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How to win her over? I've got competition

I've recently started talking to one girl and I like her. I've noticed that some guys are hitting on her (even some of her friends). How to win her over? How to be a winner?

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend of a week acts like a cat...

LOL. I mean it is pretty cute. He is younger than me by a year and I've never had a boyfriend so all this is new to me. But he's like a total cat LOL. He's always playing with my hoodie pockets, leaning on my arm,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys maintain eye contct with girls they are attracted to?

I always thought guys always looked away when you would talk to them because eye contact was too awkward, especially with a shy guy. But an older man at my work can keep very intense eye contact with my when I talk to...

shelbiperry

Xper 5 Age: 34

Dating

He texts but stops responding after two messages?

Conversation was: Him: What're you doing? 8:00 Me: Gonna walk my dog, you? 8:10 Him: Nothing really, on Facebook. 9:00 Me: Oh that's fun. 9:05 ... Then he never responded .. Why even text me if you're not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My girlfriend is being sneaky

hi I am 27 and my girlfriend is 46 I been seeing her6 month and I cheated bt got a second chance witch I am thankful for as I love her to bit but nowi keep finding thing out about e and won't give me a straight answer...

lukey

Xper 5 Age: 42

He told his friends I like him, what's next?

he said it like he wanted them to laugh :( i`m not sure if that's a cover up for his friends or what? I diddnt hear him but my friend told me. I guess he know`s I like him, what do I do now?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Can doctors get your height wrong?

can doctors get your height wrong ? My dad and my uncle and several of my friends are all 6'0 or above, and I'm taller then them, but when I go to the doctor he tells me I'm 5'11-6'0 ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean if a guy was rubbing his neck, while staring at you?

What does it mean if a guy was rubbing his neck, while staring at you all "Dreamy like" ( as my friend said)

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Has anyone done the whole "one more night" thing with an ex?

Me and my ex have had a really complicated relationship/break up. we're both still 100% crazy for each other. but right now we just really don't work, just circumstantial/extrernal factors... we've been talking a lot...

147703

Xper 6 Age: 33

I caught my crush looking at my legs!?

This crush I have, sits next to me in math class, I looked at him two times, and catched him looking at my legs...he was staring at them,.. what might this mean?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

What to do at the mall with your crush?

I'm thinking of inviting my "crush"/guy friend to the mall with me. I kind of like him, but not really. I used to rrrrreally like him & he rejected me but we stayed friends. It was his idea to hang out & I'm thinking of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I just let her cool down?

So girlfriend of only a week is kinda upset because she thinks I'm lying that a night when we hungout I told her I was filming before and then the next day I was tagged in a photo that was taken a month ago but just put...

Inkto

Xper 4 Age: 36

For a guy is it good or bad having wide shoulders?

or do they make you look too top heavy and disproportioned? I don't really care at the end of the day...but recently I have noted some comments (kinda neutral/casual stating in a conversation etc.) and I'd never really...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My crush enters the room and sits right behind me. What does this mean?

Ok this is probably going to sound really stupid and I don't blame you for thinking oh another desperate girl on this site but I just really want to know if this means anything; so I'm in the library on my spare with a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, why do you giggle?

Ok, so today I talked to that girl I like, she seemed pretty happy to talk to me (she was smiling the whole time). Some of the things I said made her giggle. I don't understand why, since the things I was saying were not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

European vs. American Guys. What are the main differences?

What are the main differences in general between the two, do you think? The guy I like is European (slovakia) and I'm wondering if there's different stuff/traditions regarding dating etc. in Europe as oposed to America.

Anonymous

(30-35)

I deleted my crush from Facebook. Did I do the right thing?

I deleted my crush from Facebook. I thought this guy liked me, he gave me all the signs--he would stare at me when I walked past, he approached me and playful teased me, he would flirt and move near where I was standing,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you like facial hair?

Pretty much just what the question asks. Do you like facial hair on a guy?

TurbulentDan12

Yoda Age: 36

My boyfriend is infatuated with his new hot neighbor.

