All Questions

Whats the difference between a first deep crush and first love?

abstractabroad

Xper 3 Age: 40

Does this shy girl like me, or is she just curious? Is she becoming more distant?

I'm relisting this a little differently. I'm attracted to a very pretty, very shy girl at work. I'm decent-looking, kinda muscular. We're both out of college a few years. I can't tell if she's attracted to me or just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys always flirt with my friends but not me?

This may sound self conscious but it kind of annoys me. Isn't it normal to be socialable with everyone and to introduce friends to new friends? Well I've noticed that whenever I go out most of the time it's 'girl time'...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does she just miss the attention?

I know I probably shouldn't be posting about this because I'm in the final stages of getting over my ex who dumped me 7 weeks ago. But ever since we broke up she has been getting really close to my best friend. I think...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys send girls shirtless pictures?

so this guy I have been talking to for a while now sent me a shirtless picture... he's like I took a pic today wanna see and I said ya sure and sent it to me I'm gunna be honest it was hot but why did he send it? Why do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

What should I do if my girlfriend has let herself go (appearance) @ age 21?

I have been with her for 3 years now and over the past 1.5 yrs...I have noticed her not caring about her appearance. She Doesn't really dress up...its mainly something like those stretchy black pants and a sweatshirt in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My boyfriend treats me like a baby?

Like if I fall or hit my head or anything along those lines he will come running and say "are you ok? is anything broken?" I thought it was sweet at first though now I feel kind of embarrased because he does it in front...

omgkris95

Xper 5 Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

Would you take back your ex who blindsided you?

Just dumped you and you didn't know why. Would you take them back?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you use "curvy" to describe an hour-glass body SHAPE or does it now mostly refer to being heavier?

I've noticed that the word "curvy" seems to have changed meanings in our society. When I hear it, I think of Scarlett Johanson, Jennifer Hudson (way she is now), Sofia Vergara, Marilyn Monroe, etc. Even Miley Cyrus is...

GreenTea007

Xper 5 Age: 38

Girls, if a guy puts his arm around you and you do not react at all?

Lets say a guy sees you, you see him and you start talking and walking together and he puts your arm around you and you don't move closer or move away or tense up, but you just keep talking like nothing is going on, is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does "pick up your game" mean?

please help, I don't know what does this mean. thanks.

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I tell if my best guy friend likes me?

My best friend and me are pretty close, but lately I've been seeing him a little different. I really like him, and I THINK he likes me too, but how can I be sure? -he walks me home everyday (he lives next door). and even...

Karrmin

Xper 5 Age: 31

Valentine's Day

Breaking the touch barrier with a shy girl?

So there's this girl I like and although she is shy/quiet, she is friendly with most people but with me she has always been shy and a bit nervous most of the time. I would see her hug people she considers "just friends"...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She doesn't show her emotions..HELP

the girl I've been seeing for a few months tells me she has feelings for me, and does show it in ways like for example it was my boyfriend and she bought a big card and a cake but she Doesn't show any sort of emotion,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When are men mature enough to be in real relationships?

Why is that so many men in there 20s just want to hookup? Where are the men that really want girlfriends?

Anonymous

(30-35)

In love with a tomboy?

Hello everyone, my best girl friend is a tomboy(girl acting like a boy) and I'm in love with her. When we're out together we have lots of fun and stuff with lots of eye contact and touches, and she's always asking me out,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is his deal? He dates me, then tells me he has a girlfriend but wants to stay friends?

I was seeing this guy for about a month. So I texted him last night asking if we could hang out. Which then he replied, "Sure, you're welcome to come over anytime." So I told him I would be over around 8:30pm. He then...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you turn "Cute" into "Hot"?

So I've had girls say I'm "Cute" or "Adorable" and it kinda bugs me, What does this mean? and How do you turn "Cute" into "Hot"?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys compliment girls on their lips?

Why do guys compliment girls on their lips? Obviously, I know it means that they like the girls lips but do they do it with the intention of wanting a kiss? I had this guy who likes me tell me that I have really nice lips...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy smirks at you?

What does it mean when a guy smirks at you? Does it mean that you did something cute or it's actually means something mean?

CheckHerOutBruh

Xper 6 Age: 33

How much "interest" do you have to see from a girl before you make further moves, guys?

Hey guys... (or girls can chime in too w/their experiences) How much interest do you typically have to see from a girl before you make a move on her romantically? In other words, if you're interested in a girl you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to know if you are bipolar?

I have a friend who's diagnosed as bipolar. She told me about the symptoms but I don't think she's like that. I want to know how do you know if you are bipolar? & is it cured? & does it affect your life? how? Thanks!

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have you ever met someone who completely takes your breath away?

And if so did they feel the very same way? I don't just mean falling in love I mean when you see that person you are almost overwhelmed by it

Anonymous

(36-45)

Anybody on this site that grew into their looks later on in life?

I don't know whether this is because I was generally unattractive when I was younger or whether it was just because I was too shy and not confident enough, but only now I am becoming comfortable with myself and my looks....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it me or are guys just easy to please/impress?

I'm 23 years old now and I've been dating since I was 14. I didn't have my first serious relationship til I was about 18 though. One thing that I've noticed is that guys are always interested in me. Since I've started...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Best way to make a girl miss you? Girls and guys answer.

Girls, what makes you miss a guy you've been flirting with? Guys, what did you do to make a girl miss you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why girls ignore guys rather than speak.

OK I've noticed that girls rather ignore a guy because they don't want to chat to them rather than just say, look I'm kinda busy and I can't chat right now. Because tbh when girls do that, they lose my respect and I get...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She gets nervous when I touch her?

She's always been a bit nervous around me.. before I asked her out she couldn't really maintain eye contact and got really flustered and blushed a lot if the flirting got a bit heavy. But she's not inexperienced, she has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does he like me? Or am I just a cuddle buddy?

So I met this guy about a month ago and at first he started talking to me on facebook trying to get me to hang out at his place after midnight a bunch of times, so I told him to cool it and ask me to hang out at a decent...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

I'm jealous of my boyfriend's lesbian friend?

They are like really close... he gives her piggy back rides (and he thinks its weird if couples do it -___-), and he hangs out with her so much when I'm not there... and he jokes about marrying her if he Doesn't get to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why is he trying to purposely make me jealous?

i know that he does, but why does he do it when he knows it upsets me ? it's gotten to the point where he has made me cry from it.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it OK for guys to bottle up their emotions?

I hear allot that girls can't keep their emotions inside and if they do they'll end up being really bitchy, or other problems will occur. But I never hear of guys having issues with holding in their emotions. Are you...

Anonymous

(30-35)