All Questions

Why does ex keep putting the ball in my court?

He dumped me/treated me terribly about a month ago for someone else when I only wanted to have casual sex with him/be friendly (we broke up for real a year ago and were together 3 years). Now every time he talks to me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Has anyone ever been to a rainbow party?

My and some friends were discussing the "myth" and that it had to stem from somewhere so it has had to have happened. Wondering if any of you could chime in.

awwcudivans

Xper 4 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

Are woman really fickle minded?

i really don't understand what woman is thinking.. one moment she said there is no way in patching up with her ex boyfriend , soon after they patched up again... can a woman's words be trusted ? or are they really just...

im_sad

Xper 5 Age: 37

Girl's Behavior

I keep my distance. Is it bad that I do this?

When I first get into a relationship (like casual dating), I don't want to come off as clingy to the guy so I keep my distance. It's not so much that I'm trying to play a game, but I'm afraid that I will come off too...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl asks you if you have kids?

There's this girl at work and in the last couple of weeks we've become pretty close and we tease and joke with each other a lot. We are both in our mid 20s and in all of our conversation we have never mentioned if we are...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

He calls me every day, but doesn't want to see me. what should I do?

I really don't know what to do. I like this guy, but he doesn't seem able to fully commit. ..here's my story I know him for 6 months. we didn't date too much in the first 3 months. we did see each other, but one or twice...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Got number from waitress, text for a bit or ask her out for coffee?

Hey, so I while I was out for dinner with a friend, long story short, at the end if the meal I started flirting with our attractive waitress and she seemed fairly receptive to it. When after taking care of the bill and...

another-user

Xper 5 Age: 40

Guys, what do you think of girls who are surrounded by a lot of men?

She could be either 'one of the guys' and/or just extremely attractive that many men throw themselves at her. Either way, does that intimidate you from approaching her? I have more male friends than female, however my...

HopeIessRomantik

Xper 6 Age: 36

Girls: Would you date a guy who uses a cane?

Girls, age 25 and younger: Would you date someone who uses a cane to walk around with? Due to an accident I suffered in the past, I've been re-learning how to walk again and I have gotten myself to the point where I can...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating someone who isn't talkative?

I've been dating a guy for a year and 2 months (on and off relationship)... Honestly?, I feel like I'm the one to always say, lets talk on the phone, or lets do this, or lets do that. And my boyfriend just sits there and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to..um...put a girl "on hold"?

I recently started dating a girl that I like. It's going well and I suspect will be at it for a while. After a few dates with her, another girl that I like gave me her phone number, obviously with some kind of...

mrock

Xper 5 Age: 35

Guy's Behavior

Hey guys, what do you think of Christina Hendricks?

link She's from Mad Men, and plays Joan. I was just wondering what you thought of her because she's not a twig and she is very pretty. Thanks.

kmichelle93

Xper 5 Age: 32

Why is my ex texting me if he has a new girlfriend? I'm still in love with him :( HELP!

I broke up with my ex of 1 year because he cheated on me. I am still very in love with him and he didn't want to break up but was treating me too casually. He got a new girlfriend within 4 weeks. It's been 3 months since...

Anonymous

(36-45)

After hooking up, what if a girl doesn't text me back?

I hooked up(made out) with this girl last weekend and I got her number. I texted her and she replied a couple of times, but when I said Last weekend was pretty fun, we should do it again I got no reply. Does this mean...

Anonymous

(30-35)

In university - How do I approach this guy I find cute but don't even know?

We live in the same residence of 800 first year students. The first time I saw him, we were both locked out of our rooms and were asking the front desk to help us out. Ever since then, I've noticed him in the cafeteria....

salenkio

Xper 5 Age: 33

Why don't guys look at me?

Guys don't really pay much attention to me and I don't get why.Yes,I admit I don't look people in the eye when I walk by because I'm insecure and have no confidence.But I'm starting to think that I'm ugly and unattractive...

Oleanderlight

Xper 3 Age: 36

Fashion & Beauty

Do guys like the "messy bun" style on girls hair?

I'm 16 and I have below the shoulder, long hair. I was wondering if a guy would like hair like mine in a messy bun. If you don't know what one is, look it up on google images. anyways, I'm wearing a cute victoria's secret...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why is my girlfriend so lazy?

I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 and a half years now, we moved in together last February. She does not clean up after herself, she does not do her chores (which are split pretty fairly considering I also take care of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Oblivious to flirting?

Girls...If you realized the guy you've been flirting with, but getting nothing back, was totally oblivious to the whole flirting thing, would you just walk away or make it a lot more obvious for me...Oops I mean HIM? lol

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

If a guy says you gave him a tingle, what does he mean?

Especially after you just said something romantic.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Why would any woman want to be a home wrecker?

I just read this question about a girl who wants a married man. She is 18 & he is 30 with a wife & kids. How could you steal someone's husband & live with yourself? Especially if they have children, divorce is very...

TheCheshireCat

Yoda Age: 39

Society & Politics

What does it mean when a guy remembers random fact about a girl?

There is this guy who is my friend, however, we rarely talk to each other as we do not meet that much. However, he remembers a lot of things said in a random conversation. For instance if I say I like that teacher because...

justme234

Xper 3 Age: 34

Do college girls like ADIDAS MOVES MEN cologne?

The question pretty much says it all but I am a college guy and was wondering if women like Adidas Moves for Men? Thanks!

Jeffzuchow03

Xper 5 Age: 33

Society & Politics

Financially unstable female is a turn off to men?

I am in trouble, financially at this time. I am doing all I can to cut costs but it isn’t working. I am currently single so, as a single woman it makes it much more difficult to get a head (financially). I get by alright...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My Crush Asked Me For Advice on Another Girl?

For about two months, I've been texting this guy and seeing him now and then and he's always seemed like he liked me. A week ago, a friend of ours even made a statement that he was touching me a bit too much and seemed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex boyfriend wants to be friends... but why?

My ex boyfriend broke up with me about 3 months ago. We'd been together for 2 years. I thought everything was wonderful and we were living together and he completely split on me. We did no contact for the first 2...

bouldergirl

Xper 5 Age: 38

Fashion & Beauty

Are baggy clothes a turnoff?

I usually wear a size small shirt and it fits my body perfectly, but recently I tried upping the size to a large and it looks extremely baggy. Is it my imagination or do girls not even give me a single look with baggy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why can't I shake my ex off my mind?

So my ex and I have been broken up for almost a year. We have hooked up a few times since. It's been really hard for me to completely move on. I have never had a hard time with my other break ups. And we always randomly...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

Hooking up with best friend's brother!?

So I hooked up with my best friends brother..And now me and him don't know where are relationship stands...we didn't have sex though. She doesn't know but I feel like a terrible friend, but I don't not want to tell her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Do you think it's alright for your boyfriend to sleep over at another girl's house?

I will try to keep this short. My boyfriend has a lot of friends that are women, and he lives around the Kingston area which is about an hour and a half drive from Ottawa where most of his friends live. He usually goes...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls go incommunicado after a good first date?

Two people meet on a dating website, exchange a few emails. They meet for a quick coffee date and have pleasant conversation where both seem happy, compliment each other, talk about doing things together or going on more...

ntulsian

Xper 5 Age: 50