All Questions

How not to be hopeless with men - is it too late to turn it around?

I have major problems with getting guys. On paper, I have it all: - I'm very good-looking, pretty face, nice figure and get attention from guys when I first meet them wherever I go. Some guys do double takes when they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Girlfriend says she needs space to deal with emotional issues, can't be in a relationship right now

So yesterday my girlfriend, after being distant for a few days, told me that she felt like she needed space to deal with some emotional issues that she has not fully processed yet from some events that occurred before we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it OK to ask a girl out when your jobless?

Is it okay to ask a girl out when I'm jobless and she's working that too holding a managerial position in her company? And the reason I'm jobless is because I kept quitting jobs since nothing clicked with me for 3 and a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Meeting a guy abroad and then probably never seeing him again...is it worth it?

I am temporarily working (in Wales) right now and I'm staying with my aunt and uncle. There are always people inside the house who are busy fixing it because it's brand new. I don't really talk to them and they don't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it wrong to flirt with a married man?

My brothers best friend and I recently met a few months ago. I'm 18 and he's 30. We're both attracted to each other but he's married and I would never date him.I just really enjoy talking to him he's very charming,cute...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Girlfriend told me she wants to not be exclusive.

My "girlfriend" told me she wants to be less serious and non exclusive after her last boyfriend was a complete tool but she wants to date me and there's not another guy involved. I trust her and things are going okay but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I love blood, it just fascinates me...

I love blood. It just fascinates me. Is this weird? I tried cutting on myself tonight because I wanted to watch myself bleed. I wanted to watch it ooze out of my wound, trickle down my arm, and drip onto the counter. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What's the best way to ask my therapist out for a date?

Hi guys, I need your help this time. I've actually been going for therapy at this local hospital for the past 3 months as I fractured a finger. Over the 3 months, I've gone for a total of like 4 therapies and 3 out of...

flealancer

Xper 5 Age: 40

Dating

I met this a guy at the club. should I go out on a date with him ?

Okkk so I met this guy at the club he was really sweet and we danced the entire night. We didn't leave each others side once we met. He bought me drinks and we made out a couple of times. At the end of the night he asked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would a girl rest her head on anyone's shoulder even on a guy not that close to her?

does it necessarily mean that she might have feelings for him?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Signs of flirting?or just bein a douche in the workplace

flicking rubberbands.nicknames.always calling for you and nobody else in the room.throwing paper balls at you.calling you doll and dollface every now and again.but never texts or anything outside of work that much!answers?

sk082890

Xper 5 Age: 35

Do girls like "buff" guys?

I ask this question because I see many negative comments about muscular men, but they only talk about very muscular men (like bodybuilder). So what do you think about "buff" guys? I mean someone muscular but not too...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When he says "I miss you" does he mean "I love you"?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 months, and neither of us has dropped the L bomb yet. We live over an hour apart and only get to see each other about twice a week. He tells me all the time that he misses...

Anonymous

(36-45)

An old flame, old feelings resurfacing. What should I do?

I split up with my ex almost 9 months ago. It took a lot of heartache and pain to move on but I did my time (NC etc) and thought I had gotten over her! We basically started hanging out again around 2 months ago and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Are all Black girls fake?

The vast majority of them wear fake hair, or chemically straighten it. They do this because they know they would not be attractive with their own natural hair. Whenever I see one walking around with her natural hair, I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Good looking guys who are always single (not by choice)...

Good looking guys who hardly have girlfriends and are always single. What's the benefits of this? I'm not talking about the immature benefits like sleeping with any girl, or getting multiple girls. What do you girls...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

What are your stereotypes on hair color?

Blonde Brunette Redhead Other What stereotypes do you put to each? And why? Which do you prefer?

quela0

Xper 5 Age: 34

Dating

5th grader dating 8th grader?

My younger sister is wondering if that would be "ok" she is the 8th grader. The guy in 5th grade is taller then her (5'6") and he is mature. What do you think?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I meet boring traditional guys when all I dream of is a dynamic open minded guy like me!

