All Questions

Guys - should I tell my boyfriend that my ex was abusive?

He used to hit me when he got angry, and it took me a good 6 months to realize that I deserved better. I thought it was best to keep quiet - would you want to know something like that? I'm afraid that my boyfriend will...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a guy keeps the conversation going?

is it a good thing? for example I said something to the guy I like yesterday and he answered it and well that was pretty much the conversation, but he walked ove cloer to me and started talking about something completely...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Grind at clubs?

Why do some guys like to 'front grind' at clubs? I was at a club the other night dancing near this guy and he started to grind with me from behind like most guys do. Then all of a sudden he whipped me around and sort of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a guy lingers around?

do you think if a guy is lingering around you but won't say anything to you then he is waiting for you to talk to him or he is trying to get you to talk to him? and if I think dis guy likes me anyway.

cherrysickle

Xper 5 Age: 35

Does kissing someone you're attracted to feel different from someone who is just there?

Does it feel different if you kiss someone you are attracted too? I have never felt anything from kissing a guy, am I supposed to feel something? Can you tell if you like a person from a kiss?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why was he teasing me?

I was hanging out with my hot guy friend and he kept teasing me in a fun sort of way. I got a new purse and because of the material it has that like new car smell.and I know its only temporary.and he kept teasing me about...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

Is it wrong to go to parties if you have a girlfriend?

is it wrong to go to parties if you have a girlfriend and she doesn't go with you .as long as you don't cheat?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do men or women "settle" more often?

As time goes by those high standards begin to drop! Do men or women "settle" more often?

NotSoBad

Yoda Age: 46

Red headed guys?

I have red hair and I have been through a lot of questions about red headed guys and how most people think there ugly all I want to know is why that is? Thanks

ben-jebb

Xper 5 Age: 36

What do you do when everyone is against you?

When everyone disagrees with you, and criticizes everything you say, or do. When your beliefs and opinions are disapproved of. When you feel like you don't belong. When you feel unaccepted. Do you keep your mouth...

lost-angel

Xper 7 Age: 44

Girls, what makes you feel insecure?

I know some pretty obvious answers too, just wanted to get some feedback. Is it how you see other guys act around girls? Has maybe how your father treats you mom changed your mind? {if you have a father} Do you maybe...

Blake26

Xper 4 Age: 34

Is it weird that I like a girl 5 years younger then me?

well I'm 23 she's 18 I like her but I feel she might be to young I asked my friends and the say she is.i don't know what 2 do

luigi1984

Xper 5 Age: 41

Break Up & Divorce

I broke up with him, but I want him back?

It started when I was about to get off of work. I called him to let him know I was getting off and if he would be home. He told me he wasn't gonna be there and that I should just go to my house. (I live with him, but when...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

My girlfriend's best friend absolutely HATES me and wants to break us up. What do I do?

I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 7 months now. We met about a year ago. We get along great and everything is perfect except her best friend absolutely hates me and now I think she's trying to break us up....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Crazy or Funny Inside Jokes/Games with boyfriend/girlfriend?

Okay. I'm a very sarcastic and joking type person. I love to crack jokes and say some pretty outlandish stuff to people because I like to see how people react. I like to do this especially with my girls I'm with. My...

Da-Boss

Xper 4 Age: 40

Why no doors?

I have noticed most schools have no stall doors in the men's rooms. There seem to always be doors on the ladies room stalls. Why is this?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Shopping & Gifts

What do guys really want for their birthday?

So my boyfriend/fiance is turning 23 next week. He says it is not a special day or anything. But I'm still planning on things to make it special. I was thinking of a dinner cruise, or at this restaurant by the beach,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is there any way to get her to stop pushing me away, and if so how?

So I was in a relationship with this girl and it was going well, she got kind of mean and such and I took it because I figured she had been hurt before and was just kind of testing me or something, turned out I was right...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are glasses a turn-off on a girl?

Do men like women who wear glasses or do they prefer them without.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys like large vulva's ?

I am 16 years old and have not had any experience sexually mostly due to the fact that I have rather 'large' 'ugly' looking vulva. I am scared that once a guy looks at it he will laugh or say 'the the hell is that'...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do strangers avoid me? Is this normal?

I had a lot of strange people I didn't know adding me to msn in response to a personal classifieds ad that I posted but most of them delete me as soon as they realize our interests are not compatible. Second degree...

