All Questions

Why do guys ignore me in clubs/bars?

I am a tall, skinny, blonde...I'm really into hair/clothes/etc...So I'm almost always really put together. People are always telling me I'm beautiful and I get checked out/hit on all the time throughout the day. So I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, do you like spooning with your crush/girlfriend?

I was visiting my crush at his place a few days ago. We haven't kissed or anything, but when we were watching a movie, we just ended up spooning, with him as the big spoon. I know that most girls enjoy this, but what...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why does my man want me sitting on his lap?

My boyfriend is 18 years old and I'm 17 :) we been dating for a little over a month but we got really close. Well imma just get to the point we were at a store and he was sitting down and I was standing next to him...

Lexilove16

Xper 5 Age: 31

Health & Fitness

Carry all my weight in my stomach?

I feel like I carry all my weight in my stomach area. I am really self conscious about it and feel like it is a huge turn off any suggestions on how to get rid of it or "move it". Any advice is welcomed :) [IMG] link...

urfortunecookie

Xper 3 Age: 32

Dating

How can you tell if the guy really liked the kiss/makeout?

ok so me and my boyfriend had our first make-out session today, and we both smiled and blushed-alot!..he seemed to me like he liked it and he tolled me it wasn't bad.. but how do you know if he really had a good time by...

alzzey

Xper 5 Age: 31

Break Up & Divorce

My ex and I can't stop hooking up

My ex boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago. A month later, he wanted to get back together and told me I'm the only girl he's ever loved and he wanted to make the appropriate compromises to work things out. I was very...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do player guys ever feel guilty and come back to their ex?

do player guys ever feel guilty and come back to their ex?do they have emotions and feel sorry for the gals who loved them genuinely and they just played?any chances for them to come back and be loyal again..any...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys who give you the once over look...

What does that mean? You're interested or just normal?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys holding a girl's hand while driving?

When a guy holds a girls hand while driving. What does this mean?..and what kind of girl does it have to be for you to do this? Would you say it is a way of showing affection, how much you care about the person, or do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, do you have a problem with walking away from an attractive woman that is "hot-and-cold" with you?

Let's say you meet a girl, she's flirty and seems to like you, you exchange numbers. Then when you see her in person, she's hugged up on another guy (and seems to want to MAKE you see her doing this to make you jealous),...

Prof_Don

Master Age: 40

Boyfriend wants to get gauges?

My boyfriend wants to get gauges but I really don't want him to. He gets mad every time I say that, but I don't think its a good idea, I think they look trashy, and I just don't like them. what do I doooo

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: What do you think about a girl with abs?

Do you like your girl to have abs or not? Turn on or turn off?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Tanning.... Help!? Can't seem to tan breasts, lower abdomen, or butt...

i tan naked, But I just started tanning naked this year. I have Indian in my blood, so I tan very easily, and tend to keep most of the tan all year long. The problem is.. I've been tanning for so many years without going...

daphneouellette

Xper 5 Age: 31

What if your child never wanted to be born?

It's hypothetical, and I'm not saying that he's depressed and wants to commit suicide The fact that he had no choice/consent in wanting to be born, it was forced upon him simply by the selfish actions of the parents to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why does he text me random things?

My ex text me randomly last week he asked what college did I choose to go to. Then he texted me yesterday asking for earrings that he can have Because I wear guy studs . I didn't text him back the first time but the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Guys does the jealousy game work with you?

I know its childish and normally I wouldn't pull it out, but my friend and I have been playing games with each other for about two years now. I'm ready to be done with it or at least gauge his interest a little better. I...

whattothink

Guru Age: 44

Guys, is there a reason for you to be speechless around a girl other than having a crush on her?

I mean if you are speechless around her for many many months but talks normally to everybody else.Thank you in advance for answering.

SouthEastAsian

Xper 3 Age: 52

Why is that some guys are turned off by strong women? Do they prefer women who are prim and proper?

I have a strong personality that doesn't seem to attract the guys I want to. I don't believe that I should tone down my personality but is this right?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean if a boy fidgets or moves a lot when he's talking to you ?

i was talking to my friend who's a boy that I like, and he was moving a lot! he had a bottle in his hand and he kept moving it from hand to hand? he also was just fidgeting and all that ? oh and he called me a stu which...

katie_mcn

Xper 5 Age: 33

She can't look me in the eye? What does this mean?

This girl I like was telling me a story and we were standing probably one foot facing each other. As she was telling me the story she would look at me for a split second and look down and away, and then turn her head to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you feel when your crush compliments another guy/girl in front of you?

I tend to feel like I'm less adequate for him. I immediately compare myself and feel down. I know its kinda silly, but it happens. Wbu?

Anonymous

(30-35)

The scale says I weigh less than ever, but I really have never looked chubbier?!

110 pounds and 5'7". I'm skinny everywhere else but my stomach is so chubby! I've been looking at the same scale and I went from 116 to 110 and my stomach looks fatter than before?!

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why does this guy always sing around me?

Okay this is a legitimate question, my classmate who I think likes me always sings around me and its songs like Boyfriend (Justin Beiber) or Layla (Eric Clapton) or other songs like them. So why does he do this? Is he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does this guy always takes his shirt off in front of me?

This guy that I know , He's a mutual friend of me and my man. But I noticed he likes taking his shirt off in front of me. We could be talking and instead of him going in the bedroom to change he does it right in front...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does it look like I'm balding and have a big forehead?

My mom commented on it today. She said in pictures it looks like I'm balding and it makes me look stupid. This is the pic I took today that caused this convo. Does it look like I am balding? Does it make me look bad and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it weird that I find girls attractive wearing the hijab?

In case you do not know what the is here's the definition and pics: A head covering worn in public by some Muslim women. link link For some reason, it looks nice to me. It's intriguing. Just to yet you know,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why the hell does my 12 year old sister scream so much?

All she ever does is scream at me, scream when things go wrong scream for no real reason. For example she will think the cat is going to pounce at her but will be crouched down starting at the cat and start screaming and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to lace Converse low tops (chuck taylor)?

Howdy I just bought some converse lows, but I have no idea how to tie the laces so that the bows don't show e.g. link I've done it with adidas high tops, but that was easy as you just put the bow behind your ankle...

lozza4

Xper 5 Age: 31

Why is she avoiding the boyfriend word in front of me?

There this girl I was interested in and we hit it off really well but I found out she had a boyfriend (she doesn't know I found this out) but she has never mentioned him to me and she never talks about him to any of her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Could I work out everyday if I'm taking Creatine?

The same muscle groups everyday. Creatine is supposed to lessen muscle breakdown and speed up muscle recovery, is this enough to make working out everyday a viable option?

tmc1324

Xper 5 Age: 32