All Questions

When a guy says that a girl is "cool", what does that mean?

What on earth does this mean in "guy-speak" ? lol When guys say that a girl is "cool", how is this supposed to be taken? Is this a compliment? Or, just a non-sensical comment? Because IMO it sounds like the guy may...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it feel like to wear a thong all day?

I LOVE girls that wear thong underwear. I've always wondered though how they can function having something permanently stuck between their butt cheeks all day. Don't get me wrong, it's sexy as hell, but sometimes just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys have you ever regretted not asking a girl out?

Especially the shy guys. Have you ever really liked a girl, but you never got enough courage to ask her out? Did you regret it later? Did you ever stop liking her? If you did get enough courage how long did take?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Getting involved with someone else during a break: Cheating or Not?

It appears to me that people who get involved with someone new when they are on a break with their current boyfriend/girlfriend don't consider it cheating. On the other hand, people who's boyfriend/girlfriend have gotten...

BirdofParadise

Yoda Age: 38

Dating

My 'boyfriend' never calls and barely texts.

We are still in the beginning stages of our relationship and I don't feel like he really wants to get to know me or cares what is going on in my life or wants to be in it. If you really like someone and want to build a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I don't think he finds me attractive anymore.

Hi My husband is really upsetting me. For a while now I have found sex quite unfulfilling, at first it was because there didn't seem to be any fore play he sort of just went straight there but only...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Ladies: She tells me she loves me but then pulls away.

I've been dating this girl for about 5 months now and things seemed to be going really really well. We've been hanging out a lot, going on trips together, she introduces me to her family and everyone refers me to her as...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

If a guy 21 years old, still single, never had a girlfriend, is he a pathetic excuse for a human being?

That's why I joined this site, hoping I can get some advice and opinions. Anyway, I am a 21 year old guy, I've never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, well kinda because I have kissed girls before, made out, and last...

moviedude714

Master Age: 38

Why haven't I been asked out yet?

i liked this one guy that I thought liked me so I guess I tried to flirt or my version of flirting and I messaged him and tried to show interest and it seemed to be going well but when I messaged him to ask him out, he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my ex still look at me sometimes but she won't talk to me?

still look at me sometimes but she won't talk to me we haven't talked in 2 months but she still looks at me sometimes does that mean anything by chance?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I can't stop cheating on my wife...but I want to stay married. What's wrong with me?

I've been married for more than 3 years and have cheated on her with about 30 different people. I'm addicted to it. I love my wife and have a decent sex life with her. I just like it on the side too. She's caught me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys: if you were a girl for a day...

Since the other question about what girls would do for a day being in the shoes of the other gender did so well, I'd figure it would only be fair as to what we as guys would do: ( link ) Guys, if you were a girl who...

That-Guy

Guru Age: 40

How can I tell if a girl is shy, playing hard to get, not interested, or getting bored and annoyed?

It's very confusing, because almost all the time, girls seem to make it very extremely un-obvious whether they like a guy or dislike a guy, a lot of times it takes many guys a long time to realize that the girl likes him...

moviedude714

Master Age: 38

Why doesn't my boyfriend make plans with me?

invite me anywhere, involve me in his plans? I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 1/2 years. We constantly argue about the fact that he will make plans with his friends and family and not tell me about it or talk to...

saintsvalentine

Xper 5 Age: 47

Comparing my relationship with my boyfriend against my friends' relationships?

I feel a little p*ssed off right now. I'm comparing my relationship with my boyfriend against my friends, and I think to myself why isn't ours like this?. I wish my boyfriend was like that or did that for me. :( We're...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

STUBBLE everywhere, what do guys think?

so obviously most girls on here who shave no what I'm talking about..when you get that 3-day stubble on your legs, armpits, stomach/trail etc..i'm just wondering guys, does it gross you out when you feel a girl's stubble?...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I feel like a fool, did he ever love me?

I have known this guy for 6 years and we started fooling around back then. I had recently broken up with someone and didn't want a relationship and he seemed fine with that so we kept things light and casual. About a year...

EmmyAward

Xper 5 Age: 45

Society & Politics

Is ballroom dancing dead?

It seems like organized or eloquent dancing with is on the decline. Your thoughts/opinions please.

Jolly-Green-Giant

Xper 5 Age: 36

He's too shy to approach me... I'm too shy to approach him...

It's ridiculous. We both avoid each other (and just make eye contact and look away). I blush and can't talk when I am around him. He blushes whenever someone mentions my name to him and suggests we date. We're both...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are back massages considered flirting?

If you saw a girl giving a guy a back massage would you think they were flirting? Also guys if you got offered a back massage, would you assume the girl was flirting?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Sexual tension: does it take two?

You hear a lot about there being "sexual tension" between two people. Though I believe there is such a thing, I'm curious as to whether or not you guys think both parties can feel it when it's happening, or if it's just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend gets hit on all the time at work, should that bother me?

My boyfriend's job requires him to visit at least 5 different houses a day to work on their home. He has told me numerous times that women have hit on him while he's been there. One time a woman asked if she could watch...

RRSB2

Xper 5 Age: 40

Family & Friends

My girlfriend has a guy friend (many guy friends)

My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. We met while seniors in High School and right now we are finishing our first year in college (the same one). Well, the first semester concluded with her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If you were a guy for a day...

What sort of things would you do? You were 6'2, muscular and handsome man who was wealthy. - punch people? - Lift heavy things? - Hit on women strangely? This is inspired by the other "what would you do if you were...

That-Guy

Guru Age: 40

How to know if a girl likes you online?

I have this girl's email.. I met her in person and I can't quite ask her out now cause I don't live in the same city (pretty far away). So what would be the most common signs of her possibly liking me when talking on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy exchanges numbers, is he interested?

Ok, this past Friday, I went to a club with a friend. We met some guys. We danced, chatted and they gave us a ride to our car after the bar closed and the dude I like gave me his number and I gave him mine. He is 22 and...

emigh25

Xper 5 Age: 43

Why make small talk with your ex?

What's the point in contacting an ex (who you aren't really friends with anymore, but things between you are civil) just to see how they've been or what they're up to now? Are you just curious? Do you still somewhat care...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Did I hurt his feelings? (details inside)

I was talking to the guy I like; everything was fabulous: we were making lots of eye contact, flirting, smiling...It was really nice. He says to me, 'I want your shoes' (clearly he was joking) and asks what shoe size I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Girl says "you're amazing."

Ive known this girl a few years now, she's moved to another town to further her studies but I still talk to her a lot over msn. She currently has her eyes on someone where she is now, but when she talks to me she still...

wonderingboy

Xper 5 Age: 35