All Questions

Girls at the gym, do you ever change your routine for a guy?

Hi, when I go to the gym I generally want to crank through my routine cause it is so hard for me to actually have free time to get there (this is not an excuse, I like working out). I generally try not be friendly in the...

Hello_World

Xper 5 Age: 43

Why do some people put up pictures of models as their profile pic?

What would be the point of using a picture of someone else, such as some random model, and posting it as your profile picture? Who are you trying to fool? Not one dude that I've seen on here with a picture of a model...

Camilus

Yoda Age: 45

Why would a guy cuddle but not make a move?

I met this guy at a small get together a few nights ago. I thought he was cute, and he was flirting with me. We both had been drinking but not a large amount. At one point (I don't remember the context), someone said I...

Summerfly413

Xper 3 Age: 35

Do guys always touch a girl they're into?

This guy shows a lot of signs of being interested in me. He gives me lots of attention in group settings, makes a lot of eye contact, is eager to prolong dead-end conversations, seems uncharacteristically nervous around...

diosadelanoche

Xper 6 Age: 37

Valentine's Day

Why does my ex contact me when he's married?

I have an ex boyfriend that occasionally contacts me (maybe 3 times a year). We were together in our early twenties (now were close to 40). I have no doubt we would have stayed together but immaturity got in the way. If...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Health & Fitness

What to wear at a 24 hr fitness interview?

The position is for a service rep (front desk/ kids club) and it's a group interview. Please help!

sdubtephyyy

Xper 5 Age: 34

Every time a guy starts to like me, I freak out and turn them down... HELP!

Even when I like a guy, right when they start to like me, I get really scared and turn them down. I have turned down some really great guys because of this... But, my childhood was totally and completely normal! I just...

LivAmb

Xper 5 Age: 36

Doesnt pull away, yet doesn't kiss back.....i don't get it?

right before this she has been leaning in towards me, facing me the whole time (I know my body language) so I finally go in for the kiss, doesn't flinch look away or anything and it wasn't one of those fast or sneaky...

manbear

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

Is he a Player or am I being paranoid?

I don't know this guy too well so I'm judging from what I do know about his lifestyle: He is ambitious and very dedicated to his job and goals in life. Also seems to appreciate I share the same values. He is a disciplined...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls with short hair: yay or nay?

Thinking of getting a crop... But this is mainly a crap question to celebrate being able to add polls. Reasons will be welcomed and their authors shall be given fudge brownies.

thelaziestKitty

Xper 3 Age: 32

For the guys, if you saw a cute receptionist, how would you act?

So I'm a receptionist at a staffing company, and cute guys come in all the time! and they are always really nice, make small talk and such, and I ALWAYS hope one of these days one would ask me out! so far nothing..so I'm...

Eva8686

Xper 6 Age: 40

My boyfriend always says that he'd hit me if I cheat on him (which I never did/wouldn't do it) My Q is:

Should I be concerned that he says he'd hit me? I even said that was something horrible to say and he said, he'd hit the guy and hit me too, and then no one would find him! I just don't thinks his behaviour/''speech''...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Is a guy/girl's music preference a deal breaker?

If you simply can't stand someone's taste in music, would you end things? OR If someone hated your favorite band(s), would you end things?

MMAfan23

Xper 5 Age: 37

Girls flirt but then stop? What is with this girl? Need girl help please

why do some girls act all flirty and act like they want to hook up when you're togther, but when you're far away from each they don't make an effort to contact you first, but make a guy initate?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think Metallica's "Nothing Else Matters" could be romantic or meaningful? Share your stories with songs

Heh. We danced to that. It was really nice. I miss him...

paperplanes

Xper 4 Age: 35

Guy's Behavior

Why do men prefer blondes?

I've never understood it. What's so great about having yellow hair? I'm not dissing blondes, I was blond once, but I prefer being a brunette. So, guys, what's so appealing about blondes?

sloaneified

Xper 3 Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

Get her back by ignoring her?

