All Questions

Girls: Kiss on the cheek after a date? Eh? tl;dr at the bottom.

Alright, so I'll have to give a little history so that you understand where I'm coming from. But, I've been interested in this girl for a couple years now. We used to go to high school together. Didn't real make a move...

luzianne555

Xper 5 Age: 33

Society & Politics

Would this be a good message to write in a postcard to a girl?

In a few days, my family and I are leaving from Southern CA to spend some time in a distant ranch in Oregon for a family vacation. There's a girl in my city I really like and started hanging out with. I figured I'd send...

ShyFox515

Xper 3 Age: 34

Why does he comment on other women in front of me? What is the difference between: pretty, sexy, hot, etc?

I have been dating this guy for a few months and we have already said “I love you”. I have noticed he constantly comments on the appearance of other women. LITERALLY, EVERY TIME we talk I have to hear about how hot his...

Zarifina

Xper 5 Age: 41

Fashion & Beauty

Do guys like auburn hair?

or girls like natural auburn or medium to dark red hair (not burgundy, but copper colors) with freckles and light skin with warm undertones, and hazel (the kind that's dark green with brown flecks) it seems like most...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think he's waiting for me to text him?

This guy and I were texting for about two weeks, he just about always texted me first, every time I replied he would reply "right" back afterward. He'd text "good morning :)" and a couple of times would say goodnight. I...

LOVEART

Xper 6 Age: 35

Flirt with hair stylist/person cutting your hair?

so a couple days ago my brother went to a local salon which gives cheaper haircuts, but they are still good haircuts. so while he was there a girl pretty much asked if he wanted to hang out even tho he already has a girl...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We haven't kissed or held hands yet after 2 dates?

not even a kiss on the cheek, just a hug after each date. He asked me out for a 3rd time so he must like me? It's nice that he obviously doesn't want to use me for sex, he likes spending time with me. But is it odd that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long will she ignore me?

This girl and I were hitting it off so well and then I kind of pissed her off. She's been ignoring me and won't respond to my messages even though I have apologized. I know for a fact that she liked really liked me, so...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think it's necessary to talk to your boyfriend/girlfriend everyday?

is it necessary for you? I don't think it is. in fact I really wouldn't want to talk to someone every single day...maybe if we had been together for a really long time but I've been seeing someone for a couple of weeks...

natattack

Xper 3 Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

What does it usually mean when you catch a guy staring at you and he doesn't look away?

He even had his head tilted to just look at me and when I gave him like a 4 sec eye contact, I turned away, then I looked back at him and he still remained staring. He wasn't day dreaming because no one has they're head...

dartmai

Xper 3 Age: 34

Why does she want to call my attention after ignoring me for so long?

So I met this girl some time ago in a class we had, when we talked I reaally thought that she liked me, I mean she was giggling, laughing at what I said, being really friendly and helpful etc. Any how next day, she was...

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

How do you convince a guy to hook up with you?

there's this guy that I just recently met (4 weeks ago) that I really want to hook up with. he's single, I'm single, but I just don't know how to go about initiating this. I don't want any strings or emotional ties.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is this guy obsessed with my innocence?

My friends guy friend always picks on me when we go out. He is attractive but he already told my friend he only sees me as a friend. Last night, we all went to a movie and I invited my friend as well. Both my friends...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating someone with a learning disability and ADHD?

I'm extremely torn...So I've been dating this guy for about 2 months now. he's a really good guy etc. but I found somethings out that I wish he would have told me. He has a learning disability, bi polar and has ADHD. The...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I know if he is still interested after sleeping together on first date?

So I met this guy and we have been talking a lot. He is a great guy and seems to be what I am looking for. During our conversations sex did up and we agreed we both have a high sex drive but I explained I am not looking...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Can naturally dominant man somehow sense if a girl is submissive?

Lately I always attract the guys I like but it used to be so different. i wasn't sure of who I was and I attracted different guys. but now that I'm really comfortable with being me and love being feminine, it works out...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy likes you he will go out of his way?

To always be around you" ... or so its been said a ton of times. I am not asking for myself, although, I will probably use what I learn down the road, I am just asking to better understand all this stuff. To me, this...

dodgersmom11

Xper 4 Age: 44

Would you take a bullet for your girlfriend?

Four guys in the Aurora shooting did, intentionally or not. link They tried to save their girlfriends but did they actually know they would be shot? Guys, would you do this? Not just protect your girlfriend, would...

voit3

Yoda Age: 34

Society & Politics

Help me repair my bad reputation in college?

i was good person , but when I messed up everything with a girl in my college ,people see me as a jerk ,they don't treat me as the way I was treated before .also they spread false rumors about me (particularly that girl...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How much money should be spent on a first date?

Well, I'm just curious to how much a guy should spend on the first date. I'm talking about total cost for both persons. I'm thinking max $60 if I know the person pretty well and go dutch on a random girl that I don't...

DJLeftFoot

Xper 5 Age: 39

Do married men dream or fantasize about other women and is this normal?

I notice my husband checking out other women and although he tries to do it secretly, I am very observant and I catch him do it. I've learned not to let it bother me because I understand that this is "normal"...but now I...

VictoriaPena

Xper 5 Age: 40

Why didn't he smile back?

I saw my crush and I gave him a small smile. He stared at my lips for a couple seconds with a blank expression- I couldn't really tell what he was thinking. I gave him a slightly bigger smile and waved at him and he waved...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I'm really jelaous because my girlfriend keeps talking about magic mike

My girlfriend and I have been dating since last month and she went to see magic mike and she woulnt stop jabering about how hot they are and I got so jelaous that I sent a shirtless pic were I was wearing tight boxers and...

Emotic

Xper 5 Age: 30

Break Up & Divorce

He took our breakup so well...

My boyfriend and I of two years broke up a few days ago. We've been in a long distance relationship for a while now since he moved and eventually the distance was just too much; so I ended. That was obviously a very hard...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are people always trying to bring me down?

I just don't understand, why's everyone so mean to me. Always saying hurtful things. It's been like this since I was in grade 6 and it is not stopping. I always get negative comments about how I look and if it's not my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to know if a guy is clumsy around me because he is attracted to me?

What are some of the body language signs of clumsiness because I don't really understand when people use this term to mean attraction .Thanks.

Forever-Me

Xper 3 Age: 43

Would you go for a girl that's still sleeping with her ex?

I've known this girl for about 2 years now, but we hadn't seen much of each other during the last one and mostly kept in touch through internet. When I met her she was in a relationship but has now been single for a...

PunkEng013

Xper 5 Age: 46

Does anyone else wish they had never met their crush/ crushes?

I was so into him and also this other guy at college too. Both major crushes of mine! One of them totally treated me like I didn't exist, acted like he was better than me, like he didn't even need me etc he would ignore...

HoneySpiceSugar

Xper 5 Age: 38

Society & Politics

What paint color matches a black and silver wallpaper ?

I know that's so out of place, but really couldn't think of anywhere to ask this so I'm moving in a new house and I got a black and silver wallpaper to cover one side of the room, now I'm wondering which color should I...

DarkestAlleys

Xper 5 Age: 33