All Questions

Do guys prefer average looking girls?

I live in New York City and know lots of people here in the city and it seems that the less attractive girls, and average girls are the ones that get the guys. The beautiful model looking girls are the ones getting their...

Anonymous

(36-45)

You're walking down the hallway, and a girl says hi to you?

OK, think of this scenario. Your walking down the hall way listening to your ipod and a girl says hi to you, you both had a brief exchange of words before. After she says Hi she ask if you remember her, would you think in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

His parents won't let him date? what do I do? and what about Valentine's Day?!

Some time in December one of my new friends from school asked me over text if I liked him as more than a friend...of course I answered yes because that's how I truly feel... but after a few deep conversations he texts me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Do guys like it if girls play COD?

I'm a girl and I've recently started playing COD and I gotta admit it's a sick game. I'm not really comfortable telling guys I play it though cause I feel like they're gonna say wtf is wrong with you? I just do it cause...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Smoked a bowl two days ago and smoked a half a bowl yesterday?

Does TCF bank drug test? LOL I've been drinking water I don't feel like wasting money but I am getting a drug tester for myself tomorrow anyone know what I can do?

hihellohey

Xper 5 Age: 36

What stops white guys from dating black girls?

I am a black female who is attracted to all races of men. I find it very interesting, though, that white men are most reluctant to date black girls. In fact, men in general are becoming more and more hesitant to court us....

creolebby11

Xper 3 Age: 36

Guys, what do you think about your FWB?

are you attracted to her, like her, think she's hot, or you just are in it for hooking up? don't you have to be somewhat into her to constantly hook up with her? I'm just trying to understand friends with benefits from a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

Why are women obsessed with marriage?

Now that I'm getting later into my twenties I'm finding that every girl I went to college and high school with is either getting married or trying to get married. Every time I'm on Facebook all it is filled with is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Women don't approach men first?

Is this universally same fact that women don't approach men first? I mean if under 5% women in the world do propose/tell first, then this does not change the fact that men must approach first.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How do I choose between my boyfriend and ex boyfriend?

i dated my ex for 10months and fell madly in love with him.He broke up with me and ignored me for sometime. I thought I was over him and began dating my current boyfriend (Jon). We've been together for 16months now and...

mcakes10659

Xper 5 Age: 40

Dating

Do you find an underbite on a man to be a deal breaker in dating?

It's when the bottom jaw sticks out a bit more then the top

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

If you're really interested in a girl, are there still days where you wouldn't contact her at all?

So, "game playing" aside, if you're really into a girl, will you still have days where you don't text her or call her at all? I've been on a couple dates with this guy and they seem to be going really well...he says all...

theallyling

Xper 3 Age: 38

Society & Politics

How soon is too soon to add a guy you slept with on Facebook?

I met him at a party, and we really connected I thought. it wasn't like the "i wanna sleep with you so ill seem into you" kinda thing but like he was interested. we talked a lot and then that night we ended up watching a...

haleygirl

Xper 4 Age: 38

He didn't want to take advantage of me?

So a while back a friend and I went out and we got a little wasted. We started making out in his room, but before it got serious he said that he felt like he was taking advantage of me because I was drunk. He then stopped...

Phroid

Xper 5 Age: 38

Family & Friends

Meeting my boyfriend's parents and I'm super shy?

OK so I've liked this guy for about 3 years and we started talking about a year ago and have recently just started dating. he wants me to meet his dad and his dads gf. I'm really shy and I do not like attention on me. I...

lethatershate

Xper 5 Age: 37

What does it mean when a guy says you are "cute" ?

I don't know to take as compliment or insult... I never been told I was "cute" till now; only hot or gorgeous etc. I always thought there are levels to beauty... cute being least? Maybe I am getting older and do not...

vsss223

Xper 5 Age: 41

Break Up & Divorce

My partner is receiving naked photos of other women, is he cheating?

I accidentally came across photos on his computer of naked women. My fear is that he is encouraging it. I know he would never physically cheat but does this class as emotional cheating? If it was standard porn I would not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How blind are you without your glasses?

If you wear glasses or contacts, how bad is your eyesight without them? Have you ever lost your glasses and been impaired by it? It's happened to me several times, unfortunately, including once when my ex-girlfriend took...

DDenmont

Xper 3 Age: 41

Why would a guy act uncomfortable around a girl, even if he likes her?

why would guys do this?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

My boyfriend sent another girl a NAKED picture of himself ?!?!?!?

Yeah, so I have my boyfriends passwords to all his things (email, Facebook, MySpace, aim, msn, etc everything). We've been having some minor problems lately, the type that all boyfriend/girlfriend have, not anything to be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

My boyfriend lost a bet, what should he do for me?

So me and him made a bet against two football teams playing against each other. Well I won lol and no he has to do something for me. I have NO idea what he should do though. The only thing I could come up with his he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do most guys like wearing white shirts?

okay, so... I'm a guy, and I don't really know what 'normal' is, cause I don't follow the trends, but 1. Why do most guys like wearing white shirts? 2. what's up with the physique revealing pants 3. white shoes? 4....

shadowbec

Xper 5 Age: 34

Non-dirty ways to turn on a guy while dancing?

Guys: what are your favorite ways to be turned on by a girl while you are dancing at a club? When I go out clubbing, I don't want to look or act like a slut, by grinding a guy like the freakin' energizer bunny (I have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why the most attractive people can't be faithful and happy?

you hear in the media, in the news and in history, the tall masculine looking men with lots of hair on their heads are always divorcing, always breaking up... same as women, doesn't matter how old is she or how many...

SilentG

Xper 7 Age: 38

We hooked up and now he's ignoring me?

There's this guy in my dorm who I know is kind of a ladies man. We have separate groups of friends but I kept running into him/passing by him and we'd say hi and eventually started having little conversations. Then he...

confusedgirl18

Xper 5 Age: 35

Is a guy flirting when he messes with a girl's hair?

So I told one of my guy friends that I liked him back in December, and he said he wasn't ready to date. Now he's doing this thing when we walk together; he stops and looks at me and then starts messing up my hair. Then...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Dating older, more experienced guy?

and I am a very inexperienced girl. I've barely dated. Haven't kissed anyone, and I'm still a virgin. This guy keeps asking me out, and I keep putting it off because I don't want him to expect anything physical. I tend...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does it look gay for a guy to wear a scarf, or do girls like it? Girls answer only please!

Iv always wanted to buy one and wear it when I go out because sometimes I think they look pretty cool on guys, but do girls think it looks hot on a guy, and does it make them think your cute and comfortable with your...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do our plans always fall through?

So me and a friend of mine that I like a lot make plans but they never seem to happen. He'll say something like "We should totally go see ____" or "I'll teach you how to play ___." But it never happens, I'm wondering if...

Anonymous

(36-45)