So this couple in their 30's are renting the house next to my boyfriend. Apparently the girl (or woman) is pretty hot and blond, of course. I haven't seen her yet. All of the sudden, my formerly depressed boyfriend (age...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How old is too old to wear thongs?

Me and my sister recently caught my grandma wearing one and she's 64. That's way too old in my opinion. I think when a girl turns about 30-35 is a reasonable age to switch to granny panties.

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend won't kiss me, what is the problem?

My boyfriend is good in every way except the physical side of things. He won't kiss me or touch me not even to hold hands unless I do it first or tell him to do it. When we first started going out I didn't mind so much...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

How to tell my roommate that her loud singing bothers me?

Hi, So, my roommate is lovely and everything, but she has this habit of singing out loudly whenever she's revising (she would put on her earphones/headphones and start singing some song). She also loves to make self...

Aisoreal

Xper 5 Age: 35

Society & Politics

Why are females over-valued?

So... according to society, it seems that the guys job is: - to initiate flirting - to ask out - be "up front" with intentions - pay/invest first - be "financially secure" - great social skills - smart - be good...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guys: Favorite color underwear on a girl?

I've always wanted to know what a guys favorite color underwear on a girl is. Does it matter?

PrincessAndromeda

Xper 5 Age: 38

Other

Arm hair on guys: Yea or Nay?

Do you find hairy arms to be attractive, or do you prefer the hairless look? I personally think hairy arms are SO sexy. Example: link What do you think?

wishyouwerehere

Xper 5 Age: 34

What is too skinny, what is curvy?

What do you consider too skinny to be attractive? For example, my friend said she was too thin, link But I find her perfect. What is your opinion on too thin and what's curvy? She has curves they just aren't fat ones

Maddygirl

Xper 6 Age: 31

Ruffle panties, yay or nay?

Like the ones from yque or leg avenue, sexy or not? And why don't girls wear satin panties anymore?

Anonymous

(36-45)

"Hey gorgeous." Is he a player?

Okay, so I was over at the shoe shop. The guy who was working behind the counter didn't smile or nothing when he saw me. But soon as I walked up, hey said, "Hey Gorgeous." That was pretty much the end of that. The guy...

ya_ya_ask_already

Xper 6 Age: 39

My thoughts and your thoughts on "Stiff People."

Basically I tend to dislike people with the "stiff" personality trait. They usually are introvert, shy, lonesome, not fun, not expressive, uptight...etc. I see a lot of guys who ask for advice on this website with this...

Cuddle_Muffin

Yoda Age: 96

Society & Politics

Is changing a relationship status on FB a big deal?

My boyfriend and I are starting to get really serious, and hardly any of my friends know because I don't see them often. So I want to be "In a relationship with him" on Facebook. But he keeps saying okay I'll do it later...

SunnyDee21

Xper 5 Age: 32

Other

If you were an alcoholic drink, what drink would you be?

If you were a type of alcohol or drink, what drink would you be and why?

Snow123

Xper 4 Age: 34

Dating

I'm 23 and still single, I'm really worried something is wrong with me?

I've only had one serious boyfriend,that was when I was 19 and it lasted a year.I've two one night stands.I am scared because when I go out with friends guys don't look at me.My friends get all the attention,its so easy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I am turning 18 and have never even hugged a girl?

Would you consider this pathetic.. I am turning 18 on Sunday.. And yet, in my life, I have never had a female friend. I am starting to think that I don't deserve their attention anyways. Do you have any advice what I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: Is social awkwardness a total turn-off?

Like, if a guy was socially awkward, would that totally turn you off towards him? OK, so I'm not going to lie, I'm somewhat socially awkward. I'm trying to work on it and am getting better, but am still struggling a bit....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are Love And Loyalty The Same Thing Or Is There A Difference Between Them?

Can you tell the difference between loyalty and love? Is there a difference? When abused women stay with a man who is so hurtful to them, do they stay because of love or because they have become loyal? Of course when you...

Tigerbaby994

Xper 3 Age: 31