I always searched for funny dynamic guys who are full of life and free from traditions and neuroticism , because I'm very dynamic, I joke all the time, I refuse the conventional things and I'm not a traditional person,...

anonima25

Xper 5 Age: 45

Guys: Why would you pat a girl on the top of her head?

I was talking (and kind of flirting) with this guy and he started patting the top of my head, I was like oi get off and he kept doing it :P

thisislifebaby

Xper 5 Age: 31

Why do guys slap a girls butt?

Me and my ex boyfriend were on a night out with all our friends and I walked passed him and he slapped my butt and I carried on and ignored him. What's the reason guys do this?

mhairixo

Xper 3 Age: 33

Girls: Do you find dark skin on guys attractive?

And I'm not just talking about black guys. I'm talking about dark Indians too. Most girls I know have boyfriends who have fair skin. I was wondering if this was a preference that girls have. Do most girls like guys with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

I don't want him to know I like him. I don't get this, help me out guys!

well I really like this guy& I try to get conversations going by talking about stuff which he likes and it's worked, we have nice conversations all the time, the thing is whilst this guy I like was on holiday to America....

Anonymous

(36-45)

When I'm around my crush, I'm so nervous?

when I'm around my crush, I'm so nervous, I can't even talk. nothing comes out but: yeahsosahgdlskjdb from trying not to laugh for no reason. it looked like he always liked me but since I've been acting like a total...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend broke up with me because I had "doubts" about our relationship. Is this really a bad thing?

My boyfriend broke up with me because I had "doubts" about our relationship. I had no intention of breaking up with him, I just wanted to work on the issue that we had (which was only that I felt we were spending too much...

precious144

Xper 3 Age: 35

Society & Politics

Has anyone heard of a couple getting back together for a third time?

do you know anyone who has broken twice in the past and are now back together for the third time? I only know 2 people, and their relationships are better than it was before. do you think 3rd times a charm?

krazEkid

Xper 5 Age: 35

Do girls like shy guys?

I mean I'm sure some girls do but I can't meet any. You know cause I'm shy. Any tips on how to talk to girls? I've had gfs and f***buddies, its not like I've been alone forever. I just feel like none of them ever...

zebcore6

Xper 5 Age: 34

What do I do when my guy puts his arm around me in public?

When we're out, walking around, or whatever… He'll sometimes touch the small of my back or put his hand on my hip. I usually don't know what to do and he ends up taking his hands away. I think he thinks I don't like it....

heyitsthatgirl

Xper 5 Age: 38

Family & Friends

Boyfriend lives with baby's mama. Am I the other woman?

My boyfriend asked his baby mama to move in with him years ago to maintain his house, while he was deployed back to back for like 3 deployments. Yet she is still there and he claims he's been telling her to leave for a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a girl texts "I'll talk to you later" why doesn't she ever text first the next day?

OK so I'm texting with this girl who always replies with long texts, I also make her laugh a lot, but after a few exchanges she says "ill talk to you later, I'm sleepy", why doesn't she text first the next day? is she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does my dad scare my boyfriend?

My dad always scares my boyfriend every time he comes over and he'll get his guns out and clean right in front of him between him and my mom they have about 15 guns why they do I don;t know..Well yesterday my my boyfriend...

xnevershoutkillerx

Xper 5 Age: 30

Is this the behavior of a guy friend?

So me & my guy friend became close last year our junior year. He would write poetry & he would share his poetry with me,ask me for advice on it.We started to talk again in the month of December before winter break.He was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I delete his number?

so I like this guy a lot and we'll I thought he liked me back so I keep talking to him, but whenever I text him sometimes he never texts back and when he does he just ends the conversation, and I want to talk to him but I...

pinktyegirl

Xper 5 Age: 34

What does it mean when a guy says "you're one hell of a women"?

so this guy said I was "one hell of a women" and I'm not too sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing? and like what does it mean that I'm one hell of a woman ?

samloversyou

Xper 5 Age: 32