All Questions

How should I react to him ditching me?

I asked my boyfriend today if we would hang out tonight and he said he would come over to my place. Then later he asks me if I want to go out with him with some friends so I agreed. Then he told me that they were meeting...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is my boyfriend Anorexic?

I know this is probably a rare situation .. it usually is the other way around I been with my boyfriend for 3 years. Seems like the past year he has dropped a major about of weight and does not even work out. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to introduce yourself to your crush?

I have a crush on a senior at my school, and next semester I will be in class with him for the first time. How do I introduce myself?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I'm too ashamed to talk to my ex?

I feel so awful for the way I treated her after our break up back in June. We dated for three and half years and lived together for about 9 months. The last few months of our relationship wasn't so good, I mean we had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

He says he cares about me deeply?? All answers are welcome =)

I did post this earlier but it ended up in Dating instead of Relationships...But I'm going to keep this short... I've been talking to this guy for a month and a half. He's in the Air Force and 22. I really really like...

collegegirl14

Xper 5 Age: 34

Society & Politics

My girlfriend has photos of her ex in her purse?

I was asked by my girlfriend to get a card from her purse. She never uses her purse normally just carries them around separately in her pocket, unless she needs a certain card that she hardly uses. As I put the cards...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My current boyfriend's ex girlfriend sent me a rude message?

They used to live together and they were pretty serious, and I trust that he didn't do anything. He says she is making everything up and that's just how she is. Before this she also would bombard him with texts and drunk...

louiseee

Xper 6 Age: 33

Relationships

Is it normal to feel sick after a very bad argument with someone?

Is it normal to feel sick after a bad agruement that was close to fight? (doesn't have to be someone close to you.) Especially when you are angry very much. pain in foot,body...etc is this normal? Why did I feel pain in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

This guy called me skinny ! It made me mad

Ok so all my life till the age of 16 I've been really fat . Finally I lost a lot of weight and became thin around 17-18. More Recently I've started lifting weights to get a good physique I've been going to the gym for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Is it rude to interrupt someone while they're texting?...

The other day I was sat on my break at work and was having a text conversation with my girlfriend. A work colleague came and sat next to me and just started talking to me for the remainder of my break. I felt it was...

cheeky_starfish

Guru Age: 47

Family & Friends

How to deal with overprotective brothers?

Ok, so, I have to older brothers and an older cousin who I live with. My latest boyfriend I Haven't brought home or told my brothers about. Their so overprotective its insane. Their always hovering over my shoulder,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a player stick around for so long?!

I've had a player talking to me now for 4 months and once in awhile he'll disappear but he always seems to come back! Don't most of the players quit after a while if they aren't getting any sex?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Should I remind him about the date?

He asked me to hang out two days ago and I kind of freaked out because I like him and at the end of the text convo it sounded really awkward.. I was wondering if I should just ask him when were hanging out Because I kind...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you like long curly hair?

What do you think of girls with big curly hair like Scary Spice except longer? 100% natural and not a curly perm. Scary Spice: link Examples: link link link Mine is most like the last link except...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Tried talking to your crush but got the cold shoulder?

i tried to talk to a girl I've been crushing the last few weeks of class. I've been noticing that she's been throwing some glances at me, we have a little eye contact, so that made me a little curious. last week our...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do guys think of Turkish girls?

I'm Turkish but because I'm from the European part of Turkey (Thrace, where Troy used to be lol), I have golden colored hair and blue eyes. I don't look American though. People think I'm exotic, but they can't guess where...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Do kisses feel different when someone's lips are bigger than yours?

i never really thought about this but the other day, I was at a party and I made out with this guy who's lips were super thin. I have really big lips and I sorta felt like my lips were devouring his. I don't know if my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I make my butt LOOK bigger?

I know some girls like guys with a nice size butt and tomorrow my friends and I we are going to New York City. I was wondering how can I make my butt LOOK, not to be just to LOOK, bigger. Thanks for your help and time.

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is your preference of Sex Appeal on the opposite gender?

I thought I had an idea of what is sex appeal BUT then again I don't apparently after talking with a friend so I was curious what it is exactly. Some women claim its the physique of the guy, others claim its his fashion...

Phoenix1991

Guru Age: 35

Mysterious men, attractive and why?

what is a mysterious man? and do women find them attractive and why?

jimmymac321

Xper 6 Age: 45

Is it possible for your feet to shrink?

I used to wear a size 8, then a 7 1/2 and now I fit comfortably in a size 7. Shoes that used to be tight on me are now perfect. Can feet shrink? I didn't think that was possible..

mccollins

Xper 7 Age: 34

Other

Can a minor (under 18) carry a lighter?

My cousin is 16 & she wants to know if she can carry a lighter and I have no idea if she can. Can she?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Rugged, masculine males vs. boyish, "pretty" males?

i'm interested to what people prefer here out of these two; rugged, conventionally masculine looking men (e.g. Colin Farrell, Hugh Jackman, Viggo Mortensen, Russell Crowe, Denzel Washington) or the more effeminate look...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can some guys act defensive/rude when they like a girl?

especially for a guy whos not thinking of marriage or a serious relationship at least I don't think he is and he suddenly meets a girl who kind of gets under his skin, and now he's suddenly defensive around her and rude...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is arrogance a turn on or turn off?

Do you find arrogance to be attractive or off putting? There's this dude I had in one of my classes this whole semester and it wasn't until this week(the last week) that he begins showing interest. But he's super...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Dating

It'll be my first kiss? Tomorrow, I'm going to kiss him.

He's tried to kiss me already, but I was too shy and backed out. Tomorrow, I wanna just GO UP TO HIM, and kiss him - get it over and done with. Do you guys have any tips? It would be GREATLY appreciated. This is going...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does hugs mean?

What does this mean? I had an emotional affair w/a guy two years ago. We still work together. We ended it mutually because we were both in other relationships...there was no sex...just kissing, touching, talking. Its...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do you think puppy fat still exists into your late teens and early 20's?

I'm 19, everyone says I look 16. I have a kind of childish look and I'm not fat but I guess maybe a little chubby... I'm 5 ft 7 and around 120 pounds. I keep worrying about it and my mom told me that normally around my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Sister kicked me out of her wedding?

Next month I was supposed to be the maid of honor for my sis' wedding. Anyway yesterday she organized to go shoe shopping for the wedding. I cancelled plans and agreed to go with her. Today she calls up and cancels...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, do you make a difference between girls you want to date and girls you want to sleep with?

guys, do you make a difference between girls you want to date and girls you want to sleep with? if yes, then why?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

When women say "you are too good for me" what do they mean?

Happened with my bitch ex and now with this great beautiful girl, she says I'm too good for her and to forget her...Someone help.

Yesman69

Xper 5 Age: 35

Too much hugging..? or just normal for a relationship?

Hugs.. I have a new girlfriend and I was doing this before she was my girlfriend.. Ill hug her goodnight real tight.. then say good night.. while hugging her.. then Ill head for the door.. then Ill stop.. hug her...

Anonymous

(36-45)