All Questions

Can being too nice be a turn off?

I'm a nice guy, I like to open doors, pay for dinner, give massages and all that, does this end up hurting me in the long run my friends say women like being treated like shit and I'm way to nice?

partymarty112

Xper 5 Age: 45

Dating

A 26 year old man dating a 16 year old girl?

What are your opinions? The couple have her parent consent so, YES, it IS legal. The man is not trying to get in her pants, and how "been together" for over a year. The man is a "friend of the family" so he has...

MaceyRyan

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why do we get stood up on a date?

Folks, this has happened to me on numerous occasions. Sitting at the restaurant, standing at the park, looking like a complete idiot by myself all decked out waiting for my date. No call, no show, nothing. I go back to...

archer86

Yoda Age: 56

Dating

Are girls afraid of dating cops?

It seems that, even though I go to college full time and work as a part-time cop, girls are scared of going out with me whenever I tell them what I do. Some think it's cool, but they instantly place me in their friend...

Just-A-Random-Guy

Xper 4 Age: 38

What does he want? Eye contact and nervous...

Hello, so there is this guy with me in uni and basically used to follow me wherever I go, its freaky and stares WAY to much, like we have eye contact for 2-3 seconds. We never talked at all. Not a single word,. He has...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do girls do at sleepovers?

I have asked my girlfriend several times what she does at her friends' sleepovers and she only tells me a little bit. Its driving me nuts. She says she might tell me later or something but now the anticipation is killing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Should I kiss him first?

I've been hanging out with this guy for a while and I know he likes me because his friend said so and my friend said and it's in the way he looks at me and how he calls me all the time and asks to do stuff. But we haven't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Which Ball Hurts The Most?

Completely random question. And not that kind of "ball". ;) Which type of ball hurts more when it hits you in the face? (Just a light throw, not a kick or long pass). I have a bet going so thanks for voting!

babet

Xper 6 Age: 40

Girl's Behavior

How would you feel having a girlfriend as an Exotic Dancer?

I am a professional Exotic Dancer. I really enjoy what I do, but what really sucks about my job is that many men don't respect me for it. Every time I try to meet a man, lets say for example a coffee shop, book store or...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Mean but TRUE horoscope for each sign. What is yours? (hilarious but somewhat offensive)

Aquarius (Jan 23 - Feb 22) You have an inventive mind and are inclined to be progressive. You lie a great deal. You make the same mistakes repeatedly because you are stupid. Everyone thinks you are a jerk. Pieces...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How do you deal with a Binge Drinker?

:( Has anyone had any experience with a binge drinker? I recently got back together with my ex girlfriend. Everything was going great for like two weeks and then last night happened. We went out to a party with her...

NotSoBad

Yoda Age: 46

Does showing a bulge help women flirt with you?

So I have a hard time figuring out if these girls at my school are single, interested, etc. I have confidence to talk to them but not enough to be so upfront about it to ask do you got a Boyfriend. So I am curious to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I flirt with a quiet girl?

There's this really quiet girl in one of my classes, we've talked now for about a month and a half and I'm not sure if she likes me, but I really like her. I'm just wondering how to flirt with her because if I'm too...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why can't I stop cheating on my husband?

Iv cheated on my husband more times then I can remember with all of his friends he knows about 2 of them and the others he doesn't no about for some reason I can't stop everyday time I have sex with him all I can think...

bbyblbeyes69

Xper 4 Age: 39

How can I speed things up?

There is this guy and I'm pretty sure we like each other. We went to a movie the other day together, but things are moving really slowly. Is there a way that I, as a woman, can speed things up a little bit? My only...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys put their hands down their pants?

Why do guys put their hands down their pants? So I have always noticed that guys have to adjust themselves down there. But would it be considered playing with them selfs if they are wearing the stretchy shorts and like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can a guy get a mini boner?

