All Questions

What do you prefer....hugs or kisses?

hugs or kisses? why explain... thanks :)

amy69

Xper 3 Age: 34

Is it normal to feel guilty after hugging another guy?

i have a boyfriend but he is out of the city for like a week now and I haven't heard from him due to phone connection problems. I saw an old fling this morning when I went to buy at the store around the lane from my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How do I tell my boyfriend I cheated and pregnant with another man?

Please don't judge me I have already called myself every name under the sun already. Me (17) and my boyfriend (21) of two years have started trying for a baby. I have been off birth control for around a year now and he...

MeikaWong

Xper 5 Age: 32

Girl's Behavior

Guy I'm dating is moving slow as a turtle.... Is he interested or not?

I met this guy at work approximately four months ago and we've been on maybe 4-5 dates. He's very much a gentlemen, we have fun on dates and speak fairly frequently however, he is just not asking me out on a consistent...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do you girls have to take my clothes!?!?!?!?!

Well why do you take my clothes (sweaters, sport shorts, even my fricken shirts) I'm friends with multiple girls and they always want to wear my clothes and its annoying me why do girls want to wear my clothes... its...

Yaygorn

Xper 5 Age: 32

She's so nervous, never looks in my eyes, runs away...what does it mean?

There's this girl I see here and then in college. Initially she would always look down and talk very strict, and when I'd say something funny or nice she would smile a big smile, seems like she's trying to think what to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Ladies, what is your favorite ethnicity when it comes to guys? If you have one?

Is there any race or ethnic backgrounds that you find have more of the qualities you desire in a man? Why or why not?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shapely High Arches?

I've been told that my arches are extremely high and shapely, almost the model female feet. I've been doing ballet for years, and that's no doubt contributed, but I've never really thought mine to be exceptionally higher...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a girl tilts her head, smiles, and stares at you?

i was talking to this one girl, and when I made a funny comment, she did the above. what could it mean?

timex987

Xper 5 Age: 31

Family & Friends

Have you ever lost a bet?!

Today I lost a bet... me and my friends were playing volleyball, and we decided that the losers will have to get piercings... the game was going great until a stupid chick decided to throw a frisbee right towards my...

likenoother

Xper 5 Age: 34

What are some good ways to break the touch barrier?

Girls, what are some good and creative ways that a guy could break the touch barrier?

Mac5500

Xper 5 Age: 32

My boyfriend won't make a move, how should I tell him I want him to?

we've been dating for 2 months, we hug, but he hasn't even tried to hold my hand yet.

pheobekelly

Xper 5 Age: 31

Would a guy give his hoodie to any girl?

Okay so, picture yourself as a 16 year old boy and you're with all of your friends. Girl is cold. Would you give your hoodie to whoever it was that was cold or would it have to be someone you like? help very much...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to deal with an arrogant guy?

By arrogant, I mean someone who brags about EVERYTHING, and thinks he's god's gift to humanity, much less women. If I ignore his bragging will he leave me a lone? or if I compliment him and say he's handsome or sexy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would he say "see you soon"?

If you hooked up with someone one night and then the next day went your separate ways without exchanging phone numbers, why would the guy say "see you soon"? It was a guy in fraternity I hooked up with and there are big...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He acts differently with me when we're alone than when we're with people. Is it normal or does it mean anything?

He acts differently with me when we're alone than when we're with people. Differently as in so much nicer, and almost flirty but not quite. We're sort of closer. We talk about things and then we stop when other people...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I asked her out, she said she'd let me know, but hasn't yet.

I've known this girl since last fall. She's very shy and quiet yet has always given me signs she likes me, as in constant smiling, long gazes, giggling and so forth, yet we rarely see each other. We've been teasing and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is this bad? I'm 21 and never kissed a girl?

Just wanna know what you girls think about it. Just check out my profile to see what I look like lol. I think I could get a kiss if I want haha. Its just I don't know if I'm waiting for the right girl. Which one best...

Anonymous

(36-45)

"Absence makes the heart grow fonder" or "out of sight, out of mind"? Which one do you agree with?

Both idioms are cliches, but an oxymoron next to one another. Which one do you agree with and why? For clarification: "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" - when people are apart, their love grows stronger. "Out of...

tohrment

Xper 6 Age: 35

People say I'm pretty but I still have low self-esteem?

Not to sound conceited, but a lot of people say I'm pretty and beautiful. I just don't see it. I feel really ugly a lot of times, and I take really bad pictures. My boyfriend is gorgeous, but sometimes I feel like I'm not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do most guys feel entitled to a chance?

Yes women are less visual than men but they're not blind it's just that men value looks more than women so women are more capable of compromising on looks. The way women and women compromise on looks is different. Women...

udolipixie

Guru Age: 35

Shopping & Gifts

A girl told me she can't read me??

what is the meaning of this what are girls reading in a guy

gtex1991

Xper 6 Age: 35

Why do guys wear underwear with their bathing suit?

their bathing suit. so guys why do you do this? that's so strange to me...

bleepbloop

Xper 6 Age: 35

Relationships

Why does a man feel the need to call a woman derogatory names?

Almost every time my boyfriend and I have an argument, he calls me names like stupid bitch, chicken head, and sometimes ****. If he loves me like he says he does, how can he allow himself to call me names like that? :(

charbing

Xper 5 Age: 42

Do guys like outgoing girls?

I mean I'm outgoing as I could go up to someone and start a conversation without even knowing their name. I'm confident and I'm also a bigger girl. (working on that part.) I'm shy about some things, but mostly I can talk...

angeltears2010

Xper 5 Age: 34

Society & Politics

If my guy friend asks how many kids do I want?

Me and my guy friend were having lunch at his house one day when he asked me if I wanted kids and how many and what would I name my little girl and boy. Why is he asking me this? He also told me he wanted a little girl....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

He said, "I feel deeply for you."

What exactly does that mean? I know he likes me, but why would he say this instead of I like you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can you tell someone they need to wash their clothes?

they need to wash their clothes becuase they smell like a dead animal.. without offending them? this guy I know wears clothes like this to work, iv actually felt like puking and it disgusts me. iv hinted around but...

ambermarie

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why do girls always get the short end of the stick?

From answers I have read on this site, guys have no empathy for women who are used by players. So why do so many guys feel bad for "nice" guys that can't get any? Just seems like the male version of the girl taken by a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He seems interested, but won't make a move?

So I just exchanged numbers with a guy I work with who seems to be really interested in me. He's shy, so I was the one that made the move and asked for his number. As soon as we did, he texted me 10 minutes later and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

How much should a guy spend on a promise ring?

my boyfriend wants to get me one when I go see him next weekend (long distance relationship). He makes 1400 a month and has no bills at all (military). How much do you think would be a reasonable amount to spend? I...

celiabedelia

Xper 5 Age: 31

Relationships

Are we exclusive? Is it necessary to have "the talk?"

I've been dating a guy for 2 months. He's 47 and I'm 38 if that's of any relevance. He calls and/or texts me every day (not constantly., just once a day usually, which is good). He's taken me out to dinner with some of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)