All Questions

What does PMS feel like to a girl, and how do men deal with it?

Should be simple enough. I want girls accounts of what it feels like, and guys accounts of how they deal with their girls during that week of the month. For best answer include: What do you expect from you poor men?...

Cyberdog900

Xper 5 Age: 43

What excuses do guys use to talk to girls they like?

if a guy liked a girl but didn't know her very well would he make up an excuse to go and talk to her? what type of excuse would he use, for example would you ever say have you got the time to start a conversation or would...

bubblewrap-

Xper 5 Age: 39

My best friend told me that I made her feel uncomfortable.

Ok, so I totally like my best friend Amy a lot and she knows it. We were very very close and recently 2 months she got a girlfriend. I was jealous as I don't know what. I got jealous because I wasn't hanging out with Amy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Girlfriend hangs out with guy friend that likes her and hates me

My girlfriend has a guy friend that hates me for the simple reason of being her boyfriend. I have NEVER MET HIM lol ! He has admitted to having feelings for her but she still hangs out with him which pisses me off. Am I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why are people so disgusted with interracial dating?

I have dated pretty much every race I can think of. I have dated an asian, black guys, Porta Rican, Mexican, and white. When I went out with the asian and the black guys I got so much shit for being with them. I was...

bluexxeyes

Xper 4 Age: 35

When guys hug girls...

I want to get answers from guy, when you hug a girl do you smell her hair? Do you try to feel her breasts? I really want to know does every guy do that? Because I recently made friends with this guy who likes me. We...

hamachisakisan

Xper 5 Age: 36

What are the signs that a guy wants a serious relationship?

Is it something he says along with his actions? But what exactly? Details guys

Numb1

Xper 5 Age: 56

Why did she say no?

I started getting feelings for this girl in a couple of my classes. We talked a lot and she would even come over to me and start conversations whenever I wasn't with anybody. she always played with her hair and we stared...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I ask the host of a restaurant out?

my family and I go to a restaurant and there is a good looking host working there. once about 4 months ago my friend started a conversation with him and he seems like a sweet guy (then again he's doing his job) but still...

italian

Xper 5 Age: 40

If a girl says no to a date?

If a girl says no at one point, should you never ask her out again? Should a man leave her alone forever and never ask again. Or if still interested, after a period of time, should one ask again?

Just-A-Random-Guy

Xper 4 Age: 38

What do his compliments mean?

So I like this guy and I am trying to figure out how he feels. I was wondering if it means anything that he compliments me on something pretty much every time I see him for the last couple months. I see him like once a...

SwimUltraBlu

Xper 5 Age: 42

When a bad boy falls for a good girl...

What are the characteristics of a bad boy who falls in love with a good girl? What are his actions? And what makes him change?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm 26, she's 17...

Is that too young?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can we compete with todays pretty girls?

ok I'm pretty and I've an okay body just normal but it seems like everywhere I go there is someone ten times prettier, skinnier and just all round better than me.how will I ever get a guy or anyone who is just an average...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a girl laughs and says...

There's a girl in my church band that I like and I think she may like me too, but I'm not sure. One night, while we were practicing, I held up some "egg shakers" (which are musical instruments) and pretended they were...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

When a man asks for space, is it over?

we've been dating for 2.5 years, we both expected to tie the knot. During our 1.5th year, I noticed he can't manage stress at work and our relationship at the same time. however, we worked things thru. When our 2nd year...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he a player, or just confused?

So about 6 months ago I met this guy, we were hanging out for awhile and then two weeks into knowing him we hooked up. Prior to this we talked constantly, and the hookup was great. we both had fun and seemed to really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why did he marry her and not me?

I dated this man whom I was very in love with for almost three years. He had just gotten out of a bad divorce and told me that he probably did not want to get married or have children. But everything else was good, he...

steelez-

Xper 5 Age: 49

Dating

Does a 'Truth or Dare' Kiss Count?

I was at a friends party/sleepover and I'd invited the guy I liked along, he agreed, happily came along and stayed the night. We'd been flirting for ages and he's just so extremely amazing! Eventually quite late at night...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

My boyfriend says I've let my self go, yet he won't let me get myself back!

Since I've been with my boyfriend we have both sorta 'let ourselves go' so to speak. He complains that I've gained weight since we met almost 5 years ago, and that I never wear make-up for him anymore. Well I admit I've...

sugahsweet18

Xper 5 Age: 41

Fashion & Beauty

How do I get over everyone calling my sister beautiful and not giving me a second glance?

I am not writing this to feel sorry for myself of for anyone else to feel sorry for me. But I have dealt with this issue for years and as I get older it affects me more, so I am turning to this site for help. I have an...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Short shorts on guys?

I recently did some shopping and got some retro 80's short shorts for lounging around and doing chores. They are really comfortable, they keep me cooled down, and it is so much nicer than wearing long shorts. I have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

After straightening my hair, I hate the smell?

I have a real curly hair , I'm talking about small perfect curls and huge fuzzy hair, since my hair is not tall enough to leave it just like that I usually straighten it, but then after I straighten my hair all the good...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Is being drunk and excuse to cheat?

This is an xcuse I hear countless times, and it seriously makes me sick. I feel like if a man and another straight man are drinking together, and get drunk he's not gonna go and have sex with da dude. so y use it as an...

Celeste21

Xper 5 Age: 38

Why do guys think lesbians are so hot?

guys seem to think lesbians are so hot, but they can't even date them for very obvious reasons. so why I mean it's so um well I just don't get it!

secretsinseadle95

Xper 5 Age: 45

Do guys like lacy bras on girls?

I don't mean see through ones, just ones with lace like on them.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

As a guy, do you like ballet flats? skinny jeans?

i know its just a preference, but I was just wondering what the majority thought

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it my "turn" to text him now . . . ?

Basically, guy I've been seeing I haven't hung out with in about a month or so cause of exams. busyness etc etc not because of being ignore etc! Anywho I text him last saturday asking was he done his exams etc & that I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

What is the deal with the balls hanging from the back of people's cars/trucks/suvs?

What's the deal with all these guys that have gone out and bought what is supposed to look like a set of balls, which they hang on the back of their cars, trucks or SUVs? I don't get it. It doesn't look cool it just...

ih82w8

Xper 5 Age: 50

Dating

He gave me herpes, now what?

I was happily dating a man I loved very much for over a year when he gave me herpes. He knew he had it (obviously) and actually gave it to at least two other women before me. I felt betrayed, angry, hurt, all of the...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

Any more girls out there that feel this way?

Yes we’re humans, we’re sexual creatures. I recognize that was a weird way to place it but it’s true. But girls! We all sense the feeling of being wanted when a guy feels us up and treats us like we’re the hottest things...

NatalieChristine112

Xper 3 Age: 34

Family & Friends

I'm 18 year old & my parents say I can't date, any advice on how to talk to them?

When my mom was 18 she got pregnant and had my older sister so for years as the youngest of 3 children my parents have delayed me dating because they don't want me to get pregnant (or have sex probably.too late). Of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls-If a guy seemed nervous while asking you out.?

I've seen this girl I find walking around my school. She is not "conventionally" attractive, but I personally find her very attractive. Apparently she lives in my area and I didn't even know. I saw her working as a...

rob117

Xper 3 Age: 38