Is it possible for a guy to get a boner without seeing it? And if the guy is laying with a girl, is it possible for him to NOT get a boner?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can someone give me some advice to put him in his place without loosing him forever?

Me and my boyfriend had been together for almost 4 years on and off, he was a really bad temper and tends to be very moody so sometimes he explodes and it causes a sudden break up. We had been really great together until...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you ever wish your man had bigger muscles?

Do you ever wish your man had bigger muscles? If so. Why? How would you go about telling him?

NotSoBad

Yoda Age: 46

My boyfriend loves me but why does he look at other girls?

I have being going out with my boyfriend for 8months and he says he loves and he has even cried in my face like about 3 times and has said I love you crying to me but then again he looks at girls when I'm with him and...

taty2c4me

Xper 5 Age: 37

What does it mean when a girl calls you Suave?

I was at a party and this girl showed up and goes hey do you remember me and I said yes, she goes what's my name then? I said well I'm not good with but I never forget a beautiful face, and she goes oo your suave. Was...

tex151

Yoda Age: 43

Hairy chest...good or bad?

I don't have one but someone once said they thought it looked good. Personally I'm not too big on it but any ideas on it?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys like it when girls touch them?

It doesn't have to be serious touching, just like putting her arm around his lower back or touching his hand a little, or long, nice hugs? This particular guy is shy, so I'm not exactly sure if he doesn't like it, or if...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What are the signs of an outgoing guy having crush?

-he's very sociable and outgoing, loves people. -I'm the one who approaches him, he never approaches me. -When we talk, it's a very warm greeting with a smile or smirk. -one time when he sat close to me in church, I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it a good strategy to ignore the girl that I like?

Is it a good strategy to ignore the girl that I like, or is it just a myth that women liked to be mistreated a bit? I am just talking about the very begging of a relationship though.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Hot guys dating ugly girls?

Why do I see a lot of hot guys dating ugly girls? I really would like to know?

Curious-Blonde18

Xper 5 Age: 36

Society & Politics

Why do women love to lead me on?

Why do women love to lead me on? I have been talking to one for awhile, and we are talking about getting together. Then on monday, while she's at the mall, a guy randomly walks up and asks for her number. Now she doesn't...

Kenographer

Xper 5 Age: 39

Did my hair stylist hit on me or was she just cutting my hair expecting a good tip?

I recently got my hair cut and went to a new place. Had never met the hair stylist but she started joking around with me and we were both sarcastic with each other right off the bat. The entire time we struck up a...

honestly11

Xper 5 Age: 42

Why don't girls ever ask guys out on first dates?

So yes, we all say that women are equal to men and that they can do everything that guys can, yet why is it some 90 something percent of women that I have asked think it is the guys JOB, not inclination, not nice thing to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do guys think of girls that don't drink?

I don't get superior about it or anything. I don't say "well I don't drink because I find it morally reprehensible, " or anything like that, I just don't like alcohol. I had one night of drinking (about ten shots five of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Is it better to go with your cousin to the prom or your friend?

Is it better to go with your cousin to the prom or your friend? The way some people be dancing there, it's kind of hard to know who to go with, because I want to dance too, but it might be kind of weird doing "the bump...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Is ok to never have a boyfriend during high school?

Is ok to never have a boyfriend during high school? My sister did that and I feel like I'm going to be that way. See, not many guys ask me out and the ones I like always have girlfriends. I'm quite cute, but I hate it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is it normal for a guy to playfully argue with you if he likes you?

I like this guy at my job, and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. I've known him for about six months and in that time, we have gotten pretty close. When we are at work, we pretty much end up talking to each other for about...

Sumbdy2luv

Xper 4 Age: 37

Does this girl like me Iif she laughs at anything you say, even if you know it's not funny?

I know it's typical of people to just laugh because of peer pressure of other people being around them, but this girl when I'm talking 1 on 1 with her will laugh at anything I say. Does she like me or is this just some...

Euro-Raver

Xper 6 Age: 35