All Questions

Mutual attraction. In my head or real?

I catch him looking at me, quickly turns away. Blushes when I'm in his view. Will stare into my eyes until I look away. Fidgets around me. Lingers near me when talking with another group of people. Laughs and repeats...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Can I turn a brother/sister relationship into a romantic one?

Okay boys I need some major help on this one, and I want to make the right decision. There's this guy *sigh, we have a brother and sister relationship, like a legit brother/sister relationship without technically being...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does rejecting a first kiss from a guy automatically screw thing up?

I went to this guys house I barely knew I'm 18 he just turned 20 & it was almost like a blind date. I'd met him once before and my boss gave him my number. We were having a good time just watching movies, talking,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If you dump your girlfriend because you like another girl...

does that make you an ahole? my friend just dumped his girlfriend because he really started liking this other girl and he wants to date her (him and the girlfriend weren't in love, but she was falling for him and he...

skittledittle

Xper 6 Age: 37

How to casually ask a girl to lunch?

I've gotten to know this girl pretty well and we are friends, and I would like to take her out to lunch how can I ask her casually to lunch

p8ntboy

Xper 5 Age: 37

We text and IM a lot but we don't talk much in person - thoughts?

Um, me and the guy I like, we chat online a lot, and text often. He always starts the conversations... I'm worried that I annoy him and I think that if he wants to talk, he'll start it. I THINK it's flirty, but I wouldn't...

cluelesscurious

Xper 3 Age: 31

Trying to make me jealous is only pushing me away?

long story short, we are best friends, we became so close, we had this short period of "lost feelings", we were confused about our feelings toward each other, but quoting him "if we do date, we are for sure to ruin this...

Virago

Xper 5 Age: 34

Girls what do you think if a guy wants to split the check on first date?

Girls I always prefer splitting the check (on the first date) with her because I don't know her as well. What do you think?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is dinner and ice cream enough for the first date?

Im wondering if that's all we should do or should I ask if she wants to come over to my place and hangout?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Guys: why are you so bad at making plans?

Guys take FOREVER to even figure out when they're doing something, then its really vague and then they're at least 30 minutes late or cancel last minute, or forget plans. This has been my experience with all my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

What does a guy mean by "Wildly Attractive"?

I'm online dating a guy (who I'll be meeting in a few months in person) and he sent me a video and shared some of the reasons why he likes me. He mentioned that I was beautiful inside and out (so he covered the beauty...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Should I go to the same college as my ex?

Could you understand where I am coming? I'm going to grad school this fall. At first, I did not want to go there because he went there. Now, I want to go not to because everyone said it a good school and affordable. But...

Anonymous

(36-45)

On Facebook, Do you judge someone based on how many friends they have?

Be honest! And if you do judge or make assumptions about someone based on the number of friends they have, what assumptions do you make?

itscool23

Xper 5 Age: 37

Girls ,, what is your ideal dream man?

First physically... 1) height 2) body type 3) hair color 4) eye color 5) penis size 6) penis width 7) foot size Personality 1) good guy/bad guy.clean cut/rough etc 2) occupation (or future/occupation) 3) from...

hardblond1

Xper 5 Age: 49

Why are girls hypocrites when it comes to height?

Girls always say guys are more shallow than girls, putting looks before anything else. However, most girls won't even consider a guy shorter than them for dating. Yet, if a guy were to say for example "I won't even...

SillyMentat

Xper 5 Age: 37

Girls: Have you missed an ex after dumping him and getting another boyfriend?

Guys can answer too, but my question is whether there are any girls out there who have dumped a guy (for being clingy/needy or any reason) {not cheating or anything bad}. Then gotten a new boy friend. Despite being in a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

What does it mean when a guy lets you drive his car?

My friends with benefits said he would let me drive his car. It's not the best looking car but I'm shocked he would let me drive it. He says it's not his baby or his dream car but he doesn't mind letting me drive. I feel...

Anonymous

(36-45)

GUYS, Do you like aggressive girls?

Do you like girls that tell you you are wrong or fight you? What's your opinion on girls with strong individuality?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do men that don't pursue women always end up alone?

Or is it true only men that want to be alone end up that way?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

This guy laughed at something I said that wasn't funny at all..Why did he?

I sit near him in my health class and I put my bookbag on the desk in front of me. (The desk is next to him). Well, we were taking a test (open book) and he turns to me and asks me for the page number. I tell him and he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My crush probably thinks I am a loner.. Is this a turnoff?

At school yesterday we were supposed to get into partners but I was partner-less. My crush noticed and said I could join his group even though he already had a partner. Anyway I got paired up with this girl but the whole...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex gave his friend my number? why would he do this?

I asked a question yesterday and it talked about how my ex had a way of coming into my life again after our breakups since we have been on and off for a year. Well we haven't talked for a month since our breakup but this...

LindseyPainter

Xper 5 Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

Guy I have a crush on is crying on my shoulder?

This guy that I've been crushing on for over a year approaches me two weeks ago because the girl that he's been dating for a month dumped him. He's very shy and we're not very good friends at all, but there has always...

cranberry

Xper 5 Age: 47

My mom trying to break me and my boyfriend up? :(

so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months. My mom has never had a problem with me going out until I started dating. She grounds me for ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING you name it sometimes for 2-1 weeks . She...

LiittleMissVanity

Xper 5 Age: 33