All Questions

How much trouble can you get in for breaking into a neighborhood pool you don't have a membership to?

There's a really nice neighborhood that was added on to the neighborhood I live in about a year ago. So far it only has about 15 homes in it and a lot of lots for sale. They just finished making the neighborhood pool a...

Surfinforlife

Xper 7 Age: 34

Dating

Why is online dating so hard for men but easy for women?

I am a guy, and I have been single for all my life and I am at that stage to start looking for love. Unfortunately I have trouble meeting the right one because women are so picky. I tried a couple of online dating sites...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is looking younger than your age a bad thing?

Hi. I'm 19 years old and everyone says I look younger.. I could even pass for a 15 year old :s. I don't like it it because it make me think I look like a baby lol. Not good. I don't know if they're just exaggerating or I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: Do you get creeped out if a random girl smiles at you?

Before I was very self conscious and NEVER made any eye contact with a guy. Now, I'm beginning to make eye contact with random eyes, I want to add a smile too but then I think that's too much and the guy will be weirded...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, would you text a girl 24/7 if you thought of her as "just a friend"?

I talk to one of my guy friends every day, throughout the day, from morning until night. We talk about everything: music, books, school, personal things, anything and everything. There is subtle flirting, but I don't know...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should The Guy Open The Car Door And Walk You To Your Door?

At the end of a date do you like it if a guy hurries around and opens the car door for you and walks you to your door? Or is that old and no one does that anymore? Feel free to elaborate on what you've done if your a guy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it okay if a guy talks to a lot of girls?

Okay, so I've started talking a guy not too long ago, andt hings have been going okay. He's four years older than me and has a job and we only ever really talk right before he goes to work and on his lunch break which is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Really nice girl likes me but she too sweet?

i'm not mean I just swear a lot and sometimes am very neggative. She seems like she wouldn't have a dirty or mean thought ever because she really sweet and nice. I like her she's really pretty and cool but I'm afraid she...

adviceneeder2

Xper 5 Age: 35

Do girls like tall guys, like 6'4" tall?

Do girls like tall guys or do they prefer someone whos closer to the same height as them. And which would you prefer tall average body not fat not skinny sorta muscular or average height and a good body?

stevenj

Xper 5 Age: 42

How to deal with my boyfriend going away for a month?

My boyfriend of 8 months is going away on two back to back hiking trips and will be gone for a month of summer. He will have no cell phone or internet for this time period. .You may think I'm stupid, but we love each...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm 20 years old and can't swim, advice?

Do you know how to swim?...if yes what's the trick to it?.. I can't seem to float in water, I just sink lol I've looked into classes but cost too much so I've chosen to learn from others.

Anonymous

(30-35)

He keeps asking me why I like him?

He askes me out. So I say yes. After all we have been friends since 4th grade. We Haven't even had a first date and he keeps asking me why I like him. Hes been asking all day. I told him that I would tell him when I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, is there hidden meaning behind "sweet dreams"?

Do you only say it when you like the girl, or is it just something you say? What does it mean when a guy say "sweet dreams" to you? Is there any hidden meaning behind it?

snowangle

Master Age: 34

Do guys think short girls are hot? If so, why?

I just saw a post from a girl who was 5'10", wondering if guys liked tall girls. That got me thinking, "What do guys think about my height?" I'm only 5 feet tall. I know it's cute for a girl to be 5'3" or 5'4", but is 5'0...

Mandy5832

Xper 5 Age: 41

Shopping & Gifts

My girlfriend's parents buy me stuff?

Ok, so today my girlfriends parents bought me a pack of smokes. It's not that I am not greatful or anything I just don't like people buying me things. Her last boyfriend lived off of them for the most part. I don't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I want to come home to you, what does it mean?

While cuddling, he said that thinking I couldn't hear him but I totally freaked out... guys...what does this mean?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, how often do you get approached by guys?

Girls, how often do you get approached by guys? How many of them get your contact details and how many of them actually call you?

iLoveHouseMusic

Xper 3 Age: 36

Opinions on a girl with a six-pack?

for guys to answer! we're not talking disgusting-looking super manly 6-packs, we're just talking about an athletic girl who has really toned abs and not that much body fat.

blahdeblah321

Xper 5 Age: 31

Society & Politics

Bubble butt? Why do guys like them?

Now I'm 16 and I have been told I got a bubble butt yet its not technically a butt? I'm confused and guys keep telling me I got a big butt. I mean I'm in shape, short (4'9) and done growing so the I am you gotta love me...

BBshortie

Xper 5 Age: 32

Health & Fitness

Girls: Does skinny legs on a guy turn you off?

I love wearing shorts in the summer but I am a little embarrassed about my legs. Overall, my legs are average sized but they are almost stick thin at the bottom where my feet are. Would it be a turn-off if I wear shorts...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

What do you think about three untrimmed finger nails on a guy?

I play the guitar and for the past couple of years I have been taking up fingerstyle. (which means finger picking rather than using thumb or picks) I have tried using finger picks that go on your finger but I don't like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is it possible that some people are destined to be unloved forever?

apart from my family I have not really felt loved in my life. I have never been on a date I can hardly even get a girl to talk to me let alone acknowledge that I exist.

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is the best first text to send a girl?

hey how are you? hey what's up? Hey hows your afternoon? Hey what are you up to? Hey! Yo! Hola! Good evening How are you feeling? What's been going on? Hi What one is best and what works the best?

JH5022

Xper 6 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

I left my husband two years ago and now I want him back but isn't returning my phone calls or texts. why?

We were both at fault but I could not get passed the pain and forgive. Now I have changed for the better and I love him more than ever after being together for 16 years. I know we could make it work. I don't believe he...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I'm scared to go to the bathroom in front of my boyfriend! What should I do?

I'm staying with my long-distance boyfriend in a really small apartment for 3 weeks. I'm always so embarrassed to go to the bathroom when we're in the same apartment cos I'm scared he'll hear me going! The last time I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Does anyone know any good jokes about coat racks?

You know that point - you have a girl around, and everything's going well, and things get a little heated, and you NEED a joke about a coat rack! But its just not there! We've all been there, right? Please, restore this...

KarKingJack

Xper 3 Age: 32

What words to use when asking a girl out?

When you ask girl out, what words do you use? Or if you text her, write on paper,... What is the exact sentence? Or what was the best sentence when someone asked you out? :)

Matthew988

Xper 6 Age: 38

Do guys like REALLY short girls? Under five feet.

Well, I know this question has been asked a few times but a lot of the girls asking that were 5'3" or in an inch or two around that height. I only saw questions about heights 5' and up. What about girls who are 4'11" and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think my dance teacher is interested in me?

OK. I am learning salsa. It's a private one on one lesson (it's expensive I know, but I can just about afford it lol). My dance tutor is a Russian girl. She is about my age? Hopefully younger, I like younger girls....

Dotcomperson

Xper 5 Age: 44

Out of a rock band, which instrument is the easiest and hardest to play from YOUR past experience?

Is the easiest the Bass or the Drums or what? By rock band instruments I mean the Keyboard,Guitar,Bass,Drums and Singing?

Mr_Solo_Dolo

Yoda Age: 34