All Questions

My boyfriend wants to be a police officer.

Most police officers have a military background, however his does not. my brother in law and my dad are police officers and know how the system works, but I'm tired of asking them for advice so I'm asking on here. The...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Want to know why the nice guys never win and why the assholes always get the girl the nice guy wants?

Well here you go, "The Nature of Assholes of Nice Guys." It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it's not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their...

SoberIrishman

Xper 7 Age: 37

Will guys flirt with UGLY girls??

I am not ugly, but I am also not the prettiest girl in the world, but I'm still pretty. Sometimes I get a little nervous that guys won't flirt back with me if they don't think I'm pretty. Guys?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why do my feelings change when it seems like I should like him even more?

I have a really great awesome boyfriend, but I keep finding myself attracted to this one other guy. My boy friend is really nice, really good, wouldn't do anything I wouldn't want him to, and is always open and truthful...

BallerinaGirl

Xper 3 Age: 32

GUYS: How long do you wait to ask a girl on a SECOND date? :)

I went on a awesome date with a guy 1 week ago, and he still hasn't called, despite him saying that he wanted to take me out on a second date. Seemed very into me, and chemistry was amazing! How long do you guys normally...

TornApart

Xper 6 Age: 39

Why does he constantly tease me and pick on me? He likes me or he views me only as a good friend?

A guy friend of mine often calls me 'ugly', 'fat', 'idiot','stupid' in a joking way but I'm really skinny and not bad-looking...He always mocks me. Every time he sees me, he just winds me up! Once when I was cooking in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

I think my boyfriend loves me TOO much! What do I do??

I really do love my boyfriend and I don't want to break up with him, but it scares me knowing that he will never ever break up with me and that he will never love another girl as much as he loves me. I feel like I'm tied...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

What do you get your guy for Christmas when you haven't been dating long?

I've been dating this guy for maybe a month or so, and Christmas is obviously coming up. I don't know if we should exchange gifts? Obviously, I don't want to buy him something super expensive that is going to freak him...

GoesTheRain

Xper 5 Age: 36

Fashion & Beauty

Would you shave your beard for a girl?

Put this into style because wasn't sure how serious one would take it. Let's say you get commented by a girl you're dating or trying to date that she openly prefers men who are clean shaven than bearded. 1. Would you do...

Alexeiv

Xper 6 Age: 39

Relationships

Pisces man's not mad anymore. What do I do next?

For 2 months now I have tried to convince my Pisces ex to forgive me for deeply hurting him and now I finally think that he has! He's been giving me the silent treatment and would not even pick up my calls..he would just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Has she really moved on?

She broke off our 10 year relationship because she said she lost her attraction. We talked back and forth everyday since the breakup(a little over a month ago). She said that she needed to be on her own and figure out...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Our roommate won't stop flirting with me!

I moved in with my boyfriend about 3 months ago. He has a room-mate who lives in the furnished basement. Every time my boyfriend is not home, or not around, the room-mate flirts with me! He makes it so obvious that he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He says We Aren't On the Same Page Anymore?

I've been in a relationship for awhile now. It is pretty much one I have devoted myself to Of course, he has his friends, in which he loves almost as much as he loves going to the bar and drinking his beer. We have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you think it's cute if your girlfriend is a lot smaller/shorter than you?

Guys, do you think it's cute etc. when your girlfriend is a lot shorter/smaller than you? Why do you think this? I've just been wondering about this for a while. I know some people only like answering the polls but I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you know a guy is checking you out?

This may seem like a stupid question, but what are some things you guys do when you are checking out a girl. My friend told me the other day that guys always check me out when we hang out but I have never seen this. I do...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is being short such a turn off for girls?

I have girls told me they wish I was taller and I get rejected all the time, unlike my taller friends or guys that I have seen. I am 5'6 by the way.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why is my ex nervous around me?

My ex girlfriend and I broke up two days ago and I saw her the other day. (Note: I haven't contacted her.) When I saw her, she initially tried to give me a little wave, but I waved her over because we agreed to be...

Tyrone

Xper 5 Age: 36

Family & Friends

Ex girlfriend broke up with me and said that she wants to be friends but ignores me?

My 6 month girlfriend broke up with me because she said that she didn't love me anymore and that the feelings weren't there anymore. She said she wanted to be friends. After a week no contact she emailed me and asked if I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Anything specific that skinny ethnic girls look for in a guy?

Anything specific that skinny ethnic girls look for in a guy? I am an American Male. I am single, well educated. I have a particular interest in psychology. My father, not being a psychologist himself does have a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm not my boyfriend's physical preference, how am I supposed to feel about that?

I know he loves other things about me, but it makes it really hard to get into sex when I know he'd rather be screwing someone with bigger boobs, blond hair and blue eyes. Especially when he's so open about what kind of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why am I crying over this girl I like?

I'm 16 tall dark and everyone says I'm really cute I have even been asked to model , but I have this problem . I like this girl but I don't know how she feels about me . Last night I was at a friends little party, and I...

jmannn

Xper 5 Age: 31

Fashion & Beauty

Is being called "exotic" a compliment?

What do people, whether it is guys or girls, mean by when they tell you that you have an exotic look? is that a compliment? my mom is spanish, Mexican... my dad is Brazilian, German, Italian, and a tad bit Irish..but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I feel like guys don't like me because I'm too tall...

I know its not a deciding factor in most guys' minds, but I feel like given their choice, they would always prefer to have a girl that is petite and small and something that they feel they need to protect. Someone whose...

Anonymous

(30-35)

On a one to ten scale of how much you like someone, what's a good number for people who are flirting?

we are flirting and I know he likes me but I don't wanna seem weird by over liking him,whats a good number?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I wish a girl I like good luck on her exam and should I do it in the morning of her exam?

should I text a girl good luck on her test

trakis

Xper 5 Age: 39

Dating

Amazing date, he asked for a second, and still hasn't called me? :(

So we went out on a date. Actually we made last minute plans, and when he asked me if he would consider it a date, I said yes. He was very sweet, took the check, despite that I wanted to take it :( said I looked...

TornApart

Xper 6 Age: 39

Giving a guy your number without him asking for it?

is it a no, no?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Did I creep him out?

Okay. Well, there is this guy that I have a crush on and I thought that he had a crush on me too just by his body language and stuff. We used to be best friends when we were like 5 and now (age 16) we like hardly ever...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does he really have a lot on his plate right now?

So I've been with my boyfriend for almost two weeks (I know it's not a long time). but after a little over a week I noticed he'd become distant and less affectionate. So I asked him about it. He is a cop and recently had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is this girl giving me such a hard time?!

Long story short, I met this girl 5 years ago and thought she was pretty attractive, nevertheless I never did anything and my friend attempted to date her (without any success, she never returned his phone calls after the...

Anonymous

(36-45)