All Questions

Do guys REALLY get intimidated by pretty girls?

I'm not trying to be stuck up here AT ALL. honestly, I'm not, I don't understand why looks are so important to people. so the thing is, every girl I meet tells me I should be a model, cause I'm tall and apparently...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He says he's not much of a hugger, but...

This guy I like; I want to hug him pretty badly. This girl I know walked over to us while we were talking and started flirting with him (which, pissed me off, but that is another story) and asked him if he wanted a hug....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Overly clingy and emotional, grounds for breakup?!

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. He treats me really well. He's one of the nicest most genuine guys I've met in a while. Or maybe I've just been dating one loser of another. However I'm a pretty tolerant...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Does anyone else ever notice odd pairings in interracial relationships?

I guess there are odd ones in same race relationships but I'm talking about interracial ones since I have several friends who are into that. im gonna make a huge leap here. I can honestly say that 99.9% of the black...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a guy is very concerned and always makes sure you're safe....what does it mean?

So this guy is very flirty with me, but also, he is very considerate of me. He always makes sure I am okay, and if I'm sad he always knows and tries to cheer me up because he says he doesn't like seeing me sad. Also, he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Reconciliation after a break-up?

After I broke up with my ex, he didn't try to fix things except sending two lame messages & two missed calls. I never responded because I felt he showed no remorse & most imp. that I am not willing to be with him again....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

I think my professor has a crush on me?

My professor seems to have a thing for me. He's 32 years old, is an adjunct professor, still lives with his parents, and is single. In class he would be interested in talking to me and knowing more about me. He asked me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why am I embarrassed about my hobby around certain people?

I am completely comfortable with people who share the same interest as me... But when I'm around my family or anyone who doesn't share the same interests, I feel like they are judging me for what I do and they don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Are smiley faces in text messages considered flirting?

Just a standard smiley face...sys see this as a flirty gesture when done by a girl?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I chase him and ask him out?

this guy I'm dating never made a move for approximately 4 dates in which I invited him. I did keep wondering that whenever I ask him out, if he doesn't like me, he wouldve said no but he never said no to my invites,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My boyfriend wants me to be fat?

we've been going out for about a year now. recently he's been taking me to fast food places, DQ, the cheesecake factory...ordering me large dishes and asking me to eat it all. so I do. he says I look cute when I eat....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Calling my boyfriend "dear"?

Is it something that most guys would mind? For example, if I were saying goodnight to him I would say, "goodnight dear, I love you". Is that something that guys like being called? I'm only asking because my ex boyfriend...

loveisfearless

Xper 5 Age: 32

Shopping & Gifts

I'm 18, and I've never had a girlfriend. My life just sucks anymore and it keeps getting worse.

I'm 18, almost 19, and I've never had a girlfriend. Never came close to having one. I realize that people older than me are in similar situations, but that makes me feel even worse about being depressed over this....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do some people call me pretty and others say am ugly?

Well ever since I was young , many people usually call me pretty /cute/hot ..they are usually friends , relatives and random people. So one time a certain girl called me ugly out of the blue ...so I wondered whether the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I'm falling in love with my boyfriend. Need help on telling him..

I'm falling in love with my boyfriend. I can tell that I am, and I'm getting extremely scared of rejection, but I feel this intensity to let him know, even though my actions (imo) already show it. In my mind, I argue...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, what's the first thing you notice in a guy?

is it something physical like his eyes? or his arms? first thing I notice in a girl is her eyes, if I don't like her eyes, I won't have much interest in her until I get to know her better.

sikoo31

Xper 3 Age: 35

His mom wants to meet me?

My boyfriend told me the other day that his mom wants to meet when/if she comes into town. I don't know if that is a good thing or not. what does that mean for him and I?

goalie1801

Xper 5 Age: 44

Do girls like Hollister on Guys?

What do you girls think about guys wearing Hollister? They have some really nice stuff.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Quiet girls. Where do I find you and what would be the best way to approach you?

I really don't care for loud party girls. They're hot sure, but they're not at all the kind of people I'd want to be in a relationship with. I find quiet/shy/respectful girls much more appealing, and I think it would be...

IAmAnon123

Explorer Age: 36

If this guy and I always have flirtatious banter, joking and teasing....could it mean he likes me?

-he constantly bugs me about liking this other guy...but I don't...and he always says that I'm going to marry that guy and such and such. Its ongoing...and he always picks on me in front of other people, and then he kinda...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I told his wife about us, will he forgive me?

Ok... Not everyone is going to like what I'm about to type and I don't expect everyone to understand. I have strong morals and values and I NEVER saw myself getting into this situation, but here I am. 10 months ago I...

faerietayle

Xper 5 Age: 46

Break Up & Divorce

Why do guys put their arm around your waist or back?

Why does the guy put his hand around my waist or hip? Or when we are walking he always puts his hand on my back in a way to guide me? Why do guys do that to girls?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

How to deal with being ugly and single?

I'm newly single after years. I'm ugly, maybe not disgustingly "make-children-cry" type of ugly, but yeah, I'm definitely not beautiful or hot. At best I'm average. But well, the thing is, I don't know how to cope. I feel...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do women like deep voices? do women like it?

what do you think about guys with deep voices? I've been told I sound like barry white

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

Boyfriend keeps asking me to marry him, but hasn't actually proposed?

The fact that he asks me to marry him all the time just seems kind of weird to me now and it's kind of lost all meaning because it's pretty much always playful when he asks. Is he letting me know he wants to still marry...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys get so mad when you turn them down?

i mean like, a few guys were hitting on me, and just getting carried away with messaging me. so I said I'm not interested can you please stop ? they freaked, they all went from calling me so cute and adorable to an ugly...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What goes through a guy's mind when he stares intensely?

I was about 30 feet away from him outside talking to my coach and there he stood just looking straight at me seriously making me uncomfortable (on purpose I bet) everybody loves this guy to... He is an extreme athlete so...

Anonymous

(30-35)