was like you look big today...like why is he like...

tina543

Xper 5 Age: 31

What actually is Average?

I always hear people ask "am I above or below average?" But what is average? I need examples

LovelySerene

Yoda Age: 35

Why is it so impossible for me to get a date?

I've tried meeting girls in bars and clubs with no success, I get violent aggressive responses more often than I even get a number. I've tried online, I can barely even get replies let alone dates. None of my female...

Alonso14

Xper 3 Age: 35

Should I ask her why she is ignoring me?

I have met this girl in person, and we started to talk. Months have passed and we began to like one another, she sometimes gets depressed and I do as well but we pull each other through. I told her I wanted to date but I...

Upsidedownkingdom18

Xper 5 Age: 32

Where to find desperate girls ?

desperate 20 years old , doesn't matter what she looks like (as long as she looks like a girl ) online dating failed with me

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

If a guy tries to set you up with a friend is there no chance he likes you?

So there is this guy that I work with and lately we've become pretty close. It seems like we're friends now. I thought he seemed like he was in to me because we would text occasionally, flirt and be touchy at work, and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why a guy only texts me to ask me out but never text casual daily messaging?

I'm currently living in London and seeing an English guy. There is something different about this guy compared to any other guy I have dated before. Firstly, he is very straight to the point to say what he wants....

Xalbadora

Xper 5 Age: 42

Girlfriend jealous with my sister?

First of all, even before we were bf/gf, there was this one time when she saw me with my sis in the mall (this happened early when were dating, I haven't introduce my sis to her), she was really mad and all but I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I love my boyfriend I met online, but I gave him a fake name. Now I don't know what to do?!

I met this guy on a random chat website thinking we would just talk that night and it would be over, so I have myself a fake name and picture to protect myself just in case the guy was a creep. We ended up hitting it off...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

My husband has a thing for shemales!! What do I do?

i recently found out my husband is into shemales. He doesn't know I know. I saw it a while ago and thought it was a mistake but this has totally hit me from left field. What do I do! do I talk to him about it or not. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He added me on snapchat, what does that mean?

A guy I've had like no contact with for over 5 months recently added me on snapchat. I had a crush on him in the past and I'm pretty sure he knew since he told me he liked another girl. I did get the feeling though that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What's the longest online friendship/relationship you've ever had?

I mean purely online. Never met up in person, no videochatting, no phonecalls, no texting. Just emails or instant messages or interaction on a forum like this one. Also, how would you describe the relationship? Purely...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do guys really like girls who dress like tramps?

Do guys really like girls who dress like tramps? Are guys looking at them as short term fling material? I'm sure a few guys might like this kind of girl around as long term material. I do understand that some guys do like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do people use the word "LOVE" too loosely?

I was watching this show "Catfish". For anyone who doesn't watch the show the premise is that people that are dating online want to meet the person in the flesh after dating for a long period of time. A lot of the time...

Olivia9

Explorer Age: 37

"I talk to god but the sky is empty" what's the meaning of it?

What's the meaning of this quote? What do you think?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Chase or don't chase the cancerian (zodiac) male?

a mature & well established cancerian gentleman recently befriended me. We went from barely speaking to each other (just "hi" and "bye" in passing), to him suddenly texting, calling & emailing almost every day (we've had...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

How can I stop being TOO independent and let a guy in?

Being an independent woman is something I always admired in others, and I always wanted to become one myself. Well, it seems that because of how much life kicked my butt the last few years, I have become SUPER...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a man can't grow a true manly beard

But maybe a little bit on there jaw line but still not thick and can't even grow a mustache and if he does it looks like patches under his nose. Would it be preferred to be baby faced or keep it growing ?

Crispin7

Xper 3 Age: 38

Is a slight lisp attractive or annoying?

I've had a lisp forever, but since I've been working on my speech it isn't as noticeable as it used to be. When I was younger people would try to impersonate how I speak for fun. I played it off, but it did make me a...

Anonymous

(30-35)