All Questions

Girls are you attracted to guys with ginger / red hair?

Or are we all doomed?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you consider to be "officially dating"?

My name is Brian, and I am a 16 year old junior in high school. I am currently dating an 18 year old freshman girl in college, and I am seeking some dating advise. By the way if you just don't wanna read all this then...

Bumja

Xper 5 Age: 33

What's the shortest dress you have ever worn?

I was walking down the street last week and there was a girl in a dress that had her butt cheeks hanging out. What's the shortest dress you have ever worn? What panties did you wear with it?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Men, do you ever pee outside or in strange places?

The question is above...

Fruitloopes007

Xper 3 Age: 36

What do quick glances mean?

What does it mean when guys you don't know very well glance at you and when you look glance away quickly?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy says he really really likes you but you scare the hell out of him?

This guy and I have been seeing says he really really likes me but I scare the hell out of him . We have been getting together since may to present . He works out of town for 2 months and in town for about 3 weeks . When...

puddleduck1969

Xper 5 Age: 56

Will darker / tanned skin make my muscles look more defined?

OK so I work out every other day, and I'm a pretty pale-ish guy (not snow white but pretty pale). My core body doesn't get much sun (chest, abs, back, shoulders etc.) so my question to you is, would darker or tanned skin...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If I ask a girl out and she says she is "busy" doing X. Does this mean "leave me alone" or "keep trying"?

A typical text / phone conversation conversation will proceed as follows: Me; Hey, I was going to get a drink on Thursday night and I was hoping you could tag along, are you free? Her: No, I am going over to my parents...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How bad is it if I have a receding hairline?

I am only 21.

doctorwhofan23

Guru Age: 36

Family & Friends

Do you ever feel like you don't have any REAL friends?

Do you ever feel like you don't have any REAL friends? People that actually care about you. I have quite a few pseudo-friends, but I don't have that special 'best' friend with whom I have a meaningful bond with....

pezzonovante88

Guru Age: 38

Health & Fitness

Ladies, do any of you have a nerd fetish?

I have always liked nerds. When I was 8, I had a huge crush on Squints from the Sandlot. To this day, I still have a thing for guys with big glasses who are brainiacs. Does anyone else have a thing for nerds?

BlondeSudoku

Xper 3 Age: 40

My boyfriend said another girl was cute. what does this mean?

My boyfriend and I were at the bar the other night. We were both having a great time. I know he checks other girls. What I was not comfortable with was that he told me that he thought a couple of them were cute. What does...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Would you rather die alone or settle for less?

it seems like all my friends around me either delude themselves or just take what they can get, some of them go out with real assholes, or with people who they don't particularly even like, and some of them even say flat...

kereru

Yoda Age: 38

Is this a break up text or a let's slow down text? really confused...

here are the details in a nutshell... been dating a guy almost 3 months. he is 48. I am 41. We are really attracted to each other and in the time we have known each other we have probably been out about 25 times. in...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do people let themselves go?

Why do people let their selves go. Do they just not care anymore, does it not bother them that they gained 30lbs of fat. I know I'm young (turned 21 yesterday) but it's not that hard to stay in some what decent shape....

NerdyJock

Xper 3 Age: 37

Family & Friends

Would you allow your girlfriend to take a trip alone to see her guy friend from college?

So I guess a little background info is in order. I’m 26 and my girlfriend is 27. We have been dating for a little over 7 months and just recently she mentioned that she thought about taking a trip out to the coast to see...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Pale skin Vs Tanned skin - which do YOU prefer?

Simple question: Picture examples: 1. Pale: link 2. Tan: link (I know she's not just tanned...she is part sth sth...haha) Sooooo, your preferences...what are they? =)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend gives you his favorite necklace?

Okay so I'm in a relationship with someone right now and I really like him...we have only been dating for about 9 days and he has already given me his jacket to keep "forever" and he just gave me his favorite necklace...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Trying to get a fling back?

I have had a ton of flings in my past and have noticed one main thing, after they end it with you they ALWAYS come back once you have moved on and forgot about them. Anyways, a few weeks ago one of my good guy friends and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Anyone knows what this saying means? "An inch of time is an inch of gold"?

just curious

InLoveGirl04

Xper 3 Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

Cheating, is it a "mistake", or a "decision"?

