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I made things awkward at the end of the night saying goodbye-did I f*** up????

OK, so yesterday it finally happened - I hung out for the first time (one-on-one) with this guy I like (I'm pretty sure he considered it a getting-to-know you as friends). We had some great conversations. he suggested...

swedishchica05

Xper 5 Age: 39

Break Up & Divorce

Why is my ex so sensitive?

So I started dating a guy before the summer for around a month. It was really intense and I liked him a lot. But the college semester ended and a few weeks into the newly established "relationship," which had to be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy code for "LET'S HANG OUT"

Guys can you please explain what you mean when you tell this to a girl you have been flirting with. There is a guy at my work and he comes in to my office all the time and flirts with me. The other day he said randomly...

kellyann

Xper 5 Age: 40

My girlfriend says we are too different

My girlfriend and I have been together for 14 months, and recently had told me that we are two different people, and since I've known her she has not been her "true" self. She wants to go back to being herself. (I'm not...

spy8901

Xper 5 Age: 37

Health & Fitness

Does birth control make your boobs grow?

I just started birth control and I was wondering if it made your boobs grow and does it make you break out?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I told him I loved him and now he won't talk to me.

Okay I really need help on this. I have gone head over heels for a friend of mine, I've known him 4 about 6 years and for a while we were flirting a whole lot. Well not 2 long ago he got a girlfriend and everything...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

How can you tell when a guy is flirting out of boredom vs. being sincere about it?

I've been working with a guy for the past, oh, almost month and a half or so, and I started to form a little crush on him basically from the beginning. I was so positive that he liked me cause he always asked me questions...

punchxcore

Xper 3 Age: 42

The little pervert

I used to be good friends with a little boy a few years younger then me when I was in elementary school. Our moms were best friends. Well, out parents just met up again and I went to hang out with them. He is about...

Inkweaver2

Xper 6 Age: 34

How to keep a relationship from being purely physical?

my boyfriend and I have been going out for over a month now. about three weeks into our relationship we started experimenting with sex acts, but we haven't had sex yet. so far each thing we've only tried twice at the most...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is a boyfriend more important than a best friend?

Okay, my best friend is dating this guy who's 15. she's been dating him for a week now. so tomorrow we are supposed to go to knoebles together- we have been planning this since early may! and it was a def. yes. then this...

iloveyouxo

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why can't my ex stop talking to me?

So we had a bad break up, but I'm the type of person who is easy going enough to be able to stay friends with even after everything. Well I asked him if he could stop talking to me so I could get over him. He told me that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

What would it take for your ex to sweep you back off your feet?

My girlfriend broke up with me and I still think she got scared because we started to get serious. Her ex cheated on her so she thinks I'm going to do the same thing. I would never do that and never think about doing...

duke01genlee

Xper 4 Age: 50

Break Up & Divorce

How should I respond to my hostile ex-girlfriend?

Me and my ex had broken up about a month ago. very serious relationship. the break up was very bad because she got very hostile to me and very angry at me. She talks bad about me behind my back so sent her a message the...

thecougar04

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why do guys turn into jerks if you tell them you aren't interested?

why is it when a guy ask you out and you tell him your not interested in dating he gets angry and starts being a man jerk? I know that no one likes to be rejected but there are trillions of other beautiful women in the...

jelisa00

Xper 5 Age: 42

What does it mean when a girl texts "Hey you." ?

I've spent a lot of time with the girl, she def. knows my name. Is that flirting?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

"I'm not looking for anything serious" What does that mean to you?

"I'm not looking for anything serious at the moment" I've been making it a point to tell this to the girls I've been dating. What does this mean to you when you say it? What does this mean to you when you hear it?...

NotSoBad

Yoda Age: 46

Society & Politics

Is it a turn off when girls have a big ass?

Is it a bad thing? Good thing? What is a guy's opinion of this?

samcherries

Xper 3 Age: 35

Why is my guy friend lying to me?

K so me and this guy have been friends for a long time but he lies alot.and about stupid stuff too it makes me mad and sad that he isn't being honest with me.I like him as more than a friend but I'm not so sure sometimes...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to fix a sabotaged relationship?

There's a girl that has liked me for a long time, and I've liked her, but I have pushed her away so many times that she has stopped trying with me, and I still like her and think I may even be in love with her. Is there...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Fashion & Beauty

What does "cute" mean to a guy?

What does it mean when a guy says a girl is "cute"? I have had a guy at a party say to me "you're pretty cute, you know that?!" and also had a guy friend tell me that his friend thought I was "cute." what does that...

swedishchica05

Xper 5 Age: 39

Late bloomer & have never kissed a girl

Hi everyone. I just turned 30 years old in May, but I've never kissed a girl. I've never dated a lot but I'm getting better and dating a bit more than before. But I've never kissed a girl. What would girls think if you...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do people put up a facade?

Why is it people put up facades, especially at the beginning of a relationship, I mean what is the point, if you like the person eventually they are going to find out about the real you, so why do it? Why can't people...

rebell1975

Xper 5 Age: 51

Do girls get jealous of other pretty girls ?

do you get jealous of a hot girl that gets all the guys or do you just think she's sleezy or slutty just because she is pretty? Would prefer girls opinions rather than the fellas . :)

skegz

Xper 5 Age: 34

Fashion & Beauty

Wanting guys to wear makeup and dresses, but be straight

I have a thing, a major attraction to guys who wear makeup and/or dresses, but I can hardly ever find guys who do that who aren't bisexual or gay. Do they even exist? I've known one guy. ONE. Until he told me he was...

AtaraCorgatelli

Xper 5 Age: 46

Banana Boobs?

okay.So I think I have banana boobs and I absolutely hate them. Maybe its because I haven't stopped growing. Will they look like round? Are they still attractive?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it bad to sleep with a guy on the first night?

I met this guy through my girlfriend on her b day. He was very cute but I just got out of a bad relationship. Well we were in the limo and when he got dropped off he invited me to his house and it happened. Well then in...

Broken4201

Xper 5 Age: 42

Why do girls crush on their teachers?

okay, so I've crushed on a teacher before, sure. and I've seen guys who were into their teachers. but I always see girls who think their way deep in love with their male teachers, even if the guy is married with kids and...

hedwidandtheangryowl

Xper 5 Age: 36

Do men drop annoying hints too?

Many guys hate girls dropping annoying and unclear hints. Do you think guys do it too?

Quackpotty

Xper 6 Age: 43

Whats a guy thinking when he stares?

when a guy stares at a girl very often and smiles when doing so what could he be thinking?

hazeleyes91

Xper 6 Age: 35

Why do they treat me like I'm a kid?

my friends always treat me as a baby just because I'm small and baby faced doesn't mean iam a baby the pick me up when they give me hugs,and go awh your so cute,and when a guy doesn't like me they will just say oh he has...

Anonymous

(36-45)