All Questions

Bra strap showing?

Do you think it is tacky when a girl wears a tank top and you can see her bra strap showing? I avoid wearing tank tops for this reason. I would love to wear them but my breasts are way to big to go braless. Is it any...

lelebear

Xper 5 Age: 49

It's been 3 months and we're still not boyfriend and girlfriend...should I just break up?

He said he wanted to take things slow, no rushing things. I was totally OK with that and found it refreshing that for once we didn't have to rush things. So basically, he said we are dating and were together, like I'm his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Signs that a shy guy likes a girl?

1) so guys give their msn to a girl they don,t like after 1st time talking? 2) I asked guy why does he stare me and he said he just don,t see well...and after that he apologizes:" I hope you don,t think I am some kind of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: why are you so shallow?

I recently lost a lot of weight and it seems like I am getting way more attention from guys. They hold doors, make small talk, ask me for my number, like all the time now. And it really bothers me because I am the same...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirts then ignores?

OK question? If a guy flirts, makes long eye contacts, always greets me in the morning when passes my workplace and says Bye when leaves (exclusively for me) etc., one day and then after a couple of days like I'm not...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

He complains about everything. What should I do?

My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years he complains about everything if I ask him a question more then once if I sit to close to him on the couch to often if I complain about anything he freaks. He told me this...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What if a guy says that he's not interested but then he acts like he likes me...what does that mean?

he smiles to me a lot. he always seems to be in my personal space or like "bubble". every time I look at him...he seems to notice me looking at him and then he looks at me.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Boyfriend's not a jealous type?

I've always been taught that some jealousy means that you care about that person...my boyfriend is not a jealous type..or at least he says he's not...i know that I'm one of the lucky ones to get a guy that's not...

JaYce_Luff

Xper 5 Age: 36

How to tell if a guy is a good kisser without kissing them??

my friends are asking me whether I can tell if a guy is a good kisser without kissing them I don't know what to say. Also what sucks is I didn't even lose my first kiss when they all have.

michiko0704

Xper 5 Age: 35

What does it mean when a guy says that he likes your style?

This guy at work that I speak to and exchanged numbers with, texted me that he likes my style. I said thanks and that he should go shopping with me next time and he responded, well style is not just clothes. What does he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to get her to choose me over him, or how to finally get her out of my damn head?

OK, honestly I just got done watching New Moon I have read all the twilight saga I love it you have always seen myself as a hopeless romantic(spelling). But I always seem to be the "Jacob" in my relationships well...

haijal

Xper 3 Age: 35

Difference between friend/crush?

When a guy has a friend who is a girl does that mean he automatically have interest in her? How would he behave towards a girl who he sees as a friend and one he likes as more than a friend. If he initially liked her but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do girls consider a "hot guy"?

everyone knows guys notice hair eyes ass breasts and lips etc... but what do girls really specifically like in a guy? every time I ask a close friend of mine they just say I don't know and say random things like if there...

JdoubleA

Xper 5 Age: 33

Tell me something interesting about YOU, I like hearing about people :)

Interesting facts, random trivia, rarities, etc. My personality type is INTJ, the most rarest of the 16 possible types. We are 1-4% of the population ;) I have green eyes. Only 2% of the worlds population has green eyes...

Brando

Xper 4 Age: 36

What does a hug where you rock back and forth mean?

well me and this guy I like hug and then he would start rocking back and forth and I'm always wondering what does that mean? like once he said I gotta go now and I said I don't want to let go and he said me neither but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What would you wear to 50 Cent?

I'm going to 50 cent and have no idea what to wear ! girls and guys help!

Erin_Babe

Xper 5 Age: 34

Can a girl suddenly just stop texting you?

I hung out with her for a few months during my last college semester----we used to text every other day and for the days in between we had class and we'd sit next to each other and talk, and sometimes we'd even text each...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Still in love, not dating but still sleeping together? What good can come out of this?

