All Questions

Guys, hoodies on girls?

Ok I really love hoodies, and I usually wear mine with skinny jeans to create a balance, but my question is do you guys think that the hoodie skinny jean combo is cute?

luv2bshort

Xper 3 Age: 33

My ex still finds me attractive?

He always flirts with me and we've kissed quite abit when we're out. Our conversation always turn blatently flirty and he calls me "sexy" which is what he used to call me when we were dating and gives me compliments all...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is there any difference between a regular hug (facing each other) and a hug from behind?

Do you think one is more meaningful then the other?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How can I get my guy friend to stop being so clingy?

I love my guy friend to death, but he's ridiculously clingy. If he doesn't talk to me every day, he gets sad. He always tells me he misses me a ton when I'm not on I'm and always wants me to stay on longer with him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do Scotsmen look for in a girl?

What are your preferences - as Scottish men? Speaking physically as well as personality wise... -I'm going to be attracting some Scotsmen so...it would help if I knew.. :)

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm 16 and have never had a crush on a guy. What should I do?

I'm 5"11 and have quite a boyish frame. I act very much like a guy, very into sports and has many athletic endeavors, achievements loves sports and games, has many guy friends, a totally tomboy I guess.But I'm very...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I help my inconsiderate boyfriend to realize he is upsetting me and to want to change?

My boyfriend is a lot of fun and we get on really well, but he can be really selfish and inconsiderate. For example, yesterday he asked me to cook for him and I agreed. He said he would be back late from work and asked...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What to wear on party bus?

I'm getting a party bus for prom and want to wear something flashy. I know I want hi top shoes, but don't know what else to wear. any ideas?

Drummer4life2010

Xper 5 Age: 34

How can blond hair make me "look slutty"?

A lot of people tell me blond hair makes me look slutty, and I'm wondering how that is. Here are the facts: 1. My hair is naturally blond. I didn't choose the color, my genetics did. 2. I don't dress in a slutty manner....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do men feel love the same way women do?

For me as a girl, if I love you, I'll let you know, why and how and everything about it. Guys seems different they'll just say it and that's it. Do they really feel it the way we do or is it different?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Exclusive vs. Official

What is the difference between being exclusive and being official? Is there even a difference?! I have heard things like official includes the title of boyfriend/girlfriend but exclusive means you are not seeing other...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy talks a lot about himself?

I really like this guy, and he always tells about his life.. like, how he was born in Germany.. and his religion, and his family, and stuff that he doesn't usually tell other people. What does that mean?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my girlfriend cry when we hug?

i've been seeing my girlfriend for five months and within the last week she has become very quiet and the other day in the kitchen I hugged her and she started crying. she says that nothings wrong but I don't understand...

hondatech

Xper 5 Age: 39

I REALLY need the opinion of Atheists and Christians.

Alright, well, here's what's up. I've been considering becoming a Christian, so I've been talking to the people in my community about it. So far, the pastor at my local church has been very helpful. When I raised my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does he like me if he calls me cutie and sweetie?

We've been talking for months and he recently started using these nicknames. Want to make sure I'm reading the signals right.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys: why would you dump a great girl?

Why would you dump a girl who think is a great person, with a great personality, is pretty, intelligent and unique and cares about you and gives you space?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Where do 19 year old girls shop?

I'm moving out of state away from my family to a college and I don't want to bring my expensive clothes with me since Ill be in a dorm and have a roommate. I was wondering where are the "go to" places to shop for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why does he seem so eager to hang out with me? Should I be suspicious even though we just friends

I met this guy in class. We exchanged numbers. I asked him if he has a girlfriend through text message just because I can and he text me back saying we're talking right now. (the girl) not me and he made it seem so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why no contact is a bad idea. read please!

I have read a lot of articles and even books where people recommend going "No Contact" so that your ex misses you and wants you back. But does going NC really bring your ex back? Sometimes "absence makes the heart grow...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A guy who agrees with everything you say... sign he likes you?

Does a guy, who flirts with you and goes out on dates with you, agrees with you about almost everything like you? Say this guy normally instigates arguments and likes picking fights with people. You notice that he's now...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I am in love with a playboy... How to make him fall for me?

I am in love with a guy that hasn't had a serious relationship in years, he is really hot and cute, but he can't settle down. We still are not friends, so he doesn't know me that well. How do I get him to fall for me. AND...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Marriage & Weddings

Why does my boyfriend call me his wife?

we have been together for 3 years. I've gotten a dozen drunk proposal from him which of course don't count. but last night he said to me, your my wife. and there have been occasions where he will slip and call me his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long does it take you to calm down after an argument?

So how long after an argument, assuming it was a pretty big argument, does it take you to calm down? I think more men tend to get over it faster than most women do. I am not saying this applies to all men and all women....

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a guy likes a girl, why won't he say or do anything about it?

When a guy likes a girl, sometimes he won't just do anything or say anything about it. Though when the girl realizes he does, and she goes up to him about, they either shy away or reject it at first saying "you're just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is having a cute face a bad thing?

I just turned 19 today, and I'm starting to think that I really don't look my age, I only look about 16 in the face. I always get called cute by people, and I dunno, for once I wanna be called hot or sexy, or just...

Leeni

Xper 4 Age: 34

Guys, what do you mean when you call a girl sweetheart?

I know it is a term of endearment. But guys what do you mean when you greet a girl "hello sweetheart" or "goodbye sweetheart". And I am talking about peers, who are the same age.

Anonymous

(36-45)