All Questions

Do guys usually cuddle their "booty" call?

A guy I've been seeing on and off for two years has recently cam back in my life it was meant to be a "booty" call from what I could gather he says he doesn't want a girlfriend which was fine by me but after the initial...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Define: Dumbing yourself down to get a guy

Say you are a very intelligent girl, college grad, Independant and attractive. You are ultimately looking for a relationship but you are also open to anything (like if a guy is not relationship material but you could...

bijinbijinbijin

Explorer Age: 37

Girls, what does it mean if you let a guy touch your legs?

Pretty much what the question asks. And I mean if you're wearing shorts or a skirt, so it's all bare skin. What does it mean if you let a guy touch your legs? And in turn, who do you let touch your legs? For example, if...

whatthefisup

Xper 5 Age: 34

If a girl asks for your advice about another guy

There's a girl who I've recently gotten to know. . .Ive caught her looking at me many times when we are at meetings for some extra curricular events. We've spoken every now and then, and she's also invited me along to an...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He never talks about his wife?

I have a male friend who is married and has 2 kids. He tells me about his time with the kids and stuff he does with them, but he never mentions his wife in any of his stories. I know she's part of their time together....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Can a guy really stop caring so quick?

Me and my ex broke up like 3weeks ago. Before the breakup he was mad at my friend Because my friend was telling people he was gay. I was the one who told my ex first so I could calm him down so if he heard it anywhere...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend won't let me meet his friends. Should I worry?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and I have not met his friends that he talks so much about. I have asked him why and he tells me that I should just drop it and focus more on our relationship. Makes sense...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Asking her to hang out without being "creepy"?

so I'm gonna ask this girl to hang out who works at this place I frequent. the problem is that I want to do it in a way that's not "creepy." I've been hanging out with my friends (girls) and they get hit on by guys and...

CafeWRX

Xper 5 Age: 41

Girls, do indirect compliments have a meaning?

If a girl says to a guy something like that "my brother says you're cool" or "My friend says you talking good" (or such indirect compliments), does she mean anything? If she says this kind of compliments, right after the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do Black and White People Flirt the Same Way?

This is a question for everyone, not just white & black people. Asian, Hispanic, etc. etc. So how does your race/culture flirt? if someone wanted to date an individual from your culture/race what should they do? **No...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

Men with big juicy lips?

do you ladies like men with big juicy lips? if so why?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is being called pretty less than beautiful?

Cause I consider beautiful to be the top how bout you?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

For what reasons do women see men as low value?

I've hear that high value or value of a guy is a big part of the attraction for a girl. Girls think about that for a second and maybe factor in what deems a guy high value to low value. Also maybe factor in why this is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it weird to wear fake eyelashes to school?

I got fake eyelashes for the first time to wear to prom. I really like the way I look with them and I'm not ready to take them off yet. :( I got them done at a shop so their supposed to last a while, and I've only had...

mormollio

Yoda Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean if a guy says he is just "checking in" on you?

At one point we were seeing each other, but it had never really gone anywhere. That was the first time I've heard from him since he came to say goodbye to me before I left school for the summer. This was over Facebook...

HidingMyHeart

Explorer Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

Do you think being reminded of your ex is JUST a coincidence?

Today, twice, I heard me & my ex's song. It's an older, cheesy, 90s song. So, it's never really on the radio & it's not really popular anymore. It's rare to hear it unless purposely looking for it. (Kiss Me by Six Pence...

LittleWing

Xper 5 Age: 32

Girl's Behavior

Does anyone else get annoyed when someone steps on your shoes?

I don't know, it just seems to be my worst pet peeve. Like, I'll be walking and someone will step on the heel of my shoe or they'll be coming towards me and they'll step on them o.o not even sure how that's possible,...

LexiNinja

Xper 4 Age: 30

Dating

Why do guys suddenly stop texting sometimes?

Why do guys suddenly stop texting sometimes?...There's this guy I text a lot and sometimes he'll just suddenly stop texting and then text back between 12-2 in the morning...other times he'll say something and I'll text...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Best friend flirting/kissing me on the lips...?

So my best guy friend is always pretty much flirting with me. He always holds my hand, cuddles with me, calls me beautiful every single day, says he would kill himself if he ever lost me, kisses me on the lips, etc... A...

lyssaxminer

Xper 3 Age: 30

My parents are severely overweight and it's embarrassing...what to do?

My parents are both VERY overweight (not like so fat they can't fit through doors) but it is REALLY embarrassing for me. I don't want people, especially guys I date, to meet them at all. I hate when people tell me I look...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

If an American guy calls a girl "wild thing"? what does it mean?

Someone call me like that, I like him, but I'm foreign and I don't understand... he thinks I'm a whore?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do women find veiny arms/forearms attractive?

I've decided to work out and eat healthy and I've noticed I have fairly veiny arms. Sometime my arms will be veiny for no reason or if I reach to pick up something . My question is: What do women think about veins?...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guy emails me: is he interested or just being friendly?

I've started to talk more frequently with a guy at work. We pretty much confide in each other about work related stuff and he's easy to talk to. We're also nerds and chat about conspiracy stuff! The other day he asks for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have you ever became attracted to a guy after he became hot?

Say he was chubby/fat before and you've always liked him as a platonic friend. The next time you saw him he was just very rugged/muscular with a new confidence. I'm just asking because I've recently changed a great...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys avoid girls they like/attracted to?

Hey guys :) So I know there are probably a lot people who have asked this question, but I really want an exact response to my personal situation : So there's this guy I've liked for a while, and I finally decided to...

ElleKay

Xper 5 Age: 32

Other

Guys, do you like pigtails on girls?

Just wondering.. I know men like the look for sexual reasons, but do you enjoy them on women as a normal day hairstyle?

jokersgirl

Xper 7 Age: 36

What about a white bikini?

I'm looking for a new bikini for this summer. I really like the look of white bikinis on the models, but I'm not sure if I should get one. I have a slight tan (store-bought lol), and I'm thinking that the white would...

proudtexasgirl

Explorer Age: 34

Society & Politics

Do girls like gearheads? (Guys that are into cars)

I am a car fanatic, not in a bad way but I admire and love to talk about cars and their specs. So do girls like guys that are into cars? Or do you find them annoying?

DAKILLATM

Xper 5 Age: 32

Other

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends?! Seriously!?

I was just listening to the Spice Girls song (Wannabe), and was just wondering if anybody else finds that line in the song, both funny and misleading? I mean really, " If you wanna be my lover, you got get with my...

loveisbeautiful

Editor Age: 39