So me and my three year boyfriend broke up for about six months. We started to communicate recently, met up a couple times and on the third "meeting" we couldn't control ourselves and just ended up in bed together. It was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How do I get back my ex boyfriend that dumped me?

In the beginning of everything I didn't want anything with him, I wasn't ready for a relationship and I didn't like him. But we stayed as friends and then I decided to put my guards down and let him in my life. Wow, What...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Black girls?

Dude...I’ve never seen such an ethnic and naturally beautiful culture in my life …..I love black girls there hips, hair every single thing about them and their brown skin, but I have never dated a black girl but I'm...

Jadon_Rock

Xper 5 Age: 37

Would you prefer a girl underweight? or over?

I'm not saying obese, I just meant to be over what you usually want how much do you usually want your girls to weigh? so its not embarrassing that you can't even pick her up or anything...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do I feel like it's my fault that she left me?

Well basically, when a girl leaves you, why do you feel like you didn't do enough for her? Like you either over did the love showing or that you didn't go on enough dates or that you didn't treat her well. Despite her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend wants me to act more like an a**hole?

My girlfriend told me last night that she wants me to act more like an asshole cause it turns her on. How the f*** do I do that?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is a 19 year old with a 29 year old too much of an age difference?

What do you think?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, do you like a guy being direct or not?

So lets say I come up to you and start talking to you randomly. Are you turned off if a guy off the bat says something like...your absolutely stunning or beautiful? Or do you like a guy to come up and just talk to you...

cjtheo

Xper 5 Age: 38

3 dates and no kiss!?

So, I'm a little confused about a guy I have been dating. We've only been on 3 dates and I know it's still VERY early in the dating stages but I can't help but wonder what his intentions are. For instance--he is a great...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Mixed Signals- Does she like or not?

So I've been getting a lot of mixed signals from this girl I really like, from both "i like you!" and "I don't like you" sides of the spectrum. Today I got both very clearly, so I figured why not decode the signals and...

Conquistador

Xper 5 Age: 33

Society & Politics

Why do girls like to be kissed in the rain?

My girlfriend wants to do it and I've heard several other girls talk about how great it is. I mean I'll go for it sometime but I'm just wondering exactly why its such a romantic situation?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I led him on and I didn't mean to.

My best guy friend and crush knew I liked him. He flirted with me and I flirted back. I thought he liked me. He was just using me to get over his ex girlfriend and feel better about being single (his exact words). After I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

What body type do college girls like?

I'm currently overweight and doing something about it. what should I be aiming for? and FYI in about 2 years ill be in college :) Slim, or muscular, or a little of both or other?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Nape of neck tattoo: sexy or skanky?

I am seriously considering a small trinity knot on the back of my neck. I would like the color to simulate henna [light brown], to look natural. I am a tan person, so it would not stick out too much. the symbol has...

carmelmachiatto33

Xper 5 Age: 35

Society & Politics

HELP I NEED A PROM DATE, I go to an all girls school!!!

OK so the title pretty much sums it up. I've gotten advice before and it contained ask your friend to hook you up ... No because the guys the girls at my school bring are like creepy crawlers I want a date that will stand...

collegegrl18

Xper 7 Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

I just found out my girlfriend has cut herself in the past and tried to commit suicide?

she had been doing this before I started going out with her and I'm worried that she might do something drastic again and I really don't want to loose her. btw since I asked her out nothing like this has happened and you...

polakpride

Xper 5 Age: 36

Do you guys believe in the saying, "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me?"

When it comes to relationships and the other gender

micgirl

Xper 6 Age: 37

Is he interested? (I'm 20, he's 25)

Just curious... Recently I made this friend and I usually hang around with her on campus, around a certain time we have lunch at the cafeteria. At the beginning of this semester, she introduced me to one of her...

goaheadandsmile

Xper 5 Age: 36

When someone leaves you hanging on a text message for a entire 24 hours, what do you do?

I've been talking to this girl for about a week now and we have been communicating ever since we met at the mall via cell phone (Text and 2 short phone calls). She and I met right before a Spring Break trip (This week)...

Anonymous

(36-45)