All Questions

Guys what do you think of BIG boobs, girls what sizes are you ?

I guess its a silly question, but mine are overly big. Guys constantly stare at them. Wish I could hide them lol. I get conscious a lot of the time :/ I feel a bit violated. Its not all good as they weigh me down. I've...

Shannon18

Xper 5 Age: 33

If a guy is amused by you is that a good thing or a bad thing?

Cause my friend says "he's amused by you." Thanks for answering I was asking my girlfriend how you can convince guys that you don't care about anything other than God, philosophy and the bible and then he walks into...

think_of_the_bubble

Xper 4 Age: 41

Thinking of asking him "so when are you gonna ask me out?" - guys what do you think?

Yay or nay? Too forward? I'm 100% certain this guy is interested but we haven't had many private time opportunities so it has in fairness been difficult. But just to tease him/ help the situation along I was thinking of...

yauch

Xper 6 Age: 39

Health & Fitness

How unattractive are pale legs in shorts?

I'm really pale. I don't tan because I don't look right tan. My face doesn't tan evenly, and everyone tells me it looks weird. Well, summer is right around the corner. And shorts get stuffy. But my legs are so...

britannny

Xper 5 Age: 34

A gummy smile = an ugly smile?

Most people think that a gummy smile is unattractive and ugly, and I, myself, have a gummy smile and have been commented on it quite a few times. I just wanted to know your definition of an ugly/pretty smile, and your...

whatupyall

Xper 3 Age: 33

Health & Fitness

I feel insulted when my boyfriend asked me to do HIV test, what is he thinking about?

My boyfriend and I are together for 4 years now, we've lived together for 3 years and everything is very stable and we talk about our future and marriage. Yesterday he heard a story about a guy getting infected with hiv,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl invites you back to her apartment, does that mean she's game for hooking up/sex?

Whether it be the 1st, 2nd, 3rd date or whatever if a girl says you wanna come back to my place does that normally mean she wants to hookup...?

kriskiss

Explorer Age: 39

Relationships

Am I just a "convenient boyfriend"?

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 2 years now and we would talk all the time! But now lately the last month or 2 or 3 during the week she hardly ever talks to me and I would text her after She gets out of...

Sjcash

Xper 5 Age: 33

Relationships

Should women settle for less as they grow older?

Two days ago I asked this very interesting question link and a user said that he'd advise men to pick their career over love when they're younger, but wouldn't advise women to do the same and when I asked why, he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If someone is not sexually attracted to you anymore, is the relationship over?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why are women so unforgiving?

I messed up with this girl and I admit I was rude with her, ir has been a very long time and she hasn't got over it, or she doesn't even want to see me. I have tried to talk to her, but she just ignores me. I honestly...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Women see programmers as beta males?

This is a theory a female friend of mine had to explain the "loophole" whereby a rich, attractive young man can be ignored by women that would otherwise see him as a suitable mate. What say you GaG?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

A guy raised his eyebrows at me twice, what does it mean?

In class when I walked in, he looked at me and raised his eyebrow. After class he approached me to ask personal questions. He also raised his eyebrow in the library. I fancy him so much and I feel such a spark between us....

Shannon18

Xper 5 Age: 33

Do you like lace panties?

I love lace panties, especially ones that are almost completely lace. Do you like lace panties or if you are a guy do you like girls to wear lace panties?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does she tease me like this?

So there's this girl I've grown to like. She seems to enjoy talking to me but she acts differently when she is around me. She can joke around and talk to other people, laughs a lot etc. With me, its like she is always on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He wants me to open up to him emotionally?

Nothing official. We were on and off for about a year because of us going to different colleges..about 5hours apart. He lived in a different city and he would only come see me on the holidays and the summer. During this...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Would it be weird to ask a guy "are you gonna kiss me or not?"

So, I've been "seeing" this guy for a little while now, and we've cuddled, and hugged and stuff but he hasn't kissed me yet. Would it be weird next time there's an opportunity to say "are you gonna kiss me or not?" Guys-...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls - Is it weird getting random friend requests on Facebook?

