All Questions

Hooking up then cuddling, kissing, etc. afterward, is this normal?

How do you act with the girl you're hooking up with? Is it weird that the guy I hook up with some weekends likes to cuddle hardcore after doing it(I have to say doing it or else it won't let me ask this question haha)...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How To Survive A Horror Movie Date Night?

What are some good tips for a horror movie date night? This is our 3rd date, so I'm wondering...what's appropriate (flirty tips)?

maldroid

Xper 7 Age: 38

When is the last time that you peed your bed/pants?

When is the last time that you peed your bed/pants? Was alcohol involved at all?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Junk food should be outlawed! Agree or disagree?

agree or disagree? Here are my reasons why I think junk should be outlawed. It is not necessary. Junk food is just a waste of resources. Poorer people are somewhat forced to buy it because its cheap then they become...

jimmy217

Yoda Age: 34

Guys do you really enjoy cuddling ...

Or do you do it mainly for the girls benefit?

wallonia

Xper 6 Age: 36

Family & Friends

What do I do about my boyfriend's obsession with his mother?

My boyfriend is an only child to a single mother. He is constantly texting and calling her when he's with me, which is every other night. I can't even have him to myself for just 24 hours. It's been 7 months and only...

ittybittyhanban

Xper 5 Age: 36

For the girls, why do girls think justin Bieber is hot?

I don't get it... Every girls all over his nuts so fill me in please

Anonymous

(36-45)

Isn't it sexy when I shake my hips? Or stupid?

So, here's the thing. I (think) I can do that thing pretty well where you shake your ass really fast... I did it in a club once with one of my guy friends and he was like "Oh my GOD! you can really dance girl, do that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long would you stay interested in a girl before giving up on her?

If you had a lot of feelings for a girl and she was only showing vague interest, how long would you stay interested in her before just giving up? Thanks.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is the website "the chive" sexist/degrading of women?

I personally love the site for its funny photos, etc... but was wondering if it was sexist/degrading toward women. What are guys and girls thoughts on this site? And could you describe the type of guy you are? player?...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to tell if a guy is desperate?

Backstory: I'm not the best with relationships and always antsy that the guy is just desperate and using me until he can get with the girl he really likes (which is usually the case). In other news there is this guy...

pastelrebel

Xper 5 Age: 34

I think I may be done being nice to girls?

My whole life I have been nice and respectful to woman and girls. Now I don't see a point of doing that anymore. My girlfreind just recently broke up with me just because she wants to be single. I gave her everything, I...

Martinsniezek

Xper 5 Age: 33

Will he say yes when I ask him out?

Say this guy likes me. He's quiet with me and is kinda nervous, doesn't say much, makes little eye contact, seems happy when I talk to him... if I ask him out will he say yes? Will a guy say yes to a girl to go out if he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you ever wink at yourself in the mirror? lol

Just wondering...Can't say I haven't! Have u? lol =)

curiouschica

Yoda Age: 39

Family & Friends

Can men and women be friends?

Me and my girlfriend believe that men and women can be friends but our boyfriend think the opposite.

Anna_Drouga

Xper 6 Age: 34

Cuddling with my crush!

The unexpected happened! He actually wanted to go with me home! (well my best friend was there as well, but still) my crush usually just say; "nah, I will just go home, see ya tomorrow in school!" but this time when I...

Kuragehime

Xper 5 Age: 34

Do white guys like mixed girls?

I will start this off by saying I am not racist in any way but mixed people are not common here. of course I am white and most of my friends are white and I was sitting around with a bunch of my male friends in one of the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think girls look better with their hair up or down?

Please vote and explain your answer in the comments

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is having a big forehead bad?

I have a big forehead where it takes 4 fingers to cover it, is that bad?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hooked up with a guy, while I'm 'talking' to someone else?

By talking, I mean like starting to see/date. It had only been a few days in, but I hooked up with a different guy. The guy I'm 'talking' to, is the type that would be good for a relationship. He's cute, but not a guy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Teasing....do you sometimes go too far? Is it flirting?

