All Questions

Texting crush over break?

I've only texted this guy once and I talk to him some at school. Is it weird to randomly text him without a reason? Would it be OK to text him something like "How's your break going?" or do you have any other ideas for a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Moving on from my ex, and now she's trying to make my life miserable?

I recently went through a very difficult break-up. It's been a few months and I'm slowly getting to the point where I'm moving on from the relationship. I'm not entirely over her, but I'm enjoying being single again....

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long before my boyfriend resents that he's in better shape than I am?

I wasn't in my top shape before we've started dating, and now I've gained about 7 lbs on top of that. We eat out way more than I did. He works out all the time and has an awesome body, whereas I'm about 5'6, 137. I've...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How Small is too Small for a Guy

I'm a 22 year old guy 5'5" and 145 lbs. I'm very athletic and my girl friends call me handsome all the time, but when I go to bars or clubs it seems like girls look right through me. Am I just too small to them to offer...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex girlfriend wants to be with me again even after getting pregnant with another guy's baby?

About a couple of months ago I broke up with my girlfriend, she got another boyfriend (who is known for sleeping with a lot of women), slept with him, got pregnant, and broke up with with him. Now she wants to be my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Debating my "FWB" situation ... Do I speak up or just walk away?

Met him almost 5mos ago through my bro-n-law, started talking, hung out a couple weeks later & its been physical ever since. I've been open, telling him I like him, wanna get to know him better & he gave me his busy...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

If a girl asks who you like?

if a girl ask you who you like is that a sign either they or one of their friends likes you

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Love Confession Letter (for guys)?

Guys, what would your reaction be if you received a confession letter of love from a girl ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls like if a guy plays with their hair while cuddling?

Do girls like if a guy plays with their hair while they're just cuddling, watching a movie? What about if she is giving him head?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

What does it mean when a girl talks about her ex boyfriend?

I've been spending time with this girl, and she keeps talking about her ex boyfriend. We have a lot of fun talking to each other, and she at least seems to really enjoy my company. Every once in a while she will throw in...

RandomTree23

Xper 5 Age: 36

Relationships

Why do some guys like to flirt with much older women?

I don't flirt but it seems that several guys who flirt at me are so much younger than me and they all want to go out with me.The youngest one was 11 years younger than me.He asked me to go out with him which I of course...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

I don't feel like a girl will ever fall in love with me.

I'm 22, never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, only kissed one girl and never been on a date. Not to mention I'm painfully shy around girls which has held me back in life a lot. I've been complimented on my looks and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

I kissed a guy at work and now I don't know how he feels...

theres a guy I work with on a day to day basis, and we use to just play around with harmless flirting, and people would say he liked me, but he just wanted his leg over, which is all I fort of it. but then other night...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do young women look for manly men anymore?

When I look at my step sister for example, she is 16. She is obsessed with a kid called Ryan Sheckler. You also see most young women love this Edward guy from Twilight. What happened to women seeking manly men? All these...

NothingGoldCanStay

Xper 3 Age: 36

Health & Fitness

How do you get rid of lazy eyes? And guys, do you mind them?

Is there any way I can get rid of a lazy eye? Makeup tricks, products anything? I'm really self-conscious about it. :/

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does my childhood friend like me?

hi .. I like this guy, Ken who is my childhood friend .. Our parents are business partners and we went to the same school etc .. in school, when we were kids we were super close, always together, talking fighting,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When do guys start liking a girl?

I'd like to know when guys start liking girls! :) Thank you much!

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

Guy who blew me off contacted me today...Advice please

ok so guy and I were getting closer and closer after two months of dating. then last date happened and he had told me he wld be busy all week but when I didn't hear from him I took it as a blow-off and sent him a long...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What does it mean when your ex says he misses you?

Does it mean your ex boyfriend possibly wants to get back together if he tells you that he misses you and still loves you?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

What does it mean when a girl asks about your girlfriend?

Okay, I met this Japanese girl who is new to the college, and we were talking about Japanese things. I was telling her about what Americans think about Japan, and the subject of maid outfits came up. Maid costumes are...

RandomTree23

Xper 5 Age: 36

How true is this statement: "Men want to be heroes to women"

I have a close friend who went to a workshop about dealing with me in relationships both romantic and day to day. One of the most important things she learned was that men want to be viewed as heroes to women. They want...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guys, why do you pretend to forget a girl's name?

It was clear he really knew my name. Also, the first time we ever talked he flexed his muscles. I noticed he does this 2 a lot of girls but only if they ask. Finnaly, I told my friend he had a girlfriend (he doesn't) &...

angel_patty

Xper 5 Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

28, Never had a girlfriend before...Am I single forever?

I feel old. Like life has passed me by, several times, in fact. The boat came, but it did not stop to pick me up. It rescued everyone except me. I know that I'm not that old. I'm not yet 30, and on top of that, I still...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

What does it mean when a girl calls a guy "Love" in a txt?

We are not together but we are good friends. We both give each other hugs, we seem like we both get along good. She did break up with her boyfriend so she is single for now. But I know this that she calls me "love"...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what would your reaction be if you found out your girlfriend still sleeps with a teddy bear?

I am not really ashamed of it at all, some of my friends know if they have been around me when I am getting ready to go to sleep or been in my bedroom. I am not really sure why, but it is comforting and I don't sleep...

justlilly

Explorer Age: 40

Should I ask a girl I knew from high school to hang out just as friends or something?

There is a girl who was in my physics class in high school and we talked and stuf. That was a long time ago though we both graduated college now and I kind of want together back in touch.

doctorwhofan23

Guru Age: 37

Is putting on makeup trial-and-error?

I have never used makeup before in my 18 years of life because I always thought it felt a bit heavy on my face and it smelt kinda funny. My best friend decided to have fun and do a make over. When my mom saw me, she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Should I buy my ex boyfriend's son a Christmas gift?

My ex boyfriend & I recently went through a VERY rough break up. Throughout the relationship he treated me better than any guy ever did, but then overnight things changed & he broke up with me & started acting EXTREMELY...

Jerseyy

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why do guys get so mad easily at their girlfriends?

I thought I was doing the right thing by addressing a problem and saying how I feel. My boyfriend got upset an said that "I always worry about the things I shouldn't and f*** you" I apologize but I guess it wasn't good...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do "friends" cuddle?

There is this girl that I like, but she told me that she isn't ready for a relationship, but she hasn't put me in the "friend" zone. We can talk for hours on end, and she always gives me big hugs, every time she see's me....

Anonymous

(36-45)