All Questions

Do girls ever wear overalls without a shirt and without a bra?

Simple question.

The-Dude-Next-Door

Xper 7 Age: 42

Shopping & Gifts

My boyfriend never invites me over his house?

I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years and we're in our mid 20's. He never invites me over his house. His sister's boyfriend gets to go there all the time and sleeps over. Although she has a bedroom in the basement....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Jersey Shore- did snooki deserve to get hit?

do you think she provoked him? was she even hurt that bad?

illiniredhead55

Xper 4 Age: 36

He made out with me when we were drunk three times. Does he like me?

Hey there! I’ve got a pretty urgent question. So the situation is this: I’ve been having a crush on a guy for three years now, we’re in the same class in school and we’re both seventeen. On a party one year ago I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy touches the small of your back?

There's a guy who I think might be interested, but I'm not sure sometimes because I second-guess myself. Before he has come up behind me and put his hand on the small of my back when asking me something. Initially I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are his hands sweaty?

I been dating this guy for almost 2 weeks now and we been on 3 dates and every time I hold his hand, they are sweaty. Then they get dry again later but mostly sweaty. What does that mean when a guys palms are sweaty...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Don't wait for me?

what does it mean when a guys says that he doesn't want you to wait for him

theused72588

Xper 5 Age: 36

I'm 22, he's 42, why is he trying to pursue me?

To be honest by he looks like he is 30 that's why I was shocked when I found out how old he is. He is really good looking, def a womanizer back in the day but its clear he is over that now. I don't think I could ever go...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She tells me "I wish I had a boyfriend just like you."

My best friend is a girl and a few months ago we were drinking at a party having a great time and on our way walking out she just blurts out I wish I had a boyfriend just like you. I was both offended and confused at the...

the-nice-guy

Xper 5 Age: 46

Should I give him an ultimatum?

I've been dating this guy for three months now and I know for sure that he is seeing/having sex with other people. I'm not cool with this behavior, so do I give him an ultimatum or walk away? In the past I would have...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

He keeps bringing up having a baby.

I just got married to my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years in October of this year. He is 24 and I am 20. Lately he keeps bringing up having a baby, and I keep telling him that I am not ready for that yet and that I want to finish...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys find swimmers' bodies attractive?

I swim competitively, and my shoulders and thighs have gotten a little broader and my hips have gotten smaller. I am just fine with how I look, but was wondering if guys found the physique of a female swimmer (not a...

swimmteam

Xper 5 Age: 33

What do I do with an underachiever?!

My boyfriend always does the bare minimum. I know he cares about me, but the other day I felt myself feeling grateful that he didn't ask me to throw down money for pizza, and I feel like I deserve a boyfriend that won't...

spret

Xper 5 Age: 40

Shopping & Gifts

Guy s do you think girls who ride dirt bikes are a turn on?

I've riding for about nine years an raced for four I'm a pro womens class here an ride a kawi 250

cassie913

Xper 5 Age: 32

When a girl in your class (college) gives you her number to study what does it mean?

so basically this chick added me on Facebook and she later asked me to study.. she gave me her number I never asked. I was just wondering what you girls thought? like what does it mean? does she simply want to study?

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend smokes weed and I hate it. What do I do?

My boyfriend of two years smokes weed and I absolutely CAN NOT STAND IT. We're both 21 and he's smoked since before we got together so I don't think asking him to stop at this point in time is reasonable. I mean, I met...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy says you're "alright"

this guy I think is cute thinks I'm "alright" what does that mean?! I just met him and I wanna know what he thinks of me..

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy says "we can still be friends"?

so I met this guy at a concert through another guy friend. I thought he was hot so I added him on MySpace and traded numbers. we texted for a week or so and then thanksgiving weekend I ended up staying at his house, we...

riotgirl2005

Xper 4 Age: 38

When a guy says "how I feel for you is complicated" means what

He tells you How I feel for you is complicated

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why am I never the one they want?

all the guys I know keep saying they are tired of girls who are superficial, stuck up, who have no personality, and spend more time looking in a mirror than at them. But they always end up with these girls they say they...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He treats me like I don't exist?

There's this guy that I used to be friends with, and we don't talk anymore. I've tried numerous times, to find out what happened, but he won't tell me, I texted him once after not talking to him for almost a year, why we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

White men dating black women with natural hair?

I met a white guy with my hair straightened out and he thinks I'm very attractive. Soon I'm going to be seeing him again and this time my hair won't be straightened. I wonder what most white guys think about black women...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

What does it mean when a guy goes out of his way to say hi?

OK so this guy and I aren't really involved..we sleep together sometimes,but that's it. Well today we happened to be going to the same place and I guess he noticed I was following him afterwards(I was going to my...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Sleeping in your clothes?

I'm curious as to how many people out there just sleep in their clothes. About three years ago I decided to go to bed once with my clothes still on and I found it to be extremely comfortable. In the winter I sleep with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He kisses me but hasn't asked me out. Why?

Just about everyday, this guy kisses me. A lot actually. Most of the time, using tongue. He'll cuddle me and put his arms around me. This has been going on for a little while now. He recently started fingering me while we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why is it so hard to get a damn date?

I can never catch a break, and it really makes me mad. There's always something keeping thing from moving forward. "I've got a boyfriend", "I'm talking to somebody", "I'm not interested in a relationship right now", "I...

Evil_Muska

Xper 5 Age: 39

Break Up & Divorce

Asking for a back massage in text?

How do you phrase a text message to a guy, asking for a back massage? What is a simple, yet seductive, non-direct way to ask for one?

xogreek

Xper 5 Age: 35

Do guys like it when girls put their hands on your chest?

Like just rest them there while talking to you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I tell if a girl is playing hard to get or she is simply not interested? I don't have much experience

I've never had a girlfriend before, never been in a relationship, not by choice though, I'm just one of those unfortunate, unlucky people out there, anyway, how can I tell if a girl is playing hard to get or if she is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is he such a jerk?

So there is this guy and he is a complete jerk to me. Some of the things that he does; he will fault out tell me whatever I say is stupid, if I look at him he will just stare me down and glare and then start to laugh,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Establishing a brownie point system. Join in.

I need a good rewards chart to set up between a girl and I. I think it's important in a relationship to have goals to seek for each other, as well as ourselves. It makes things more interesting. (: Ex. Compliments =...

NotJustAnotherGuy

Explorer Age: 34

Should I add him to Facebook IF he told me to?

OK so first of all I'm kind of 'old fashioned' in the way that I believe if a guy is interested he will put the effort into contacting and getting to know a girl. They prefer to do the chasing, and if you chase them they...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Regret a Break up?

Ladies in particular, have you ever regretted leaving a good guy? I dated my girlfriend all through college and she just left me to go play the field I guess.. I was so good to her. Affectionate, ambitious, nice,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys get annoyed when girls text them?

so this guy I'm really into gave me his number on Monday.. & we have texted a little.. but not all that much.. & my friends are all saying to play these games.. which I'm not into at all.. & I feel like it's just gonna...

xohxomeg

Xper 5 Age: 38