I am a 20 year old who is in love with a 32 year old man. I was always more mature than those that I grew up with. I never really had an interest in guys my own age. Mainly because I have nothing in common with them- I don't party all the time and I am very focused on my future. It's not that they don't find me attractive. It's just that every time I tried to go out on dates I would feel nothing for these guys, I tried, but there was no chemistry. The truth is that I was 18 when I met "him". He is my boss. Which also does not help matters. He found out that I had a little crush on him and he found my number and started texting me. He always told me that I am too young and since I am his employee he would not pursue a relationship with me. He told me that we would always be friends though. We talked for about two years. We would share out lives and he was hurt pretty bad in the past. every time we would get closer he would pull away. I know that my age scared him but I told him that to would always be faithful and it doesn't matter than I'm 20. I know that we would be perfectly happy with each other. I love him more than words can explain, and I'm willing to do anything for him. Please help. I need advice on what to do. When we work together he will stare at me but he will mostly talk to everyone else except me. I know he doesn't want anyone at work to know that we text/talk on the phone but wouldn't you think that he would talk to me. Sometimes I think he's just nervous. Any advice?
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He does have a good head on his shoulders. However, does age really matter? I do love him very much and I can't think about anyone else. It's impossible for me to move on. Perhaps he could be the one and he just doesn't know it yet. I'm just really confused.
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