All Questions

Girls, what makes a guy charming?

i've never been called charming, so I'm not asking cause of personal experience, but I want to know, what are things a guy does or says that make him charming?

sikoo31

Xper 3 Age: 35

Guys why do some bully girls?

There this guy that keeps throwing inappropriate jokes at me, degrading me, and is known as the sarcastic, smart mouth of a genius around school. He's not afraid to hurt me i.e. punch and kick. What does he get out of...

AsianMonsturr

Xper 5 Age: 36

Relationships

Chatroulette relationships?

has anyone ever met someone on chatroulette (or any other website like that), and has gotten into a relationship with them? like a real relationship?

starr20465

Xper 5 Age: 33

I'm a dark skinned black girl and I don't want to go outside and get darker, advice?

Most guys don't like dark skinned black girls! It's something I've dealt with for a long time now. You can talk about people just having preferances but I think that's just an exscuse some guys use to make it sound OK...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you find the messy hairstyle on a guy attractive?

Do find guys with the messy hairstyle with short hair attractive? Like the guy has just woken up and crawled outta bed, or he just hasn't bothered to style his hair.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would he ask me to hang out and then ditch me?

This guy likes me. Or so he told me. He said we should hang out this week and I agreed. I said to him that anyday would work so he said he would call me. This morning he said it looks like things are really busy for him...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Other

Gauges keep falling out when I change or sleep.

I just gauged my ears last night and I am a rough sleeper and the right one fell out while I was sleeping. How can I prevent this?

mandeemay

Xper 5 Age: 37

Break Up & Divorce

GUYS: How should I act when he goes into his "cave"?

My man goes through stages of time where he wants to be left alone, usually lasts a few weeks. I need help figuring out how to give him that space. Should I ignore him at home? Should I act normal at home, but just...

enlightenment

Yoda Age: 42

Swimsuit Tan Lines? Sexy? Eh?

I was thinking... Yesterday while slipping off my bikini I am getting very tan/dark. I tan easily...my boobs, vag, ass, and thin line on back are light... I felt kinda sexy. Touching the lighter body parts they felt...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I Have Scars On My Legs?

I have a crap load of scars on my legs because I was an extremely clumsy child. I was going to upload a picture to show you my legs and what I'm talking about but I took a hydrocodone, I'm drowsy and too lazy to get up...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

When a guy calls you "super cute"?

If a guy calls you "super cute" does it necessarily means he's interested? is he flirting? or is he just being friendly? Thank you!

Anonymous

(36-45)

Marriage & Weddings

Why do some mothers push their daughters to get married?

I'm opposed to marriage. I am 20 years old and am very independent and career driven with no interest in marriage or children. My mum is obsessed (understatement) with weddings and she's always saying things like "baby...

naturally

Xper 7 Age: 33

Do guys really care about a flabby tummy?

I've lost 50 lbs since graduating high school, but I still have some tummy flab that is as stubborn as jury duty, I work out everyday, & I am in shape, it's just that one area that I believe can be helped with surgery,...

BellaDoll

Xper 5 Age: 36

What do you think of stretched ears on girls?

Like, 10mm (00g) and 12.7mm(1/2 inch). I find that they can actually be really attractive on some guys but was wondering what people thought of them on girls.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it wrong for a professor to kiss you?

My Professor gave me 2.7/5 on my 1st sight singing quiz, so I took some tutoring sessions. On my next quiz he said I got a lot better, but he still gave me a 2.7 out of 5. So, my jaw dropped. Why did he give me a 2.7 the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you hate being compared?

Me I really do,always being compared to my older sister... and I really hate it... it seems that they putting me down and they don't trust me... and it was so annoying... from school,grades,from activities etc I really...

Katyperry

Xper 6 Age: 37

New girlfriend gets upset easily, what can I do to help?

Me and my new girlfriend have a slight long distance relationship (bout an hour drive) and she seems to get upset easily, she rarely gets upset with me but more with other things like work or her family. Sometimes she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

GUYS, what does it mean when the guy you're talking to is really affectionate with you?

I had been getting to know this guy for a little over two months when he started being really affectionate with me. Whenever we were together, we would naturally act like a couple. Like, he would walk behind me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

White guys interested in black girls?

I have been always attracted to guys ever since I was younger and never put a race on who I was attracted to because he didn't matter to me. But as I got older I find myself more attracted to white guys(p.s. I am black)....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirty yearbook message?

I don't want to be too outgoing with the message but I'll be writing in my crush's yearbook tomorrow. What can I say? I know I want to write my number but in a casual way and he calls me a nickname so I want to joke about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do eyebrows count as facial hair? It's hair on your face am I right?

How come facial hair is only classified as beards and stuff? Your eyebrows and eyelashes are hair are your face to so what's your opinion about that?

cornflake420

Xper 5 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

Why does my ex keep sending me hateful, mean texts?

I broke up with my ex because he never had time for us anymore. I discussed with him several times and it just didn't get better. So instead of staying angry all the time I decided it was time to move on. I still love...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Has playing hard to get ever backfired on you?

Have you played hard to get with a girl/guy and have it backfire on you? What tactics did you use? How long did you play and how did he/she end up dropping you? Write whatever else you can think about. I'm just...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Health & Fitness

Guys, would you date a pretty girl with lots of acne on her face?

Well people do tell me that am pretty (both guys and girls) ..well I also know that I am. At times I get insecure that a guy won't date or like me because i have a lot of acne on my my face. I have tried out a couple...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

My best friend's boyfriend was hitting on me.. should I tell her?

My BFF and her boyfriend have been having problems and they broke up but they still see each other and have sex... y idk? But This is the first guy that she actually Likes a lot.. a lot! Anyways we go to his house every...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it legal for a ex student to date a teacher from school?

He hasn't actually taught me and only started working at the school during my last year. I have properly left school now so am no longer a student There is 12 years between us but I know this age gap is not a big issue...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Parents aren't coming to graduation, what should I do or feel like?

my mom and dad both are not going to my college graduation though they are both unemployed and have completely open schedules. how should I feel?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girlfriend is never around much anymore?

I love my girlfriend. She’s not perfect, but she is someone I can sort of see myself with. I’m not entirely sure on that, but it’s only been 10months. My issue is that she just started a new job and I never see her...

Anonymous

(36-45)