All Questions

The hug & rub? lol what does it mean?

So I went to hang out with a guy I'm sort of "dating" (unofficially) we hung out, went out for dinner, talked. At the end, I gave him a hug then he walked me to my car (we met up but he wanted to pick me up) and then we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend of 2 years told me if I don't lose weight it's over.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 2 years. We love each other. I admit I am over weight, but I am not huge, not big enough to point out in public anyway. I admit I need to lose a bit of weight. Anyway...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Emotional Affair to Next Level?

A man I work with and I hit it off immediately last summer. I have never connected with anyone like I have with him. We don't see each other often as our offices are 3 hours away. I usually have to travel to work there...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why is my Gemini man so upset and not wanting to talk to me?

I am seeing a (gemini) man and everything had been going awesome. He has been sick and he had said he was going to be on at 10am and didn't show up until 4pm.. I understand if your sick your sick. When I say show up I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How to say goodbye to my boyfriend when I leave for rehab?

How do I say good bye to my boyfriend of 3 years ? I have to go to rehab for a couple months and I'm going to miss him so much! We spend everyday together. I know it's what's best for me and my situation and I know if he...

topnotch69

Xper 6 Age: 45

Why do women hate men?

I was reading this question & a guy asked what women think of men. All the girl's responses were negative, all of them. They seemed to be very hostile against men & hold a lot resentment. Why do women hate men, what is it...

Meaniehead

Xper 5 Age: 48

Society & Politics

Girls check me out when they are with their boyfriends. Why do so many women do this?

i find it funny how many girls check me out when they are with their boyfriends. I'm not trying to be a douche or sound really cocky but sometimes I think I could steal a lot of dudes girlfriends without even trying that...

shacodraco

Yoda Age: 36

What does it mean when a guy's friends tease him about dating you?

OK so there's this guy I like and his friends always tease him about us dating each other or something like you no the traditional hey ___ stop flirting with ____. so does it mean that the guy likes you?

alysaa16

Xper 6 Age: 32

Why didn't my ex tell me he had a new girlfriend? We're still friends, I told him about my new guy.

Me & my ex were together for a LONG time. We've been apart almost 2 yrs...but we've never stopped talking. I was open with him about the new guy I started seeing awhile back, however he never told me he was dating the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you reject someone that you work with?

This 19 year old coworker of mine kept asking me out the other day, and it was extremely awkward. I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I told him that he was too young (true), and he couldn't help it because he's not...

grnpari

Xper 3 Age: 38

Do girls like being told that you like them?

Do girls like being told they are likes or do they find it annoying? For example, I like this girl and she is my friend but I'm not sure if I should tell her I like her or if I should just let things be and if I'm lucky...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it better to avoid things that remind you of your ex?

i still miss my ex and think of him a lot. there are certain TV shows, TV channel, movies, songs and certain singers that remind me of my ex every time I see or hear them. i have been avoiding listening and watching...

bigblueeyes1

Xper 5 Age: 42

Is it normal that my ex girlfriend has completely changed and gone all out after a break up?

My ex and I had been dating for 1.5 years. The day after our anniversary she left me telling me she loved me but she did not think I was the one anymore. I've done research on y women leave men and I have found out y and...

1jzsupra

Xper 5 Age: 35

To Swallow Your Pride?

What does this term mean to you? I've been thinking about the phrase quite a bit lately.. How does it occur to you when it comes to relationships?

HidingMyHeart

Explorer Age: 34

Fashion & Beauty

What do girls think about guys that wear tank tops?

I only wear them when I workout or if I'm playing basketball. I'm just wondering what you girls think, should I not wear them? By the way I'm in shape.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it illegal in Texas to kill a raccoon or possum you trapped on your property?

if its legal what's the best way to kill it?

Alexfc1992

Xper 4 Age: 34

How to make the first move on a guy?

If you really like this guy and you've been doing everything and anything in your power to make him like you back. He talks to everyday good or bad we fight here and there but that's just because he makes me very...

B-Baby

Xper 5 Age: 33

Married woman with a male personal trainer wrong? What would any husband think or do?

What if you're married and your wife goes to a Gym, has a personal boxing trainer(in his 50's and 2 sons), and at the same time they give aerobics classes. Well I don't think nothing of it and she's been going there for a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

When a guy asks you about your exes, other guys you talk to, and relationship preferences...

Does this mean he likes you? Every time you see a guy that you're flirting with, he asks what's going on with your ex (who you still talk to and who wants you), guy friends that he knows like you, and preferences like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Best way to physically flirt with a girl?

Without being too sexual. Like I don't want to slap her ass, that's just not my style. Any subtle but effective ways? How do you girls like to be flirted with?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My ex keeps flaunting his new girlfriend in my face?

My ex -boyfriend broke up with me after 8 months, but now we are friends but no awkwardly friends either. So a week later he is dating this new girl who is younger than whenever I see him he says how happy he is now and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean if my boyfriend told me he wants to "start over" as friends, and work on our relationship.

My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday, because we argue too much. However, I feel as if I can't do anything right, no matter what I try, and I really have no idea as to how the arguments start or why they happen. He...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are there any pretty girls who like bigger guys "fat"?

Hey, My name's Matthew. I just turned 21 a couple weeks ago and am very stuck on this question. I have been single my whole life, and I am not being dramatic either. I had one girlfriend that lasted less than a week and...

Aphillyated215

Xper 4 Age: 36

Sober cuddling the morning after?

The other night I met a guy at a party, we went back to my place with a few friends who all started hooking up, so this guy and I started kissing too. We went to bed and made out for a while and he tried to take it...

amoh24

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why does my ex contact me when she is seeing someone else?

OK I don't think it is because she wants me back but would like to know what her reasons are. It is often general conversation and catching up. She didn't talk to me for 2 months and doesn't mention her boyfriend now when...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, how do you feel about a girl expressing her feelings first?

I've never ever been the type to express my feelings first. Or at all it makes me uncomfortable. anyhow But would you rather a girl express her feeling first? Or would that make you uncomfortable?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Working out with the opposite sex?

Does anyone else have anxiety when it comes to working out with the opposite sex? What things do you really notice when working out with a guy/girl?

KikiSunshine

Xper 6 Age: 38