All Questions

Guys always have to lower their standards to the girl?

I feel like the guys always have to lower their standards to the girl. I am an attractive 25 year old. 6 foot 2 and Hispanic. I can dance, am a professional musician and a Doctoral Student. I have plenty of confidence...

Anonymous

(36-45)

White girls and spanish guys?

I never really noticed, but now that I'm dating a white girl (my 2nd 1) and a few of my friends aswell, I realized that they just absolutely love us. even most of my GFs exes are spanish. I mean I know why I like white...

PapaSmurf809

Xper 5 Age: 37

Why are beautiful women sometimes stuck up and conceited?

Why do you think this is? Clearly beauty is in the eye of the beholder and everyone sees things differently, but you know what I mean. Women who are always told they are beautiful, gorgeous, stunning, etc. why are many of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He says the "timing" isn't right for him it's a lie, right?

Last night, the guy I've been dating for a couple months and I called it quits. He's been trying to avoid me the last couple weeks and OK lol I'm not stupid, I figured something was up. also he wasn't being as attentive...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She's getting upset when I talk to other girls. She has a boyfriend? What do I do?

She breaking my heart. She would always get so upset if I left. I never really knew her but she wanted me bad. I wanted to meet her. I told her friend I wanted her number. I don't what's been said but she is so upset....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does he think I'm crazy? How do I fix it?

Slept with a guy I didnt' know well- never really done that before. We hit it off, and have things in common- but I was scared and said I didn't want a relationship at all! I tried to play the cool girl and just act...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do random girls stare or glance at me?

I've started to notice that girls seem to stare or slyly glance at me in public places. I usually catch at least one girl doing it on a daily basis and today I noticed 4. If I look in their direction they either quickly...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, why would you cheat on your girlfriend?

What could be the reasons for that? My ex boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me, and now that happened again! I thought my currently boyfriend was the 'perfect guy', but just found out he cheated on me! (I even feel like a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do people act differently around their crush?

Why are people shy around their crushes? What makes them act differently whenever their crush is nearby? Does this behavior come automatically or do people force themselves to show a different personality?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do women like direct men?

is being direct with women a sign of confidence? Being self assured? is a guy who tells a woman exactly what he wants, honestly and directly attractive?

jimmymac321

Xper 6 Age: 45

Dating

Got scared/uncertain after the first kiss?

I had my first kiss with the guy I've been dating for the last few weeks. I had never been kissed before and was kind of expecting it to feel great and be really special, but I didn't feel anything. At the end of the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

How can I be sexy and not cute?

Lets face it,guys do not want cute and I've learned that.So I want to stop being called cute and being the friend and never the girlfriend and I don't want to be seen as they good girl anymore because that gets girls no...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls get a rush or enjoy watching two guys in a fight?

What are some circumstances or scenarios in which you would enjoy watching a fight? If you do like watching it, how decisively do you like to see it end? Or do you not like them under any circumstances?

bud144d

Xper 5 Age: 34

Marriage & Weddings

I'm engaged, he's married, what does he want?

I'm a twenty something year old girl whose been with my man for 5 years and planning to marry soon, our relationship has had it's ups and downs but I honestly think we belong together, he's a part of me. I have had a few...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys. do you think about "her" a lot?!

I’m just curious about, how much you ‘guys’ think about your girlfriends, dates, and crushes….it kills me to know…do we girls think about you more or what…? Because sometimes, I get to point where I think… “Why the hell...

monmon

Xper 5 Age: 34

What does it mean if a guy shivers or gets the chills when he sees you?

This guy I see at work often finally introduced himself to me. He actually remembers my name from that one introduction. He seems kinda reserved he smiles a lot when he sees me, but seems like he's always at a loss for...

ShySharee

Xper 5 Age: 43

Why would he start avoiding eye contact with me?

I like this guy and I know he likes me. We use to be able to look each other in the eyes, wave, and smile, etc. What I have noticed is that lately he has been around more, blushes more, and has gone out of his way more....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Boyfriend's friend touched me?

My boyfriends friend came to stay with us for 3 days because he got evicted , he sleeps in the living room. Last night my boyfriend left to go to his aunts to pick up something around 9:00 pm , I was already in bed then,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I get a guy to let his guard down?

I REALLY like this guy and I believe that he likes me too. I know he has had at least one really bad relationship which kind of screwed him up because he opened up to someone who apparently stomped all over his emotions....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

What does officially meeting someone mean?

A guy I like and everyone says likes me wave to each other in the hallways. But the only way we know each other is from everyone always talking about us liking each other. Well, he says he wants to OFFICIALLY meet me?...

SingaSaurus

Xper 5 Age: 33

When you tell a guy to delete your number, does he actually do it?

this man was talking to me.. Telling me everything any girl would want to hear.. Saying I'm the one and what not.. He was perfect. He withdrew, and made me realize it was all game. I told him to stop hitting me up. A few...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If you hurt a guy's ego, how do you fix it?

A few months ago I started hanging out with a very sweet guy from school. He was making an effort to see me and I honestly thought we were getting to know each other as "just friends". He never hit on me, or even really...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

GUYS: Do you like girls better in jeans or a skirt?

I'm talking about like a nice dressed up outfit with jeans...not like jeans and t shirt thing vs. a tight mini black skirt

Anonymous

(36-45)

My husband's brother flirts with me all the time and I tent to flirt back. Does he want more or is this harmless?

He'll touch me and play flirt with me and the other day I gave him a hug and he kissed me on the cheek and he's never done that before. Also when he hugs me he wraps his arms around me and rubs his hands up and down my...

metee

Xper 3 Age: 40

Break Up & Divorce

Why is my ex boyfriend being so cold?

He got a new girlfriend within 3 weeks. I was furious. He called and after insulting me he broke down and asked me why it wasn't me with him instead of his new girl. He said he loved me so much and we can't talk on the...

Oliviawinters

Xper 6 Age: 36

I JUST talked to my crush. YES I approached him but. . . .

I just talked to my crush (YES I walked up to him and initiated the conversation) but when I was talking I felt that he was not interested for some reason. I mean he kept the convo up we made eye contact a couple days...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Let's say a guy walks up to you in the street and he asks you out?

Do you Ladies turn them down cause you don't know them? or would you give that random person a chance?... ladies tell me its about the approach and if he's mind blowing... but how do I become mind blowing lol answer the...

Popnlock

Xper 6 Age: 39

Is Young Love Worth Fighting For? Was It Worth It?

I am eighteen years old. I have been with my boyfriend for five months. We have talked about the future and whether we will stay together next year because most likely I will be going to a different college. We both...

ruskiyinlove

Xper 5 Age: 33