Do you think it's weird when a guy randomly sends you a friend request? And WHY is it weird? what makes it weird? Also does it make a different if he's cute?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Have you ever regretted letting someone go?

Have you ever met someone in your life (even if you never had a relationship with them) and let them only to realize that you were wrong? I met this guy and we only texted. After a few weeks I broke things off with him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do girls hate guys that are too available? why is it so attractive when a guy is busy, has things to do?

has a life, overall, why do they like, are attracted to guys who are a challenge? are hard to get? people say it is human nature to want what you can't have, that people don't want what is easy to get. Well, a girl can...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is a 5'8 guy supposed to do?

Don't give me personality bullsh*t... EVERYONE deep down knows it's all about the skin, not what lies within. Don't even kid yourself otherwise... I can't even get 5'5 girls and under to look at me, forget it if she is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How do you keep a conversation going with a bad texter?

I've been talking to this guy for a while and he obviously wants to talk to me because he always texts me first. But, whenever we text he always finishes the conversation with a "yeah" or a "haha" or a "alright".. with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is a hairy back a total turn-off?

I can shave it but it grows back all stubbly. What's better?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do people keep asking me for directions??

This is not a good thing for me AT ALL. It seems like I am a target for those who are lost in the city. No matter how I try to make myself look disinterested and not in the mood to help anybody, a person will inevitably...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

When a guy calls you baby?

What does it usually mean when a guy calls a girl "baby"? I know some guys use the word lightly and it means nothing but, in my case I'm not so sure. There's this guy who used to like me a lot but I'm not sure if he still...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Personal trainers is being really flirty part of the job is him trying to get laid?

I've notice the personal trainer at my gym (in his 20s) flirts with girls around his age and very friendly. He is also nice to the elder woman. So my question is.. Is it put of the job and where the line you shouldn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I wish luck to my crush before the exam, if we haven't talked for about 2 weeks?

About 3 months ago I texted the guy I like, that we should go to get coffee sometime. He agreed and we kept in touch through text messages for a couple of months. He used to always text me first.Then we went on a date and...

Greeeenteeea

Xper 5 Age: 32

What percentage of people are you attracted to?

In whatever gender you prefer, how many of them do you think are attractive? When you're out and about, what percentage of them would you at least mull the possibility over if they approached you for a date?

Anonymous

(36-45)

In your opinion, what is the fine line between playing hard to get and not interested?

Both of them are too similar for me, I can't honestly take them apart and it seems that most women play hard to get, its rare to see a girl who shows interest.

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

Valentine's Day

My ex responds to my texts but doesn't initiate any.

We are in our early 30's, we built a house together, we were engaged. She ended it saying I made her feel unattractive. She struggles with her weight, however her weight was never a concern to me as ar as her looks. My...

AntonioTea

Xper 5 Age: 48

I have wide hips. Are hips a bad thing?

Are hips a bad thing? I always feel really chunky next to my friend who has a very thin body and straight hips. I wear size one to 3 depending on the brand but I feel much bigger than that because I have wide hips.. is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Who is the coolest person you know/have ever met?

What is it about them that made you think "wow, this person is really cool, I really want to get to know them more"?

MILWJ

Xper 6 Age: 33

Do women like men who are bulky or lean?

Do Women like men who are bulky or lean? Which is better? Which would a woman fantasize being with?

GymStatus

Xper 6 Age: 38

How can you tell if a girl likes you or if she is just friendly?

I don't know how to read girls so I don't know how to tell.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy lightly brush against a girl's sleeve when passing by her?

There is this guy who is in two of my college classes. In one of my classes he sits on the same row as me. I am quiet and we hardly never talk. If he does say something, just to ask me a question about class. When he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Very intense eye contact?

there is this boy at my school and for the past 5 months we have been staring at each other and making eye contact and stuff. Also I know he likes me cause every body tells me he does and he had a conversation to his...

Bryannarocks227

Xper 5 Age: 31