Am I the only girl who is extremely, overwhelmingly attracted to Arab guys?

[Anonymous]

Arab men are my weakness.

This is probably because the first and only guy so far who has treated me with the utmost respect, consideration, and love is Arabic. He really raised the bar and ever since I've had this Arab addiction.

For one, I am extremely attracted to Arab men. A lot of them are just very gorgeous and I appreciate their exotic look. I love the hairiness of the arms and legs. It's sexy as hell! They usually have really pretty eyelashes and honey brown eyes, nice cinnamon skin. I love it when they're really dark.

Other than that, they tend to be extremely respectful or at least based on what I've experienced and observed. ARRRRGHHHHH! I'm just so INTO THEM! But I realize that many of them view non-Muslim girls as just for practice :(

What are your experiences with Arab men?

What's your opinion of them?

What are some good ways for me to attract them and pursue a relationship with them as a non-Muslim, non- Arab female?

[Anonymous]

Hi, I'm an Arabic girl.

My answer is late but I will try to answer you honestly. :D

First of all, I want you to get convinced that everywhere there're bad & good people & that doesn't depend on the race or w/e.

Don't listen to someone saying Arab men are bad, Arab men are women-beaters blah blah (because he simply generalized & prejudged). Neither listen to someone who says Arab men are the best blah (Because he generalized and prejudged too).

Secondly, I want to tell you, in the past, Arab men originally were really good guys, really respectful to the women, really generous and all in all, because Arab (even before Islam) were very conservative and they had many rules of morals. If someone breaks the morals, he would be a shame for his clan. You can find out more about Arabs before Islam here link it's very interesting. :)

As you can see in the link, when Islam appeared in the Arabic land, it erased some of the bad traditions that Arabs had and kept the good ones because they are identical with the Islamic morals. After the appearance of Islam, a significant development appeared in the Arabic Islamic world, people became cultured and many scientists appeared. Many foreign missions of students went there to learn more. People knew that all of this prosperity came from their honesty and nice morals. There wasn't any cheating in their life in trading or w/e.. everyone was fearing the God and trying to be as good as possible and practice their religion & understand it well. They were true Muslims and True Arabs, their morals and honesty made a great civilization.

Nowadays, not all Arabs are as good as they used to be. Many of them, as you can see, don't understand Islam & don't work on it properly many of them has uncivilized behaviors, they got busy with the wars that continued for hundreds of years. (That's why, in the past, Islam didn't has that bad image that we see nowadays)

If you lived in the past I can guarantee you that if you choose any Arabic man you will never regret it. Because they really knew how to treat the women. And our prophet, before he died, one of his recommendation was to treat women respectfully. But nowadays, there're still good Arabic people but you have to be lucky to find them. And actually you were lucky. :)

Okay, now I should tell you that not all Arabs are Muslims, in case if you don't want a Muslim , there're Christians, Jew, atheists and etc...

(although a Muslim man is allowed to marry a non-Muslim girl and treats her respectfully the same way he treats a Muslim girl that's what Islam said so if they use them for practice then they are one of those fellas who don't know anything about Islam and need someone to teach them).

If you want to know more about Arab and Islam you can browse this page which contains an Art work by an Arabic guy you will enjoy his art and info. link :)

[Asker]

oh just make me miss my Kuwaiti prince to bits ;(

[Opinion Owner]

Aww was he your friend?! :)

And why you can't see him anymore?! :)

[Stacyzee]

-Don't have many. Although I would be open to dating one if I were single I am not sure if they would be my preference. I'm not sure if I even have one, I am open to everyone.

-I don't really have an opinion of them.

I just want to add that its okay for you to feel this way about them and you aren't alone. A lot of people have races different from their own, that they are just wild or crazy over. Its called a racial fetish.

-In this case you have to take the intiative. Show your interest in them by flirting, if they are intereested as well hopefully they will take it from there.

[Asker]

No, it is not. I do not have a 'racial fetish'. Do you understand what the word 'fetish' means?

Why is it that for someone to be interested in a particular ethnic group, it must be classified as a 'fetish'?

[Stacyzee]

Just my opinion, you don't have to necessary agree with it. There is a fine line between a preference and a fetish.

A preference (for whatever the reason may be) is the race you are more attracted to.

