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I don't like being called "lady" don't people call you that when you're OLD looking?

i was always referred to as girl or woman...and today someone referred to me as LADY and it felt really awkward and wrong because I'm not used to it...and I feel so old and self conscious afterward. I know its just a word...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think it's weird for high school girls to date younger?

like, would it be weird if a sophomore girl dated a freshman guy. I know it wouldn't matter so much later in life, but what do you think? Just in terms of how people might see it. Like, I'm aware of all the potential...

Anonymous

(30-35)

GUYS: How do you feel about a bob haircut?

I cut my hair yesterday, and in the back it is mid-neck. The front of it is 1/2 of an inch above my collarbone. I actually really like the haircut because I feel that it suits me better than my long hair did (it used to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are backless dresses slutty?

So...i got into an argument with a friend about backless dresses..she kept saying it makes girls look cheap are whorish. I think they look cool link

Cuddle_Muffin

Yoda Age: 96

Ladies, is it creepy or desperate if your crush approaches you while you are both walking opposite ways?

Like you are heading south while he's heading north. In my imagination, it should be considered desperate if not creepy if I go for the approach. Problem is I have dealt with this a lot in school. I see a girl that I find...

yellowmamba024

Explorer Age: 35

Awkward stage after rejection?

Is there anyway to get past the awkward stage after rejection where the two people can't even look each other in the eyes anymore or are they doomed to be forever stuck never speaking to each other again?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do men like weak, submissive girls

after the way my ex treated me I am now a very strong minded, opinionated,open person who will stand up for herself and back then I was a very weak,shy girl...guys I know seem to like girls who act dumb purposely and are...

rachael19

Xper 7 Age: 36

How to tell a girl is interested/not through text messaging?

Is it possible? What are the signs that she is interested in you/not interested when sending her text messaging or Facebook?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you date a bald girl?

I was recently diagnosed with PCOS, which make me produce more androgens. And that leads to androgenic alopecia, the type men have. I know about the if he loves you he'll accept you thing, but to be in a relationship...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do romantic relationships bring out the worst in me?

my motto is typically "i don't do relationships". I avoid them at all costs, at least deep down that's what I want. my behavior in romantic relationships or even in close friendships is I have a tendency to become...

supervixxen

Xper 6 Age: 33

Pros and Cons of dating a guy with a child

I've been getting to know this guy for about 2 months. He just recently told me that he has a child. I'm not really a motherly figure, I don't have the patience for children that other girls might. I think he picked...

DiEms

Xper 6 Age: 34

Girls, do you care if your man's room was messy when you went over?

And didn't bother to clean up when you got there? Does it matter that much to you or no?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Girls, if a guy had to drive a minivan would you date him?

Would it matter to you if a guy had to drive a minivan... maybe because it was a hand me down from his parents and he hasn't gotten enough money to buy something better yet. Could you date him or is that a deal breaker?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Girls: do you always feel bad when you friendzone a guy?

because I just friendzoned a friend of mine who is a good woman, but just not my type and I feel terrible

TedStar

Guru Age: 34

Society & Politics

What do firefighter's wear under their gear?

I am going in for firefighting. I was wondering what do they wear under the gear? How much does the gear weight?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Jealous of crush's Facebook activity?

i feel like a total creeper...but sometimes I can get jealous over the most meaningless things on Facebook when it comes to this girl I like. i recently saw that she posted a random song on a guy's wall she just...

amoda

Xper 6 Age: 35

Guys: you get that cute girl's number. How long do you wait before calling/texting her?

You meet a cute girl and really hit it off. She gives you her number when you ask and you both go your separate ways. How long until you contact her?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I think I'm harassing my ex boyfriend... Please help me..

a couple of weeks ago, I broke up with my boyfriend, hastily. I told him it isn't working for me, that I'm taking down the relationship status until we can have time for each other, and since we didn't really talk for 2...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it right for my boyfriend to travel with his platonic female friend since he has a girlfriend (me)? or is it OK since were not married or engaged yet?

My boyfriend and I are together for a year and 2 months. We are very close and have met each others families plus we cuddle a lot and he's always very affectionate with me and all over me (even in public) and we do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do guys deal with bitchy, bossy, mean girls?

I've recently asked another question on here and got quite a few nasty answers from girls. Now already as a girl I'm completely put off by them but I wonder how guys deal with it, since there seems to be more and more...

shesaladyround2

Xper 3 Age: 36

Family & Friends

My mom calls me a pig but complains about me eating healthy?

