All Questions

How will I know if my boyfriend brother kind has a crush on me?

He hugs me all the time, Compliments me and he is always telling me how nice something is about me. He has bought several things from time to time like a cell phone which was a surprise but he ask his brother first....

Anonymous

(36-45)

No Happy Thanksgiving text? Is that ok?

I'm seeing this guy... I guess we have a thing going - it's undefined right now. Anyway, I had dinner and hung out with him this past Sunday. He said he was glad that we could have date night because he wouldn't be able...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

What are little wishing myths that you have heard of?

There are common ones such as wishing on a shooting star and yesterday my family and I did the wishbone wish just for fun. What are some others that you know of?

brunettebelle

Yoda Age: 34

Other

Jews vs. Native Americans vs. Blacks - Who got it the worst throughout history?

These three groups of people have, throughout history, gone through periods of oppression, slavery, and in some cases, even genocide. But in your opinion, who got it the worst? IMO I would say Native Americans, based on...

WeaponZero

Guru Age: 45

What describes a "cute" guy?

What makes a guy cute? His actions... or his looks.. both? And what specific things?

Flusher

Xper 3 Age: 30

Flirting

If me and this girl have always teased each other playfully, why is she upset now?

Me and this coworker have known each other for a year. Our relationship was a playful one and we tease each other. that's her humor, she has told me about it and she teases others (not as heavy as she does me) and they...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys do you ever like a weird or very quiet girl?

This guy who is in my college class doesn't like me anymore because I am really shy and quiet and I never really talked to him when ever he tried to talk to me, was not my fault I just couldn't really do anything about...

shygirl12

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

How to react when your boyfriend is meeting his ex?

We've been together for 2 months and everything is perfect! Except he has this friend (who happens to be an ex girlfriend) who told him she can't be in his life anymore because she's still in love with him and it's too...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When women/dude say I am going to take a bath/shower in a text/facebook chat...

Do you ever say it to be a bit flirty? I know it is normal but you could just say I g2g or ill talk to you in a bit. Do you add the shower/bath info to be flirty?

NothingGoldCanStay

Xper 3 Age: 36

Society & Politics

I have two jobs, both scheduled me for the same time and day

what to do now? it's kind of a waste to work two jobs and not have some thing working but the second job is giving me a little bit more hours. what would you do in my situation?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do pea coats work for guys?

Okay so I'm a sophomore in college and my roommate got a pea coat that's kinda been growing on me Because it seems classy but a lot of girls wear them too. Do the ladies like pea coats on guys and if yes, should they be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you text Happy Thanksgiving? And to who?

I don't do it. But received Happy Thanksgiving text from my crush surprisingly whom I Haven't seen for a few months. Is he still thinking about me?

3336PS

Yoda Age: 48

How do I stop tripping out about my boyfriend?

I'm always freaking out when he doesn't talk to me or when he does something I don't like. How do I not do this? I don't have any friends, I don't have a job, I don't go to school. All I do is sit at my house in my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: Is 6'4-5 too tall? Honest opinions?

Is 6'4 too tall to be attractive to women? I find it hard to talk to some girls because they feel intimidated or overwhelmed by my height..? Would you be intimidated by someone one is 6'4-5?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Wearing a thong bikini at the beach?

My girlfriend wants to buy a thong bikini to wear at the beach. I think this is hot. What do others think?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Based on these things, does this girl want me?

so this girl in school always comes to say hi to me since we are in different classes in college. These are some things she has done: 1. she tells me I'm very funny 2. she invited me to hang out with her friends. 3....

billy2340

Xper 5 Age: 44

What does it mean when our eyes meet and she looks away?

There is a g that I kissed we used to flirt heavily. When I catch her eye she always looks away with a bored or pained look. But when I speak to her she speaks really fast and excited. What is going on.

Nyc10001

Xper 5 Age: 42

He Taps my desk when he walks by?

i like a guy in one of my classes and started talking to him on Facebook. he responded the first time but never really responded to the other ones sent him. at first thought that he was ignoring me, then yesterday I found...

Karatequeen

Xper 7 Age: 33

Health & Fitness

How do I stop turning red when I'm around my boyfriend?

whenever I'm with my boyfriend my neck and chest get really red, and blotchy, sometimes spreadiing to my face. I can feel myself getting super warm and I hate it. I'm not shy or embarrassed around him, so I don't know why...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean if a girl blushes after making eye contact?