A fetish - is a racial group or background that you go heads over heels over based on the fact that they are the etnicity you desire.

[Stacyzee]

In your description it seems has if you have a fetish. Could I be right? Yes. Could I be wrong? Yes. My opinion. Its okay to differ.Too bad you place so much interest on me stating that one line, when there are so many other great points I made.

[Asker]

Preference is such an over-used word. Preference should be used to describe what shoe style you like better, what home layout suits your taste, which font style you like to use on Microsoft; NOT the ethnic group you're into. I'm so tired of people using the UNORIGINAL, OVERUSED word 'preference' in relation to ethnicity and attraction as if they sound intelligent, when they really sound like a broken record.

[Asker]

Preference is not, nor has ever been, defined as "the race you are more attracted to". That is what this dumbed down generation is trying to make the word 'preference' mean, but that is not the purpose for that word. You are making up your own definitions and speaking about them as if they are hardcore facts listed in Webster's dictionary lol

Humble yourself; you made about ONE other great point; "to show interest"

[sexyback]

I think it is a very good thing to know who you are and what do you like for a beginning. And knowing certain tastes of yourself shows how a person gives value to herself.
And there is nothing wrong with having different type of taste than the others. If you like it, do it

[Meedo]

Every body has a weakness. So it is OK .

To start off.. you will hear a lot of generalisations about arabs. Some good and some bad.

My advice is to not fall for generalisations.. but on the other hand.. you have to manage well the relationship. It is more challenging with an arab guy . Culture influences have some roles.. although actually... it is getting less and less.

Arab men are ... men. .. we are just a product of our context, upbringing , education , experience etc.. so every one is different.

To attract an arab guy you need to be around them to begin with.. so involve yourself in arabic culture etc... as much as you can .. join a an arab group in your university or city etc.. tell them you are interested in the culture . Make friends with both girls and boys . Most arabs ( Muslims or non Muslims ) are family oriented and have a goal of building a family. Also if they ( he and his family )are religious then to get intimate you need to get married.

You need to define your own goals from the relationship... is it short term romance.. or something you want to have as serious and long lasting.

In any case .. there are arabs who can think of and actually want a serious relationship with someone who isn't Muslim. Just make sure he is cultured , educated.. with a strong character . You have to manage the relationship very well.. but if you do .. it coulde awesome fun .

There are so many variables that I can't sum it all. So message me if you have specific questions.

I am sure you wil find someone who will light your fires :)

All the best ,

[Asker]

first off, I'm pretty sure this question was asked longer than 2 months ago. I don't know wtf is up with that lol, but since then, I've let go of my attraction towards Arab guys. They rarely seem into black women and I'm tired of feeling rejected.

[Meedo]

Allright. All the best.

[Battooot]

sorry gotta correct you here, i'm Arab and i find black women really attractive. Don't generalize.

[DearbornG]

Where do you live ? Let's date.hehehehehe

Dating is forbidden in Islam but if I was going to marry a non Muslim lady and she is not willing to convert my kids should be raised as Muslims and practice Islam if this is OK to her I think I won't mind marrying her.

[Anonymous]

Not anymore. I'm Indian and I used to like Arab dudes. I'm sure I understand their culture as Indian guys r A LOT like this, which actually discouraged me from taking a chance with them as I understand how it's like. I'm going to do what other Asian/Indian girls r doing and end up with a white guy instead as they're actually open-minded and is probably the ONLY race that really treats us as equals instead of waste my time looking for exceptions, that is if I end up with a guy.

[chikitou1]

I'm not very hairy :/ Could be because i'm only half Arab? :( I agree with the respectful and gentle attitude. Thanks ^^

[Anonymous]

Arab Guys love black girls. but when it comes to wigs and hair extensions. that's repulsive.
be natural show your curly hair . DO not hide anything.
cause to some , physical appearance is not a big focus.
most of arabs dont have sex or relationships a lot so they want the first last.
if his mother dont agree no way he will marry her.
family comes first.

[Anonymous]

I would love to date a arab girl, especially the ones who wear the hijab. I could not though because it would not be allowed.

[Enideqa]

Probably not but I am not

[sami501]

Am new here and do not know how to use this site

[DR_AHMED]

ايوه وحضرك محتاج اي

[Fox638]

Lucky me lol