My mom will always buy unhealthy crap like brownies, cookies, cake, Ice cream or chips mainly for herself and my stepdad. She'll freaking call me a pig or make comments about me eating them or call me a pig if I eat 'too...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Girlfriend goes to concert with friend?

We live together and have been with each other a year. The guy is coworker/friend. Not worried about them two together but pissed hake I was asked. She calls and says "do you trust me with xxxx" I say ummm why? Kind of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I asked her out for coffee, and she said yes?

Like would you say "yes" if you didn't like the guy ?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why can't my ex husband look at me in the eyes face to face still 7 months after he left me?

"We were not married for a year even when he left me in a text message because he was a coward to tell me to my face, we were together for almost 8 years & have a 6 year old child together, he left this time for a 18 year...

EvilWolvezAngel1

Xper 5 Age: 51

Is it true when they say, "sorry I have a boyfriend?"

I'll see a cute girl shopping, and I'll walk up to her and say how's her day going, has she went to school around the area, SMALL TALK. Then I say do you text? She says yes, and I say cool, give me your number so I can...

Double_O_69

Xper 5 Age: 37

Where have all the good men gone?!

A pretty self explanatory question. However I have the worst luck with men.. Its not that I have low standards (at least I don't think I do) or over high expectations. I want an honest, loyal, intelligent person. Is...

pnutchelle

Xper 5 Age: 37

Girl self-conscious about her looks around me?

I haven't seen this girl in years(3 years). She said, "Do I look the same?" I said "yeah" and she said "Thank you" under her breath. An hour later she said "I got thicker right?" I told her she looked fine, but she said...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a girl covers her face like this?

I like this girl a lot but I don't know how she feels. We were in a group and we were talking about how one day we should exchange and do each others' homework randomly. One of my friends told the girl "you should do him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is my friend so obsessed with marriage/babies/relationships?

Don't get me wrong, I want to get married someday, I really do. But I just don't understand why my friend is so obsessed with who is getting married/having kids/moving in together/ etc... in our circle. It's good to keep...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would consider 4"6 a midget or dwarf?

do you consider 4"6 a midget or a dwarf? & would you date a man of that height?

Anonymous

(30-35)

My guy says he's happy we met what does he mean by that?

I cannot get him to open up I know he feels something,every time he kisses me he interlocks fingers with me and he always shows up on time to pick me up for our dates.I have been with him for 2 months already.When I ask...

flaca72

Xper 5 Age: 50

Society & Politics

Will college increase my chances of finding a girlfriend?

Next September I start college and I'm really interested in finding a girlfriend. I've never dated before and I am pretty shy. What hurts me is my shyness makes it hard for me to make eye contact with people. I like to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would it be wrong to wear red lipstick to my friend's wedding?

I wear red lipstick everyday. It's my signature lip color basically. Well I am going to be a bridesmaid in my in a friends wedding and I was talking to my Mom about how I'd do my makeup for the wedding and she said she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you date someone who hates animals?

I love animals, we have 3 cats at home. But my boyfriend hates animals, when my cat comes to him he always says to him to go away , won't pat it, or says that my cats stinks ( they really don't) . He said he just doesn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She's gone from friendly to just plain cold and ignoring me, what to do?

OK so there this girl at work we got on fairly well but now she just completely ignores me, She is on the shy side but it makes no sense every1 else is fine towards me and I've noticed she talks to everyone else...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How do you men deal with a breakup?

I just broke up with my boyfriend 6 days ago and it seems like he didn't care. He didn't fight for me, communicate to me, or show signs that he was concerned. He just simply ignored me. Why do some men act like this? And...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend acting distant now that my birthday is approaching

He didn't do anything last year.. that really hurt my feelings.. I feel like he won't do anything this year either and that's why he's already starting to avoid me ... should I just tell him, you can relax I'm not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

GREEN LIGHT: How do I let a dense guy know I'm interested?

I try to talk and hang out with my crush whenever I can, but my friends tell me he'll never construe it as me flirting with him since I'm generally friendly with most people, and he's also quite dense. It's true, I am...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I said I love you and she didn't say anything?

I told her a couple of days ago that I loved her and she really didn't say anything. She just laid there next to me. Her actions say that nothing is wrong at all. We are just like normal there, but she hasn't mentioned it...

botme

Xper 5 Age: 42