All Questions

How do you know if there's chemistry between two people?

People will say.. 'yeah there's definitely chemisry between them..' or 'I can feel the chemistry between us'... what does it really mean and how do you know it's there?

Rosesss

Xper 4 Age: 31

'xx' at the end of a Facebook chat, what does that mean?

Ok, so there's this guy I really like. I go to an all girls school, but I see him once every week at this tutoring place. I don't really know him all that well, and I have only DIRECTLY spoken to him once. Anyway,...

awesomelycrazy

Xper 3 Age: 30

When dating how soon should a guy wait before making a move?

I was just wondering how soon should a guy wait before making a move on a girl when they start dating. I am interested in comparing what men and woman have to say about this.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Most attractive male and female face shape to you.

What would you say is the most attractive male or female face shape to you? For girls I would say oval and heart shape are the hottest.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you consider yourself a morning person or a night person?

I'm not really much of a morning person. I think I am definitely more of a night person. It's like, I come more alive during the night. What about you? :)

tyt_2012

Yoda Age: 33

Is it unmanly for a guy to overthink things?

I tend to overthink things a lot of the time. It's typically the woman who does that. But is it unmanly or unattractive if a guy overthinks things too?

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

There is more drama in college than high school. Does anyone else feel the same way?

i am a freshman in college right now and there is so much stupid drama and bullsh*t here its insane. I personally feel like there is more of this crap here in college than I had in my high school...does anyone else feel...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does a guy mean when he says talk to you soon with a smiley face next to it?

I had a good time with a guy I knew in college. we hooked up and realized that we didn't want to do the random hook up so I suggest we be friends and maybe hang out platonic. he replied with deff:) talk to you soon. is...

ambs1876

Xper 3 Age: 40

Do girls like it when guys write songs for them

Ive done it a few times and it always seems to please them but I kinda feel its a bit cliche

Anonymous

(36-45)

What's the difference between Intimidatingly pretty and approachable pretty

you know how people say that women who are "too" pretty are intimidating to men? well what is "too pretty?" I know that guys are attracted to pretty girls and they get the most attention, but how pretty would a woman have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy, What do you think of a girl who approaches you first?

What do you think of a girl who approaches you first? do you like it or hate it?

LimeGreenJB

Xper 6 Age: 33

Do girls stretch a lot in class to gain a guys attention?

Just curious, I once had this very attractive girl sit close to me in my college class, and I always noticed she kept stretching for about 5 seconds about 7 times in an hour. Is this girl really tired, or trying to gain...

Whipporwill

Xper 3 Age: 37

If a guy calls himself your man what does that mean?

We've both agreed to be exclusive and now he refers to himself as my man.. what's that mean? It's really sad to be divorced, 23 and having to ask this question. I haven't dated since I was 18! Thanks for the help guys and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ladies, making funny faces at you to flirt, yes or no?

If you catch a guy's eye and you notice this, how would you feel if he started making funny faces at you? Nothing sexually suggestive or anything, but just something funny to put him more at ease. What would you think...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

What age is the youngest that a 20 year old guy can date?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys think I'm ugly? Or am I nobodys type?

I haven't had a boyfriend, or had anyone interested in me in over a year. Guys will flirt with me occasionally but it never turns into anything. People are always telling me that I'm pretty but it's always girls or...

LippyLoo

Xper 5 Age: 35

Fashion & Beauty

Why are so many people overconfident of their looks?

I admit I'm guilty of it sometimes, too. Both men and women I see everyday seem to be waaay too overconfident, whether it be a nasty looking black guy saying outloud to their faces "id bang her, I won't bang her" or the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why won't my boyfriend take pictures with me?

Okay, I'm SUPER confused, after dating my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. He won't take pictures with me and I'm not included in his Facebook life. I am not overly focusing on Facebook situation but it has a lot to do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Boyfriend says I'm lucky to be with him?

We haven't been together very long and recently my boyfriend exclaimed in front of a mutual friend and myself that I was LUCKY to be with him. I was offended. He went on to say it was because of things he bought (like...

L-in-the-sky-with-D

Xper 5 Age: 36

Fashion & Beauty

55 kg (122 pounds), 153 cm (5 foot) tall... would you consider me fat?

Everyone- would you consider me fat? Guys- would this put you off by any chance? GIrls- any hints on how I can dress to look slimmer? Here are my measurements: Waist- 72cm Hips- 92 cm Bust- 81 cm Thanks in advance...

awesomelycrazy

Xper 3 Age: 30

If you could interview anyone (dead or alive) from any time in history, who would it be?

For me, it would probably be Jesus. I was leaning more towards Hitler before, but we already know enough about him. I'd rather find out if Jesus was really the son of god. What's your's?

mjmlag

Xper 3 Age: 31

Ex boyfriend held my hand, why?

I picked my ex boyfriend from his friends house to take him home, and he took my hand and held it within a minute of being in the car. Does he still have feelings for me?

RiahAnn88

Xper 5 Age: 37

Women never flirt with me. What am I doing wrong?

I'm 186 cm and in better shape than a lot of men my age. Went to school and got my degrees, and I have a good job and I am involved in a lot of things. I don't mistreat women or think negatively of them or anything and I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Leave a friend at a bar, is this a bad friend?

Is it just me or is this something that would put someone in the bad friend category? Three girls go out to the bars together. At some point during the night, they all end up very drunk. Then, two of them end up leaving...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I help my little brother with depression?

My brother is 16, he's a good kid with a good heart, but he has severe depression and Anxiety, it is effecting how he thinks and acts, because of this I convinced him to share a room at my place so he doesn't have to deal...

HanabusaAido

Xper 5 Age: 38

Relationships

What does he mean by time & space, will he come back & does he know it hurts & did he mean the things said?

I am 36 year old widowed, single mom, he is 28, never married, but had been involved with a woman who had two kids. He had been interested in my online for sometime, & we finally started talking. When we did, it was an...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How do women feel about humble men?

How do women perceive a guy who is humble about their work and/or accomplishments?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Do you consider yourself open minded?

Do you consider yourself open minded? Why? I do because when someone makes judgement on me I always ask why they think that. I listen to it, consider it and if it makes sense I will work on it (if I hate that it is...

FierceMegan

Xper 5 Age: 38

Girlfriend dumped me because she beat me at wrestling? I let her win but she doesn't believe me. What to do?

I let her win but she doesn't believe me. She thinks I'm a wimp because she was able to pin me down. How do I convince her I let her win? She doesn't want a rematch. Why is she so mean and shallow? Would you dump your...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Why does ex try and put up a front?

Why does my ex try to put on a front that he is all tough and doesn't need me to his guy friends when I can tell he still cares about me just by the way he looks at me? He told my one guy friend that he is friends with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys does a pretty girl intimidate you?

I guess I have this belief that guys are invincible and don't care how pretty a girl is, they'll always be able to talk to her, unlike girls who can be extremely shy and quiet around attractive men. there's no polite...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Boyfriends twin brother likes me, advice?

My Boyfriend is a twin and I get along really well with his brother and mother. We have been together for about three years and I love him very much but recently while talking to his brother he told me about something...

xXxShawnaxXx

Xper 5 Age: 34

I can't figure whether to keep pursuing this unreadable girl

She's driving me crazy, but the scary thing that it might just come down to me driving myself crazy. I've known her for about a year, but we really didn't talk. We went with a couple friends for lunch a few months ago...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend eats my food >:0...

whenever me and my boyfriend go out and eat, he orders dumb stuff like only a milkshake for dinner then I order myself a chicken sandwich and then he starts to eat my food, I asked him was he getting any food , he says no...

Anonymous

(30-35)