993099142

Xper 6 Age: 40

What does it mean when a guy hits you up when he's "bored"?

Are you on his mind? are you the last resort? what the heck does he want?

sleeplessinnewyork

Xper 5 Age: 35

If you give a VERY shy guy your e-mail address will he e-mail a girl if he really likes her?

Shy guy at former job seemed very interested. 1. would act stiff and flustered around me at first and walk quickly and just awkward 2. came by me to ask work related questions and seemd comfortable when talking to me...

Confusedone11

Xper 5 Age: 45

Does loyalty exist anymore?

I've been in three relationships in the past year which have ended with them cheating on me. I'm attentive, caring, intelligent, thoughtful, yet decisive and independent. I'm confident about my performance in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to approach girls in a club?

What is the best way to approach females in a club, say they are dancing in a group of four. I don't want to approach them and make them scared just be friendly.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Crush invited me on vacation?

I've been crushing on this chick for a while now and we literally spent the last 15 days together studying after school (both in junior college).like 6-8 hours alone time every day. I told her a few weeks ago that I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I hide the bruise or wear shorts?

So tomorrows the first day of school, and its gonna be hot out and I want to wear shorts. But, I have a HUGE bruise that goes down the whole left side of my upper left leg (outsside of my leg). Should I wear jeans and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Kissing short girls?

Okay, this is probably really silly and slightly strange, but I have no idea how to approach shorter girls to kiss them. I find it really awkward standing with them if their much smaller than I am. There's a girl I'm...

InsomniacDude

Xper 5 Age: 34

Dark Hair And Pale Skin?

How do guys feel about dark hair/pale skin on a girl? I have dark hair naturally and pale skin with black eyes. I used to always lighten my hair to a lighter brown because I felt that my dark hair was intimidating or...

beachtexasgirl89

Xper 4 Age: 36

Strong Desire to Snuggle?

Do you ever get a strong desire to snuggle when you don't have anyone to snuggle with? Maybe I'm odd, but there are just times when all I want is to snuggle up with someone and forget about the rest of the world. This is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he giving me false hope?

I'm trying to figure out what I should do with this situation. I love my ex SO much. In my heart I believe we are meant to be together. So, basically, we broke up 7 weeks ago, He 'loves me very much, but feels like we...

Jeanette

Xper 4 Age: 47

Advice on dating a 19 year old?

So, this girl and I met at school last year and had a few dates, and then didn't see each other for the summer, and upon coming back we went out again and agreed we are on date #2 or 3 or so. I'm in grad school and am 26,...

gag10

Xper 4 Age: 43

Do GUYS like girls with glasses?

Do guys like girls with glasses? I wear glasses all the time, I don't have contacts. Do guys find that not attractive when a girl wears glasses? I wouldn't say that I look like a nerd, I look decent, but have glasses. I...

stargazer1

Xper 4 Age: 37

Do you care if a girl/guy wears the same clothes often?

There's this guy I know who wears the same black cardi pretty much every time I see him, It's soft and cute, so I still love him to pieces! But then again, when I see him I always try to wear something different, but he...

JeVousAime

Xper 6 Age: 35

How come when girls fight they try to pull the other girls clothes off?

I noticed when 2 girls get into a fist fight as the fight goes on one of the girls will try to pull the others shirt off and the fight never usually lasts long enough for this to happen. What is going on? Why when 2 girls...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What does it mean when a guy calls a girl a sucker fish?

This guy that I was talking to and hooked up with about 4 months ago came up to me at the bar and said hey its the sucker fish.is that an insult or does it have to do with something sexual or drinking?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys really like party girls?

I've tried the whole party scene and I'm just not into it, but it seems like guys more attracted to these "wild" girls. So what's the best way for a non-party girl to get a guys attention? Thanks for reading! Mandy

Anonymous

(36-45)

Accidental eye contact vs on purpose?

Whenever I see the guy I like look at me or even make eye contact, I always think it was just kind of accidental, even though it happens often. Well the eye contact thing not as often but that's my fault. For example: I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Boyfriend should wear deodorant?

I have a boyfriend whom really needs to wear deodorant, but not sure how to tell him? He doesn't smell if your standing next to him or anything like that, but when we get together and he takes his shirt off, sometimes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you do when a guy just uses you and then ignores you?

I had sex with this guy that was a not a real close friend of my boyfriends but we ended up driving around and talking and one thing led to another. Then the next weekend me and my sister went to the bar and my...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)