Guys when you're teasing a girl do you prefer her to back down or you want her to give you a run for your money? Do you think that you can go too far when you're teasing each other? Do you really mean the things you...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

My ex stares at me all the time... Is he mad, upset?

So me & my ex boyfriend andres have been fighting since last Sunday. Before we were fighting he said he likes me again but he doesn't know if he can trust me again , and also he misses me. Now that were fighting, things...

carlyisawsome

Xper 5 Age: 31

Does my boyfriend want the best of both worlds?!

So my boyfriend I have been dating for about 8 months. He has literally one friend he hangs out with and its a girl. BUT she's a lesbian. At first it didn't bother me because all I knew about her was that she was gay, but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He doesn't want a relationship. Should I walk away?

He told he didn't want to get into relationship at the moment. I like him a lot,maybe to much.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Why do you think we feel the need to drunk call people?

Why do you think we feel the need to call people we're interested in or dating when we're drunk?

retrowreck

Xper 5 Age: 33

Are 14 inch biceps considered 'big biceps'... I'm aware average healthy guy is 12 inches? (circumference)

So would you consider 14 inches big? I always considered 15 inches to be the boundary for big, even though 14 is apparently way above average. (For a healthy cut guy) What do you think?

Anonymous

(30-35)

She says she hasn't seen me in a while when it hasn't been all that long?

There's this girl I know and I like, though I'm not sure how she feels since I get mixed signals. One thing I noticed though is that if we haven't talked for like a week, the next time she passes by me, she'll say...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys like me but never ask me out?

I'm a nice looking girl and many guys like me too, but they never ask me out face-to-face. I mean they would ask their friends to ask me out and I don't like that. Why don't they do it themselves? (if you know what I mean)

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I apologize for being boring & nervous?

I went on a date earlier in the week and I was really nervous. So much so that the whole thing was just really awkward. It was a 3rd date. I was nervous on the first date, the 2nd went a bit better and then this was back...

billy_young

Xper 7 Age: 35

Kiss on cheek 2nd date, blow it?

Girl I think is great. 1st date coffee and hug. 2nd date, dinner, music show, then talked at a bar till closing. Offered to go dancing instead of bar but she said she didn't know me well enough for that yet (she is...

kev76

Xper 5 Age: 50

Family & Friends

My new girlfriend's mom is sick with cancer. What should I do?

My new girlfriend, not even sure where are relationship is to be honest, told me last week on our 3rd date that her mother was having surgery for cancer. I want to be available for her but we are still very new in our...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Blind date tomorrow and I'm nervous!

So, tomorrow, I'm going on a blind date. A friend of mine set me up with a pretty cute guy. (Okay, so, it isn't completely blind. I've seen his picture, but he doesn't know what I look like.) I'm really scared that he...

K2111ATIE

Xper 4 Age: 33

If a girl laughs at everything I say?

And is usually smiling whenever we talk and teasing each other, is that just plain friendliness or is there something else here? She usually seems a bit on the quiet side but when we talk she opens up and we joke a lot....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you hate it when people psychoanalyze you?

They just try to figure out what's up with you and why you act certain ways? How does it bother you if so?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Valentine's Day

He doesn't want to lead me on?

For 2 months me and this guy have been flirting a lot at college. He asked me to register for class with him so we could sit together. He used to not wear his seatbelt. I told him it was dangerous. Now he wears it all the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you react when someone says 'duh' to you in a rude way?

Like in a question earlier, someone asked who cheats more mean or women? And an anon girl rudely answers 'men, duh!' Like that was supposed to be obvious or something. Pissed me off. :-P Anyways, how would you react?

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a woman stares...what does it mean?

Ok, so I work at an airport and often find myself walking through the terminal building where the passengers are before and after flights. I wouldn't call it common but it's not rare either, sometimes I will catch a...

gotc147

Guru Age: 38

Other

Is flavored vodka still as strong as regular vodka?

Just sitting here sippin on some cherry vodka and cherry crush and was wondering if the flavored one is just as strong as the regular one ?

Nelly-Nells

Xper 6 Age: 33