All Questions

Does she like me? If she asks me to give her a foot massage...

ok, here's the deal: I'm 20 she is 3 years younger, we are christians so no sex till marriage, we go to the same church and hv become good friends over the last few months. We flirt and stuff and she is friends with my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Do guys like having their hair played with?

Just curious. :)

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Ladies: what attracted you to your "rebound" guy?

So I get approached by quite a few women in bars/clubs. Nearly all of them ALWAYS tell me they just got out of a serious relationship. Ladies, have you ever had a rebound guy? For those who have, what initially...

madness483

Xper 3 Age: 40

Marriage & Weddings

Why do men act like marriage is a death sentence?

OK. Am I the only one that gets offended or find it insulting when men act like getting married only happens when they "surrender" and have nothing else left to do and want kids so "I guess I should get married". Why do...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do guys ever lay awake at night and think about a girl?

a girl they recently broke up with ? recently met ? recently loved? Or do they just fall asleep and don't care ? Just wonder if you think about us as much as we do about you. thanks :)

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Sick and tired of holding onto false hope, how do I ask for closure?

It's been exactly 1 month today since my ex dumped me for unknown reasons. I was completely comfortable with her and thought everything was going fine and out of nowhere she breaks my heart. I accept it, agree on the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Why does my boyfriend invite everyone to his birthday celebration but me?

I can't seem to make him understand how hurtful and disrespectful it is to me to celebrate his birthday and tell me I am not allowed. First time he went to Pismo Beach riding all weekend and said no girls were allowed....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What type of reaction do guys want from a girl they like?

My guy friend told me he likes me. I thought he did for a while but was shocked that he actually admitted it, so I don't fully buy it from him. We banter back and forth. Him: I like you Me: no you don't (in a playful way)...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What black men hairstyles attract women the most?

I am a black man and I was wondering which Black Men hairstyles attract the lovely ladies the most? It is waves, dreads, fades, curls, Afros, etc? Any and all answers will be appreciated (this question is for black guys...

BlackBear18

Xper 6 Age: 34

Family & Friends

My guy friend is controlling?

So I have this new guy friend in my math class, and well he talks to me a lot and stares at me alot, the thing is I've only known him for about a week. He flirts with me and yea but the thing is I have a boyfriend and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a girl give a guy a wedgie?

my girlfriend gave me a wedgie out of nowhere recently, and I have no idea why she did it..she laughed and I kind of ignored it..will she do it again though? should I give her one back?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why does my ex Girlfriend find reasons to contact me??

We were togther for 3 years and broke up 9 months ago. She got a new Boyfriend right away and they got a place together. I stopped talking to her because I didn't want to hear about it or be involved at all. Months...

wonderwhy

Xper 5 Age: 42

Fashion & Beauty

Do people notice if a guy wears the same shirt a couple weeks later?

I'm not a gay guy, and I only have two weeks worth of shirts that I like to wear. I change it up a lot and in different orders, but do girls really notice and care if a guy wears the same shirt two weeks later? Or should...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What's the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you?

Girls, what's the most romantic thing a guy has ever done? Guys too, any stories?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Lean on me...what does it mean?

I was with my crush on the subway and I was tired so I apologized and said that I was going to take a nap. He said that if I want, I could lean on his shoulder. Of course,I gladly took up on his offer. Later, he leaned...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Gut feeling my ex called me last night...?!?!

OK, so, at 11:30 last night I got a call from a private number. I NEVER receive calls with a private number. It rang only once before they Hung up (didn't get a chance to answer it). Now, I realize that this could've...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating 2 months ... I told him I miss him?

I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now, we meet 1-2 a week and have a really good time together. I'm 23 and he's 26 and we have been dating exclusively from the beginning. We have fooled around, but haven't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

What if you had a fierce girlfriend? lol

Would you let her call all the shots?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is this girl eavesdropping into my conversations?

Like lets say I'm talking to my friends and she is in the proximity but I'm not talking to her, obviously, and she either laughs at something I say or makes a comment or a sarcastic remark or if it is some sort of...

MaxwellSmart

Yoda Age: 42

Girls, seriously, if you start giving the cold shoulder to a guy who is interested and then he ignores you?

Why would you go back and start talking to him again and try to get his attention? What is the reasoning behind it? I'm not asking "why a certain girl is doing that?" why do YOU do it? Really, help me out here. You ignore...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a FWB tells you really personal information? Do they see you as relationship material?

So this guy I have known since the start of the school year started hooking up with me several weeks ago. He had been pursing me for a long time, but I waited to see his character. We have hooked up and after we will...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex threatened suicide tonight because I wouldn't take him back. What do I do?

we dated 3 months. He cheated. I left. He kept playing and trying to pull me back in, but I didn't fall for it.then tonight he texted and wanted me back. I said no and we both need to move on in life. that's when he...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Other

What does it mean when a guy calls you smokey?

I have known this guy for about a year now and he is a sweet person. Just not sure if he is just being comfortable or flirting with me

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

What the heck is wrong with me? I seem to repel women!

So, I'm 29 now, was intensely shy in high school, but did a tour in the military and some corporate work and now I'm back in a university, wanting to date again. So its my first year at the school, granted. I find this...

Anonymous

(36-45)

To all the shy/inexperienced guys out there?

Does fear and/or not knowing what to do in terms of dating really stop you from pursuing a girl you really like? Even if the girl made it really clear she's interested in you, would you still not make a move?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

GIRLS: Do you think a guy having a Gucci wallet?

I dress with brand name clothes like Armani, guess, and occasionally aeropostale or things like that. Some people say my wallet is gay but others like it. I'm just curious what other girls out there think. if this link...

Ziggylittles

Xper 5 Age: 31

Valentine's Day

I lied to my boyfriend about my past what do I do?

I had been in my first relationship a few years ago and I made a stupid stupid mistake of being intimate with the guy because I was clueless and didn't know better. Things ended badly and a few months later I met my...

hopelesspotcomo

Xper 5 Age: 33

Family & Friends

17 going on 18 and still haven't had a girlfriend... :(

So I'm roughly 17 and 9 months old and I haven't been able to find a girl yet...? I don't think I'm that bad looking although I do have a small amount of acne around my chin and bottom lip. I never really made a...

Jake_Is_Here

Xper 5 Age: 32

Why do girls like guys who look older than their age?

This is mainly in high school and college. Girls are only attracted to guys their age that look way old for their age. Like a guy who is 18 but looks 25. Either that or they like guys much older than them who look young...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Will a girl ever forget their ex?

was with my girlfriend for a year and a half, had a rocky relationship, but loved each other more than anything in the world. I would do anything for her and she would do anything for me. I would take a bullet for her and...

mmunir

Xper 5 Age: 32

How to know if a smart, shy, confident girl likes me?

I don't want to write out the whole story, but, essentially, I'm a college student and I kind of like this girl in my second semester literature class, but I can't tell if she likes me back. From what I can tell, she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy wrestles with you, locks you down, and repeatedly spanks you?

Like the guy I like and I live with each other. But our moms do too, they're just at work quite a bit of the time. I wouldn't tell him what I was laughing about, so he wrestled me to the floor, and spanked me. I got...

Anonymous

(30-35)