Okay, I recently kind of messed up with a girl I really liked because I came on too strong and kind of cared too much at first, I kind of smothered her a bit so she pulled out the world famous "let's be friends" card,...

andrew1337

Xper 4 Age: 35

Why do guys like to touch/rub a girls stomach while making out?

i just want to know because I saw it happen in a few movies and at the mall

Anonymous

(30-35)

I text my ex after a month of no contact. No response. Is he over me?

So to make a very long story short, my ex broke up with me a year ago. I have been fighting very hard to get over him, even tried to hate him so it would be easier to move on. The last time we were "together" was in early...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

He changed his number but doesn't want to lose me?

he changed his number calls me blocked and has a new girlfriend.. he says I don't ever wwant to lose you I miss you so much.. okay then why do you only call me once every couple weeks or pop in once every couple weeks...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would an airplane ride be a good date idea- if i'm the pilot??

So... I finally got my airplane pilot certification. Everybody I talk to say they're scared of flying. I asked one girl I met at a store and she said she'll never leave the ground. Are there any girls who've had this...

mobiusforniner

Yoda Age: 39

Want to go on trip with boyfriend, how do I ask parents?

hi guys! so... My boyfriend invited me to go to Chicago with him in 3weeks for spring break...i really want to go! Last year he also invited me but my parents said NO... I have been with him for a year now and we are...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

What do men want in a woman physically (appearance wise)?

what do men want their woman ideally to look like?

cathifer

Xper 3 Age: 33

Why some women play mind games with guys?

Like for example they like to make the guy jealous, they have to play hot and cold (they like him one day and the other day they are ignoring him), they get mad at you if you don't pay attention to them even if it is her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I feel ugly after the break up?

I'm sad that I finally let go of my ex, but I also feel so ugly. He was my first boyfriend and I'm afraid no one will think I'm pretty again. I know it's not all that matters, but you know, I like feeling beautiful to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

What are the advantages of having a boyfriend in high school?

up there ^^

Anonymous

(30-35)

Kiss on the first date?

if a guy you've only known for a little bit kisses you on the first date should you kiss him back? is that way to early for that?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

Should I tell my girlfriend that she was my first kiss?

Weve been together for 4 monthes. Both 16. I'm a junior she's a senoir. She's been kissed by two other guys. I've had gfs before but never kissed them. Our relationships a little rocky now.. Anyway, if I tell her will...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys who won't make a move?

What is your opinion of guys who don't have the balls to make a move on girls? Examples: * He would love to date a girl in his class but he never dare to ask her out. Or * He see a really hot girl in the supermarket...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I hardly know him, so why can't I stop thinking about him?

So I've just gotten a new job and one of the guys that already works there seems pretty cute. I've spoken to him a few times, but I hardly know him, but then I find myself going home and all I can think about is him, I...

A1iice

Xper 3 Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

What would you do if someone came out to you and said they were a viridiphile?

That they were a Viridiphile.

KarKingJack

Xper 3 Age: 32

How do you tell a guy is desperate?

Girls how do you tell a guy is desperate? I seem to get the feeling you all have a sixth sense with these things.

Jsqueek

Xper 5 Age: 37

How much do girls care about height?

I used to think they didn't care as long as you were taller than them but after doing some reading on this website it seems different?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I need time for myself?

girls what does it mean when a girl say to her man I need time for myself

Anonymous

(36-45)

Great in person, sucks over texts?

Girl I've been talking to is amazing when we are in person or talking over the phone, but when it comes to text, she drives me nuts. Her texting is so confusing and misleading that I have to remind myself how she is in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls wear T-shirt over their bikinis?

Not all, but I see some girls at swimming pools wear t-shirts over their bikini. If it was a colored t-shirt I would understand that it covers you up, but most of them wear white t-shirt which is see though when wet anyways.

Anonymous

(30-35)