All Questions

Ladies can you tell if a guy is going commando?

1)Does it depend on what he's wearing? 2)Do you care if he is? dislike/like/don't care 3)Is it less obvious if he's uncircumcised? 4)If it does matter what a guy wears when he's going commando then what should he wear...

uncutguy1980

Xper 5 Age: 45

How to get rid of a clingy guy?

So there is this guy who I have been talking to for a while. He does not go to my college but he does go to another college nearby. One day I had slept with him but I CLEARLY let him know this was a one time deal....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Do intellectual women exist?

I am at my wits end, constantly. There doesn't seem to be anyone on this planet able to grasp things with a high enough degree of subtlety and intelligence that their speech or writing doesn't irritate me. Whenever I...

cjwright79

Guru Age: 47

Mama's Boy... HELP

My boyfriend is a total MAMAS BOY He tells his mom absolutely everything (I knew they where very close but I recently found out to what extent...) Every single word I have ever told him.. She knows about it.. He lets...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What if your boyfriend says you remind him of his ex-girlfriend?

well my boyfriend says I act like his ex, but doesn't wanna break up with me, & than he'll say that I'm way better than his ex.. I'm so confused & he also only went for her, cause he couldn't have me, because I chose my...

oooeeyyy

Xper 5 Age: 34

This guy told me he likes me, but doesn't act like it.

This guy I have been talking to told me he likes me but ever since he starts ignoring my texts and he's being mean. He still tells me he likes me . I don't know what to think.any opinions?

stuckey_h

Xper 5 Age: 39

Why is it that some guys will take forever to ask someone out?

I'm so close I feel to being asked out but it hasn't happened yet. its been 4 months. why is it you take so long sometimes?

Anonymous

(36-45)

If my ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend why does he still want to have sex with me?

My ex and I were together for 4 years.he decided we needed a break in April of this year. Through out the 4 years I did some hurtful things I never cheated never ever. But he claims I broke his heart. Its been 6 months...

mrsworthy

Xper 5 Age: 36

How is my ex boyfriend getting married after only knowing this girl for 4 months?

I dated a guy for over 2 years and broke up with him last year, it was for various reasons such as hardly ever seeing him. It's funny because we dated for so long and he wanted to wait to get married, we talked about it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can girls check out guys with their peripheral vision and get an accurate reading?

I rarely ever get looks from women. But most of the time they don't even look in my direction. So can they tell if a guy is "cute" or "ugly" just from their peripheral vision? Then if he is they don't even bother looking...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I leading my best friend on?

He's probably the person that I'm the closest to out of anybody, and we tell each other everything. We've always joked that we're siblings separated at birth, but lately I'm not sure that's what both of us are thinking....

pianogirl123

Xper 5 Age: 33

Why does she act different around me?

There is this girl I've liked for about 4 years but until recently I've not had the stones to do anything about it. I've been a loner for most of my life so this is all new to me. She's really social around other guys...

geoff

Xper 5 Age: 33

If a guy tells you that your hair looks pretty tied back, is it just a compliment or does it mean something?

This happened to me one day... I had swimming first period, and my hair was all wet and stiff from chlorine. I walked into third period and the first thing that my crush says to me is, "Hey, you know... your hair looks...

pianogirl123

Xper 5 Age: 33

HELP!!! What does it mean when a guy holds the back of your head while kissing you?

A guy and I were kissing and he kept holding the back of my head with one hand and it was sort of like he wanted my face buried into his..he kept holding my head and like bringing my face closer to his, although we were...

crislissa

Xper 5 Age: 40

Dating

I'm 24 years old but I've never dated?

Guys, would you be intimidated to meet a 24 year old girl that has never dated, held hands, kissed a guy or had any romantic encounter? Why or why not?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do non-band guys like band girls?

What do guys thinks of girls in marching band? And I'm talking about full-out uniform, half-time show marching bands. Do the uniforms kill all attractiveness?

clarinetist

Xper 4 Age: 33

Girls, Do you wear matching bra and panties?

