All Questions

How can I, as a dark skinned black female, make myself look exotic and beautiful?

Basically, I understand that there is an international standard of beauty which is all about promoting white looks. I don't look very white at all and I wouldn't change it for anyone's approval. I really love my skin...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why is it so attractive when a girl plays dumb or acts ditzy?

What makes a ditzy personality more attractive than an intelligent personality in your opinion? Don't say sex, because there are plenty of ditzy people who end up in relationships and it's more than just that. And I've...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Once beautiful, always beautiful?

If you once thought someone was attractive and they never did anything bad/wrong to you, would you still find them attractive a few years later?

understanding1

Xper 5 Age: 45

What to do when you have a huffing boyfriend?

My boyfriend has been huffing with me for a day and a bit now, a girl who constantly loves to wind me up but my boyfriend can't see it asked to talk to my boyfriend through bbm on my phone. I gave him the phone as I...

Erin_Babe

Xper 5 Age: 34

Is having someone tell you that you have long eyelashes a compliment?

I was getting contact lenses today and the girl there was showing me how to put them in and take them out, she was showing me how I should pull my eyelid up but I was having trouble, then she just goes 'wow you have...

Dantemustdie

Xper 3 Age: 34

I pretty sure I'm falling for my ex's cousin. Help!

I was with a guy for just 7 years. His family is a very close family and of course dating him for seven years obviously made me also come close with his family. I became best friends with a few of his cousins over the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why do some guys take so long in the bathroom?

My one brother takes like an hour in the bathroom and he didn't even shave! What's the deal? My other brother never did that?

LilKim

Xper 7 Age: 47

Did you ever get a piercing or tattoo behind your parents back?

Doesn't matter if you live at home or not. What did you do? Did they find out and were they mad?

CrystalMinds

Guru Age: 36

Apologetic while drunk?

My ex used to treat me like crap when we were dating. However, when he was drunk (not off his face drunk) he would be so apologetic that he wasn't treating me well and always told me how much I meant to him.

Anonymous

(30-35)

If his leg is touching mine?

I've known this guy for a long time and I had a crush on him for ages. one day he sat next to me on a table with a joint chair, his leg touched mine so I moved it away, then 5 minutes later he was touching me again so I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you like the secretary look? on girls

Like a tight pencil skirt with a blouse and nice make up. Something like this: link

MissNobody

Explorer Age: 33

Society & Politics

Girls do you ever feel a bit vulnerable wearing dresses?

Like if there's a sudden gust of wind it could blow up? Stuff like that. I think if I was a girl wearing a dress I would be worried someone could see up it. How do you feel about wearing dresses girls?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

My boyfriend's friend did not invite me to her birthday party, should I be offended?

My boyfriend is friends with this girl and has known her for a really long time . that's fine and everything I trust him completely , and she is also in a relationship and the guy lives with her . I've been with my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl smirks/half smiles is that a good thing?

Talking to this girl and she seems interested in what I'm saying but instead of smiling when appropriate she has this constant half smile on her face where she looks ready to smile or even laugh maybe. Can you visualize...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does she shy away from me if she sees me from a distance? Thanks for reading my details and for your answer!!

When I first met this girl about a month or 2 now she seemed very out going. she said she was a country girl. she was saying that when she throw another house party she would invite me because I was cool and we had a lot...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Meeting girls at a dog park?

I've been told a bunch of times by friends that I should take my dog to the dog park to meet girls. But I'm curious about a girls perspective... Does a guy with a cute dog come off more attractive to you? Or is it just an...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is 6'2 too tall or too short?

Recently I was out at this mixer. Me and this girl seemed to hit it off.we talk and had drinks for like 3 hrs. Later in the night she told me she was into my looks and personality but I was shorter then most the guys she...

jojobrooks

Xper 5 Age: 36

Is this girl creeped out by me or does she like me?

this girl I know of, I don't know her name, but I see her often and she is pretty cute I can't help but look at her. sometimes I see her looking at me and quickly looks away but doesn't smile. one time she looked at me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Always being the one to apologize?

I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for two years. We have amazing chemistry and have many similar interests. Things are generally good between the both of us when it comes to these areas. However, whenever we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

I drive a jeep wrangler...is that manly?

Hey, I was just wondering if a jeep wrangler is too much of a manly car for a girl to be driving? My parents think it is. Does a girl look stupid having a car like that? Just out of curiosity...what do you guys think?It's...

LyssNicole

Xper 3 Age: 34

Society & Politics

My dog has a ball of fat hanging off his shoulder?

MY dog is really old and he has had a ball of, fat it seems to be, hanging off of his shoulder. It doesn't seem to cause him any pain but it has gotten bigger. my uncle tried slicing it with a scalple so it could drain...

crazyinlove546

Xper 5 Age: 32

Dating

Why Does He Flirt With Me Even Though He Has A Girlfriend?

This guy I like & I have been flirting with each other for already a month. He texts me almost every day & tells me sweet things, like calling me "beautiful" but the problem is that... I just found out he has a girlfriend...

cherryluv16

Xper 6 Age: 31

Do guys really care about girls' arm hair?

I have some dark brown hair on my arms. They are pretty thin and short but you can see it. They look blond in the sun but appear darker when I'm inside. I used to shave my arms in high school, but it's so much work! I had...

eenymeenyminymoe

Xper 5 Age: 35

Dating

Should I send him a picture of me in a bikini?

So me and this guy that I've known for over a year we're texting. Totally randomly he asked me if I would ever kiss him. And I said well yeah if we were going out. And then he asked me if I thought he was hot. I said ha...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, for you, what would be a bigger giveaway that you are interested?

I know it usually depends on the girl but I'll give two examples: 1. You are nice to the guy, laugh at his jokes and you seem relaxed and start conversations easily. There may be some light teasing, high fives,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

The nicest way to tell someone stop texting me and delete my number.

I gave my number to a guy 3 days ago...and the dude has been blowing up my phone to no end. I am tired of telling him "I'm busy" I am tired of hearing him say "I'm sorry" I am tired of his good mornings, good...

Cuddle_Muffin

Yoda Age: 96

Why do guys usually find girls with short hair unattractive?

I've found that when I get my hair cut into a pixie, most of my male friends tell me that I should grow it out cause it's too masculine, but the pixie that I get is usually an asymmetric pixie bob, with side bangs, like...

etdippolito

Xper 3 Age: 30

Family & Friends

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't want me around his friends and I don't know why?

I need some help from anyone whos willing ! My boyfriend & I have been dating for 3 months.. We spend a lot of time together ,we spend weekends together & always have fun . Its very rare that we fight. Anyways I have a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys care about what girls smell like?

Do you have a preference like vanilla, floral, coconut, fruity etc. or do guys not care?

vancity

Xper 5 Age: 35

Guy's Behavior

I am tired of trying to figure him out. What happens here?

Everything goes well ... Have not heard from him in a week. I do not want to be the one who has to keep this going. What happens here? It's usually 50-50 but he goes through these periods of gap. I'm not pursuing this...

coconutbeach

Xper 3 Age: 69

How do you react when people call you "sweetheart" "sweetie" "honey" "dear" "pumpkin"

I had a teacher that called me pumpkin a lot. As I got older I started calling people sweetheart as a joke and now it's a habit. I'm a cashier..every once in a while, if it's a guy, their face gets red or they give me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did you ever place itching powder in a bra for your girlfriend or best friend?

Was this done for a prank? Was it to get even over an issue? Why did you done it?

Anonymous

(36-45)