All Questions

Are brothers more likely to be attracted to the same girl?

I'm friends with two brothers. One is my age and one is a few years older (by a few I mean less than 5, so he's not too old for me). I met A in high school and we became friends. Then I met B more recently, about a year...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is she losing interest or should I just give her space?

Ive known this girl for about a month, everything has been going great up we went on a couple dates and everything went well. until a few days ago, When I asked her out a third time she gave a legit reasons why she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it possible to turn non-romantic love and attraction into romantic love?

I have been in love with my "best friend" for over 4 years now. She knows this, all too well, but somehow I seem to frighten her (possibly with the intensity with which I do love her). We have talked it through, and I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do western women have a sense of entitlement?

Before they were cool because they could speak English, but now everyone can speak so the way I see it western women are redundant, they nag, they can't cook, can't clean, don't know how to treat a man, deny sex and are...

Gregs

Yoda Age: 46

What does it mean when your ex boyfriend stares at you?

It's been over for 15 months. I love him more than ever. We haven't spoken a word since the split and it was pretty ugly. I have seen him 5 times at the club since October. He just sits there staring at me all night. I...

supergirl2380

Xper 5 Age: 46

Fashion & Beauty

Do guys like Asian girls' eyes?

Is it weird/ different to "gaze" into Asian eyes as opposed to occidental eyes?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean if a guy ask what flavor chapstick you are wearing? (Guy responses)

I was just putting on some regular cherry chapstick and I guy I recently met sitting next to me asked what flavor. I told him, he just smiled. Err... any significance?

housetop

Xper 5 Age: 34

Fashion & Beauty

Is being called hot better than being called cute, or are they separate but equal?

when guys talk about my looks they call me cute or pretty. when they talk about my best friend they call her hot or sexy. i always thought hot and sexy was more of a compliment and was a step above cute and pretty....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Isn't it true that most women would find Faith Hill "hotter" than Shania Twain?

I mean "hotter". Not anything else.

AshBrown

Yoda Age: 58

Does this guy like me, or am I just another girl to him?

Or is he deciding or WHAT I don't even know, can you just tell me where I stand with him? We don't text, call, talk outside of class, but we talk a lot in our one class together and we sit next to each other. 1. he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She just stopped talking to me out of the blue. I don't know what to do

OK so I have been seeing this girl and everything was going really good. Then she just stopped talking to me out of the blue. A month went by and she never really called or text me. I finally asked her what was up. She...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is it OK to HATE men and not OK to HATE women?

Why is it OK to be a feminist, and not a chauvinist? Why is it that when women complain about men its always "well that GUY is an a-hole!" And when men complain about women its always "well that GUY is an a-hole, he's...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do guys not like red heads?

I heard most guys don't like red head girls, and I want to dye my hair red. Do you like red heads? And if yes then maybe give some insight as to why other guys might not like red heads.

raerae_

Xper 5 Age: 31

Dating

Some random guy won't stop texting and calling me?!

Okay so I got a call from an unknown number and it was some Scottish guy asking for someone who's name I can't remember, anyway I said sorry you have the wrong number and he's like OK who are you then? I didn't want to be...

nussycow

Xper 5 Age: 34

Family & Friends

I'm 19 and still get grounded. HELP!

here's what's going on in my little world... last night I fell asleep at my boyfriends house, as soon as I woke up (which was at 7am) I went home. My dad didn't say a word to me besides I'm grounded for the next 4days....

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex boyfriend's good friend asked me out!

Hi! My ex and I broke up 2 years ago, but we're still good friends. Since he was always very shy, we only got to hang out with 3 of his friends, and only a couple of times. Two weeks ago he called me cause he needed a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guy always lead me on?

okay so I have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, nothing. I am 18, so its kinda annoying. I have talked to like 3 really nice guys in the past year and all of them are either already in a relationship or they just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Had an awakening moment...the breakup was all my fault, how do you live with yourself? :(

Talked with a friend of mine today and I hate to admit this, but I've realized that the relationship with my ex ended because of me. Sure, we both did some pretty horrible things to each...but in the end, I think I pushed...

bigblueeyes1

Xper 5 Age: 42

The typical man one-word answer?

I've noticed a lot, especially when talking with men, they often give one word answers. Are they trying to inform you that they don't want to talk, do they not want to talk as much and that is why they do that? WHY do men...

BunnyToast

Xper 6 Age: 32

Should I take my wife back for a 2nd time?

After 3 years of living together my girlfriend left me to "find herself" (after cheating on me). She came crawling back a few months later & I took her back. She already had 1 kid from her previous marriage, but she...

arcanus6669

Xper 5 Age: 50

How quickly do girls get over the guys they loved?

I guess in my case, I think my ex-girlfriend moved on rather quickly because she was asked out rather quickly, while I'm left standing here, emotionally scarred and unready to seek out any new relationships.

leetaylor

Xper 5 Age: 44

What is love nowadays?

girls and guys , do you really feel this word "love" whenever you are with someone ,that you are not with him/her just for sex or for money or for a name among your friends that you have a girlfriend/boyfriend or...

blackghost53

Xper 5 Age: 37

Girl randomly stops talking to me?

OK seems to happen a lot to me. I always hit it off with girls and go on a few dates, things always seem going good even their facebook status would have comments about a good night. but usually randomly they will stop...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He finally opened up to me, now what do I do?

Alex finally opened up to me about what happened and why he's been so weird lately. Right now he's working a lot of 12 hour shifts, because he has to, in addition going to school. Basically, he doesn't have time or money...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a guy fumbles his words and is awkward a little in conversation, does that make him a creep?

I'm under the impression that it would make him creepy which is stupid because, I know from experience that, when I'm like that around a girl, I really like her and I can't help how I come off. it just happens that way,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Acting too interested or not interested enough?

So I met a guy at school and he friended me on facebook and got my #. I texted him that afternoon to strike up conversation, and we talked pretty consistently for three days in a row, with me always being the first one to...

annabee123

Xper 5 Age: 37

Attractive girls either ALWAYS or NEVER have a boyfriend?

The mindset of some guys is that either attractive girls always have a boyfriend because they are attractive and guys are always after her. But the other mindset is that they never have a boyfriend because guys think that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls notice if a guy is working out?

I mean if you know the guy and then see him like 2-3 months later after he been working out everyday. would you notice it? not like ridiculously jacked tholol

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why doesn't she text me first anymore?

I knew this girl for a while, we were really tight before and I'm pretty sure she liked me. She used to not go more then like a few days without texting me or seeing me and I used to do the same. Now things are crap. Its...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Pros & Cons of dating a black chick

I'm a white guy who has never considered being involved with a black girl. Lets just say I give it a go, what do you think are some pros and cons or comparisons to white chicks.

Razer

Xper 5 Age: 43

Has any girl ever taken back a guy she dumped for being too clingy?

Has any girl ever taken back a guy she dumped for being too clingy. The guy realizes his mistakes and understands why the girl broke up with him. Friends say, learn from errors and don't make them on the next chick....

Anonymous

(36-45)

How soon is too soon to drop the L bomb?

Been dating this girl almost a month, and we honestly see each other every day, and we both love it. we never fight, are always cute together. honestly I think I love her, I mean we get along PERFECTLY. But I'm afraid...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do white guys prefer mixed/ light skinned black chicks over dark ones?

I'm mixed/ light skinned and I get approached by spanish and white guys. my older sister on the other hand is a little thicker and darker. but we were both brought up in a very educated white neighborhood so we aren't...

Anonymous

(30-35)