My brother's girlfriend eats all of my family's food?

[Anonymous]

This has been going on for over a year and a half and she just recently moved out, but she still comes at night or whenever my mom makes my favorite dish and eats it all so I barely get any. I honestly didn't care at first but money is tight now and she's a big girl now (weight) and she eats so much of our food. I already talked to my parents about it and my dad also finds it annoying but my mom says that we are just being mean, than she always complains that she has to go shopping. I get so angry now every time I'm chilling in the family room watching TV at night I hear her trying to sneak food out of the pantry because she probably knows how annoying it is to us and I always see her and she tries to talk to me like it's fine. I'm really fed up and I sound like an ass hole but if you had someone mooching off your family's food, hospitality and basically money (not to mention she walks around the house in my clothes) for a year and a half you would be pissed also

[Ashley8282]

wow that would piss me off and that is so disrespectful.

Next time she sneaks food from the pantry Ior eats all of the supper/your leftovers would be blunt and something like "Hey I know you are a guest in our home but next time could you leave some for me. I haven't really had any"

or just straight up say at one point that its fine if she is over but the next time she goes digging in the pantry to ask before she takes something.

[xxjetaime]

Tell her that this isn't her home, but you can't really do anything about it unless your parents tell her and your bro...

[Anonymous]

you are over 18. MOVE OUT. Or stash your food somewhere. if your mom has a problem with her she'll handle it. but it's not your house or your food.

Also why does she have your clothes? hide your sh*t or don't complain.. get a safe.

[Asker]

i can't just move out I'm back from college for like 2 months what am I gonna do, buy an apartment just to waste it