I heard on the TYRA show girls think this way of wear matching sets. Now girls if you know of some girls that don't care and wear anything what would you call them?

hunglowman4you

Xper 6 Age: 57

Guy being Hot and Cold

I like this guy a lot, but he's getting kind of hot and cold and it's confusing and depressing at the same time. One week will be full of us talking, or things happening that indicate his interest, and then weekend comes,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

She asked me if I work out a lot.... what does that mean?

So I was getting into work and I was taking off my jacket. My shirt got pulled up a little bit and my co-worker got a little flash of skin from me. Right after that she gave me kind of a cute look and a smile and said:...

adf4538

Xper 5 Age: 37

Women think bald men are hideous, but.....

they are the ones that created them!? Thanks to evil women, fifty percent of men are going to be bald by the time they die. Are you happy? So now we go bald, are butt ugly to you, but you made us this way! I think it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How To Not Get Carried Away...

Guys, I know this may come as a shock - but as a woman I can be very emotional. Now, I know it isn't logical, but sometimes I get swept away by the tidal waves of emotion. How can I help myself rationalize through them....

bitesizedonut

Xper 4 Age: 38

Society & Politics

How to call a guy out who's playing games with you?

This guy is trying to play games with me. Specifically he'll say I wanna be with you and see you but then he blows me off. I really wanna call him out on it. I know you guys may just say girl just walk away, but I've got...

pinkit3232

Xper 6 Age: 36

What does it mean when a guy chases?

So I've been talking to both my guy and girl friends about this. All the girls of course seem to stick to what they want to believe. If a guy chases you, it means he really likes you. That if a guy really likes you, then...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Why are girls so mean to each other?

Why are girls so mean to each other? I mean yea guys are mean to each other but I think if you compare the two more girls are mean to each other then men are. I'm not saying guys are better than girls in any way, we have...

here4you

Xper 4 Age: 35

Do you guys, like to show off your girlfriend?

If I ask my man to choose an outfit for me, he always goes for the most revealing. Comments like 'you should not wear a bra with those boobs' 'put a tighter jeans' 'shorter skirt' 'higher heels' 'show your back and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How can I get back at him for using me to boost his ego?

I know this sounds terrible. But I really want to know how I can get back at this guy, in a subtle way after he used me to boost his ego. The story is probably a little too long to bore you all with in one posting but ask...

Claire_Alexandra

Xper 5 Age: 39

Girl's Behavior

What do guys think of a big butt?

people say stuff like that's not important but is it good?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys have to initiate everything with girls? why can't there be more give and take?

Why do guys have to initiative everything with girls? It's like this, if a guy and a girl want to start talking to each other, the guy starts the talking, the guy starts the conversation and keeps it going. Who starts the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy says 'I can't keep up with you'?

Somebody please tell me. My boyfriend said this to me.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Compliment or an insult?

my friend has been told various occasions that she looks like a porn star. a couple of guys have told her this, she doesn't know how to take it. is being told you look like a porn star a compliment or an insult?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What would you say when a guy tells you your cute?

what would a shy girl do when a guy tells you your cute to keep the conversation going that may lead to a relationship or something

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

What's it mean when a guy says you're intimidating?

I have a lot of guy friends and I know there have been a few guys that were interested in me but they would never let me know because "i am intimidating". all of my guy friends say they can agree. they say I'm pretty...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriends ex girlfriend told him she's pregnant?

I need to know what to do, he doesn't know if he should break up with me or not, this girl is crazy, they were going out for seven months and they broke up about two months ago, well she won't let him go and she tells him...

BrunetteBombshell07

Xper 5 Age: 35

Do certain cars attract girls better?

Ok, there is the age old cliche (if you want to call it that) that expensive and flashy cars, or the new "cool" cars attract girls. Obviously this won't be the case for 100% of girls. I ask this for a reason, I love...

TotalyFdinKansas

Xper 5 Age: 37