Ok, so there's this girl I like at my school. I notice that when we're talking, she's always smiling. But I also notice that she has a hard time keeping eye contact. She might look at me for a second, look away, then look...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Do guys feel more comfortable being dominant in a relationship?

I get it, it's 2011 and both sexes are equal in most aspects of our lives today. However, I get the feeling that sometimes guys need to reestablish their dominance and masculinity in some aspect, to compensate for another...

Apodyopsis

Xper 4 Age: 33

Girls if your guy was physically weaker than you would you find him less attractive?

Or put another way does a man need to be physically strong in order for you to date him? why or why not?

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

Should love or sex come first?

I know it sounds like a stupid question. Many of you would say that of course love comes first. However, I and my friends encountered such problem before and sometimes the situation is vice versa. 1. I dated a guy...

baby_queen

Xper 5 Age: 35

Do guys notice a girl who wears flowers in her hair?

I wear flowers in my hair. Do guys even notice? does it make a girl look prettier or more noticeable? thoughts?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shy and Reserved Girls: What signals do you give to a guy you're interested in?

I'm just wondering, whenever you are interested in a guy do you give away any signals? How do you behave when he's around? How do we know if you're interested?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is a girl swimmer body attractive?

I'm on the swim team and am fairly toned. I have a pretty low fat percentage I have some abs not like a six pack but I have a flat stomach and "tonnage"haha. I guess I just have an athletic body shape but is that a bad...

Justkeepswimmingg

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why doesn't my boyfriend do nice things for me?

I LOVE to do things to make my boyfriend happy. I cook for him. I clean up after him. I buy him little things that I know he likes. And the list goes on... We get along great. We are best friends. We have the...

tallie

Xper 3 Age: 40

Should I allow my girlfriend to kiss other guys when she is out?

My 20 year old girlfriend of two years has recently really gained an interest in nightclubs for the first time in her life. She has been going to them very frequently of late. Last night, she asked me if I would give...

Silence123

Xper 4 Age: 37

Do you like hazel eyes?

I have blond hair and hazel eyes and I have noticed that its not really common. do you like the looks of hazel eyes with blond hair?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex is angry at me after sex?

Ok so my ex and I are still close and I oticed that the last 2 times wwe had s.e.x. aftr he would be nice to me then id leav and come back to check on him and he would answer me when I'm speaking be annoyed watch at me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex and I are trying to work things out...Flakes all the time...

My ex and I are trying to work things out and every time we plan to do something at the last minute she makes an excuse why not to...and then an hour later after arguing she'll do what he had planned. And she knows this...

dompaul

Xper 5 Age: 36

Relationships

32-year-old guy dating 23-year old girl - is nine years difference too much?

I know age shouldn't matter, but I've known some young girls (maybe a year or two younger than that) who are pretty immature. This girl, she's lived on her own for a while, is finishing up her undergrad in the spring...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girls, how do you feel about the Vin Diesel look?

So I'm 24 and my hair is starting to get thinner. I'm starting to lift more and plan to shave my head eventually - hopefully when my muscles get a lot bigger. I probably won't get as outrageously big as Vin Diesel, but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend always ditches me at parties, do we need a break?

I've been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now. I have never been so madly in love with anyone. There has never been a doubt in my mind that I want to spend the rest of my life with him. We have our fights but we...

smsmalal

Xper 3 Age: 35

Flirting

If a guy says entertain me what should I say?

I was talking to this guy and he said I'm bored, entertain me

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Does it sound gay if a guy tells a girl ''sweet dreams''?

If you girls told a guy you were going to bed and then he messaged you back saying ''sweet dreams x'' does that come across as gay? Trying too hard? Obvious that he kinda likes you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, do you like delicate/fragile girls?

I get told all the time that I am delicate or fragile. I guess you could say I am sensitive, sometimes I look into what people say a bit to much or whatever, but I am not the type of girl that constantly cries at movies....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Do white guys find find east African girls attractive?

Do white guys find find east African girls attractive? eg. Ethiopian, Eritrean and Somalis

queen21

Xper 5 Age: 41

Girlfriend and her co-worker...Suspicion

So let me preface this by saying I met my girlfriend two years ago at work while she had a boyfriend. She cheated on him with me and a few months later broke up with him after 7 years to be with me. I know my girlfriend...

Anonymous

(36-45)