Cheating... What do you think? Is it a "mistake"? Is it a bad decision? My perspective: I look at it as a series of bad decisions. It was no accident that a person meet another of the opposite sex... Not an...

Jinmetsu_Rasetsu

Xper 3 Age: 47

Health & Fitness

Can I Numb My Belly Button?

I want to go and get my belly button pierced but I'm scared it will hurt..If I hold ice there to numb it would that help?

RaeChelle17

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

When he says whatever, bye?

My ex and I broke up almost a month ago...we talk now and then and he doesn't always respond, but I have asked him if he doesn't want to talk to me then please just tell me. So I sent him a text and said I can see you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

This guy likes me, BUT takes forever to text back, & then some...

This guy says he likes me a lot, we hang out, kissed, etc. He takes so long to respond to my texts though, and he usually IS the first person to start texting during the day. He gets a little antsy if I take a while to...

Luv2Rock89

Xper 3 Age: 36

Flirting

I have a good guy but I don't feel spark anymore?

Last year I moved into the guest room and slept there from November until February. In January I told him that I did not feel like this was working out but he wouldn't let me go. He tried very hard to do everything to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Gym receptionist is flirting with me !!!!

I go to the gym regularly and this cute receptionist works there. Whenever I check in I always greet her with smile like the routine. One day, she gave me that look - you can understand it wasn't normal look ! After few...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Can't turn a hoe into a housewife? Or can you?

How can I change my ways? Has anyone else here made the transition from bad bad girl to the good girlfriend who is loyal? I've been with my boyfriend for three years, with a break in between. I have cheated on him 6...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Are girls more attracted to the winner or the loser of a fight between two guys?

All else being equal (basically, assuming you don't already have stronger ties to one guy or another), if you watch a fight between two guys, do you find yourself more attracted to the winner or loser afterwards? Either...

bud144d

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

Do guys give false hope to a girl they don't like?

Just wondering, would a guy keep staring, waving and smiling at a girl who they know like them but they themselves are not interested? Would they give false hope to girls they're ot interested in? Plus, if a guy likes a...

ravenheir89

Xper 3 Age: 35

Lunch date with a married man?

There's this guy from my college class (he's a bit older) who sits behind me. Since class started (in AUG) we've never exchanged a word. Just recently, I saw him on campus with a laptop and other gadgets and approached...

xxCaliforniaKissesxx

Xper 4 Age: 37

Do Americans find Indian women attractive?

The typical American standards is not what most Indian women look like. So just curious about the American mindset.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl I like invited me to Thanksgiving dinner with her family...

Well thanksgiving's coming up and this girl I like invited me to have dinner with her family. It'll be me, her, her mom, along with her older sister and boyfriend. I'm not seeing my family so I figured why not. Thing is I...

College101

Xper 5 Age: 36

Do girls care a lot about the clothes a guy wears?

So I've seen a lot of questions on whether guys care about a girl's clothes or not...I was just wondering, what about the other way around? Do girls care a lot about the clothes a guy wears? Like, if he has a cool shirt...

TigerRoseBear

Xper 3 Age: 32

Why is he distant over text?

I have been hanging out with this guy for 3 weeks now and everything is going well.. I think. Every time that we hang out the conversation just flows. It is so easy to talk to him and it's never a one sided conversation....

confusedatwork

Xper 5 Age: 33

Family & Friends

Best way for revenge? He strung me along.

Guy that I was dating strung me along for the past month. He (self admitted) half-assed it, passive-aggressively tried avoiding me as a solution to his feelings and made me look like an idiot. I'm a smart girl and I have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Is my boss flirting with me?

OK here's the deal; my boss is married with two kids. He's 37 but very young at heart, funny, energetic and cute. BUT he is my boss and I have a professional and moral obligation. I will admit that I'm flattered by his...

seafoamgreeneyes

Xper 3 Age: 40

When a girl pulls her top/shirt down is she just adjusting her clothes or is it flirting?

I've seen some women pull there top down and arch a bit back, I know I do this if my shirt is messed up from sitting down.

Anonymous

(30-35)