All Questions

Why do girls cross their arms when they take their shirts off?

The left hand grabs the lower right side, the right hand grabs the lower left side and then they pull the shirts off over their heads. When I and most guys take ours off, we typically grab the collar and pull over our...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is my boyfriend mean to me, but nice to everyone else?

my boyfriend (of 3 months) and I go to grad school together. my class is very small so we all know each other. sometimes my boyfriend makes strange statements to me. he once called me annoying, even though someone else...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do some guys suddenly put their head down when talking to me?

I encounter this when buying things from them.They look several years younger than me.I am talking to them and asking for a particular product and they suddenly put their head down and look at the side or the ground.This...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

How common is it for a college senior to date a college freshman?

If you had asked me in high school I would have said no way it's weird. We are on two totally different pages in our lives. I still kind of believe that. But anyway, an RA in my building is a senior and at first I was...

bratattack

Xper 5 Age: 33

Other

Do white men find black women attractive?

Hello I am a African American women who is attending college. I have always been attracted to white guys but never ever dated one. I would like to I think that would be different. Here at college I get flirted with and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this flirting? feeding someone else?

Ok so I'm at work and one of my friends (who is a girl and has a boyfriend) comes in and I say hi to her and we sit and talk for a bit. She was eating chips and she's like "Want some?" and I was like "nah I'm good, my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I like the "weird" guy in my class?

The guy in my class is kinda socially awkward. he's kind of seen as a little weird/anti-social but people are coming round to talking to him. I'm very shy myself but he also isolates himself unless he's spoken to. I've...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Have you ever been serenaded or serenaded someone?

What song did they pick? I want to serenade a certain girl, not the best guitarist but I will have to practice hard for it, just interested in some ideas.

NothingGoldCanStay

Xper 3 Age: 36

Do girls like guys that are sappy? Guys that get emotional?

I'm just wondering if girls like guys that are emotional. Do girls see guys that are like this as weak or not manly? If a girl sees you like this, what is the best way to get her to not see you like this again?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys like to have there scalp messaged so much?

In class one day one of my girl classmates just started gently and slowly running her fingers threw a guys friend of hers hair and messaging his scalp and he just turned to mush. He dropped and literally in a few minutes...

Haley10015

Xper 5 Age: 32

No kiss after spending the night-is that a bad sign?

So a guy I met recently spent the night last night and when saying goodbye,there was no kiss-just a long,tight hug. Now I'm thinking a)he doesn't want to see me again or b)he wanted to avoid morning breath. He did...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Did my boyfriend break up with me because of stress?

He broke up with me the other day after getting irritated because I asked him a question. It was a simple honest question, he got pissed off at me. So because I did not want to deal with him being difficult I told him I'd...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

I keep accidentally "liking" stuff here on Facebook!

It shows up on my Facebook page that I "liked" something on this site, which I had no intention of "liking". I need it to stop happening! Is there any setting I can change (either on Facebook or here) that will prevent...

Anonymous

(30-35)

It bothers you when you have to obey a lot of rules?

It bothers you when you have to obey a lot of rules? This is yet another question to one of those job assessment tests at the end of an application. So pretend you are answering from that perspective Choose from the...

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

Why are women so harsh when they reject men?

Whatever happen to respect and honor? I mean if you don't like a guy its totally OK and must men would be fine understanding that, but most women seem to be so out of line, a mean as if the guy owe them respect for...

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

Society & Politics

What does touche mean?

I hear people say it but I have no clue what it means so someone please tell me Thanks Oh and I don't even know if that is how you spell it lol

THAT-1-guy

Yoda Age: 30

Is it good to be called a player?

This girl I'm really close friends with knows me to good. We hang out a lot, eat lunch together, we trust each other, we buy each other things, and so on. I do find my friend attractive but I don't know why she called me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy kisses your hand while lying in bed?

I know its usually a way for them to show deference/respect to the woman but does the meaning change if you're lying in bed together? I've known this guy for awhile, we used to work together and this was the first night...

Samnyc

Xper 3 Age: 41

I'm waiting for her to text me - is this the right move?

Hey all, first of all, thanks in advance for the advice. This website is really great sometimes. Anyways, I met this girl a while back, and we really hit it off. She always returned my phone calls/texts, but it's been...

etwake

Xper 5 Age: 39

How to stand out at a concert? (Small venue)

Me and my friend are going... I want to stand out (hence this question). Is there anything a girl can do at a venue like this that would make an impact? (Way she acts, way she dresses, hair, makeup, etc...)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did she suddenly change attitude toward me?

So there's this girl in my class who I have heard likes me and well I like her too. Usually she enjoys talking to me and it is pretty obvious she likes me. Everyday for 2 weeks, I would ask her if I could borrow her...

Skrizzel

Xper 5 Age: 32

How would you deal with a rude sales person?

Like if you were shopping for expensive item(s), and he says something like "...you take too much time to decide" along with a face gesture that's very rude as if he can't stand you. Aren't you supposed to take your time...

knowmeyourself

Master Age: 39

Break Up & Divorce

Will he ever contact me again?

There is this guy who I was really into a couple years ago and we broke up. Right now he is dating someone else and so am I and we aren't even talking but I think about him a lot still. I just don't contact him because he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I like a girl, but she has too many guys behind her? Too much competition?

How the hell can I make a girl to fall for me, when I have a lot of competition? I mean this girl is gorgeous, good girl, nice and friendly...i mean its pretty much anything a guy could ask for. But yeah like I said I...

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

Break Up & Divorce

How should I respond to this apology letter?

So after almost 8 months broken up from a 4ish year relationship, I got an email yesterday from my ex, apologizing for the way he treated me. It's not a letter from him regretting that he lost me and want me back, but a...

emily155

Xper 5 Age: 40

He insulted me the whole date?

I went on my second date with this guy and he basically put me down at every point in the conversation. I felt like it might be a defense mechanism because he's intimidated, but he seriously made me feel like an idiot....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is it bad for me to be upset when my girlfriend grinds with other guys?

Hey I need some advice that I can't seem to get a answer too. I have been with my girlfriend for 2 months now and we are going great. except... I don't like when she grinds with random guys at the club when we go...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does he keep coming back to me? need a guy's opinion!

OK so trust me I already know what I've done is wrong so if you are just going to harp on me for that then please don't comment- I need a real answer. So this guy and I have been texting and sexting for over a year now...

Anonymous

(36-45)

"I'm just going with the flow" ...what does it mean a guy says this?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. Yesterday he said he is "just going with the flow" of the relationship. Does this mean he's not thinking of taking it a step further? Or does it mean that he is only with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when someone says you do no wrong in their eyes?

My sisters husband said zoey does no wrong in my eyes what does that mean I have never herd that saying before

iloveyouto

Xper 3 Age: 31

Girls, what would be your motivation for constantly teasing a guy?

I have noticed that this classmate of mine teases me (playfully) a lot. Actually we do it to each other and most of the time we are arguing and calling each other names. Although her personality is being a bit of a smart...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is it an ego boost for a man to get with a girl his daughter's age?

Not if his daughter is a child but if she's in her 20s?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dream Interpretation: My boyfriend had a baby with his ex and never told me?

I just had a dream that my boyfriend had a baby with his ex, not while we were together but in general He learned about it and was ranting about it on Facebook but it was indirectly like "i can't believe shed do that to...

DesiVega

Xper 4 Age: 34