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She is a decade older than me, your thoughts?
So I met a cute girl and we have a lot in common. But I'm in my mid 20s and she is in her mid 30s, exactly a decade. She want to settle sometime, like me, but she doesn't have pressure to do so. Do you think a thing like...
Anonymous
(30-35) Which is the most valuable natural resource on Earth?
See Poll and please participate.
Wade12345
Xper 7 Age: 45 
Guys, how would you feel if a girl told you that spending time with you was rescuing her from spending time with her mother?
If a girl you were hanging out with told you that spending time with you was rescuing her from otherwise spending time with her mother, would you feel flattered and useful, or would you feel used and not all that special?...
Why do abusers want you to reconfirm what you said?
My long-distance ex boyfriend was a mental abuser. Even over the phone, he sounded intimidating. I was getting fed up and like all abusers, he said the famous phrase (in a cold, menancing tone): ''What'd you just said'?...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is this video real or planned ahead?
I just don’t see how someone especially her age can just forget she has a boyfriend on only medical anesthesia. https://www.youtube.com/embed/LQLJ19JK868
Andrewsmith14
Xper 7 Age: 24 HELLO ! How have y'all been?
Hey I'm Michael. I love playing basketball, listening to music, cooking and scrolling memes. I'm new here. Would love to connect with y'all and know more about this platform.
McGrill
Xper 4 Age: 28 Why do guys chase me after dumping and rejecting me?
I’ve experienced this with a few guys almost nearly every guy I dealt with in a bad way. I had two guys rejected me years to months ago and they are both still curious to know what I’m doing. I’ve been around tons of...
Anonymous
(25-29) Anonymous
(30-35) The gender pay gap is 18% and 10% more working men. To make the pay equal should men be taxed and extra 8% and give the money to working women?
Granted men work longer hours in more difficult jobs and take less time off. However, how is it possible to have equal gender pay if we don't take some money men earn and give that money to working women?
Adaeva
Xper 7 Age: 17 Help? I think I have become mentally ill?
I think I have become mentally ill. I love to drink a lot and I love women's bodies, fist fights, and just saying shit that pops into my head (especially if I think it's funny). There aren't any real mental professionals...
BungusHighFivePizza
Xper 6 Age: 26 LDR Girlfriend won’t treat me right?
I’ve been long distance dating this girl for about 6 months now. Everything was going okay up until about 2 weeks ago. She’s been inconsiderate of my feelings, insensitive, mean to me, and just not paying me much mind or...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do she likes me?
The other day at school i was talking to this girl in the hallways and she smiled at me for about 2-3 seconds while looking at my eyes while i was talking, do she likes me?
Anonymous
(18-24) How can you tell if someone’s lying over text?
Been seeing this guy every once in a while. I asked him if he was busy after I’d got off work. He responded immediately saying he was at the vet. It’s 8pm on a Saturday. Yes, I know there’s 24-hour vets, but my gut is...
Anonymous
(25-29) What does it mean if a guy apologizes for playing with your emotions?
this guy who i had liked before but he didn’t know, like confessed to being in love with me over an anonymous acc and when i figured out it was him i told him i liked him too and we talked for like a week and then i asked...
saturnnn
Xper 4 Age: 22 What happened post-breakup?
Before my relationship, I felt like a nobody and then when I was dating it was like I got more invites to functions and outings. Now, that we're not together, those people just say hi and bye. What happened?
Msnsns
Xper 5 Age: 39 Why don't I tolerate behavior different from mine? I despise those who do not act like me?
There are people who have behavioral problems, they can act impulsively, get into trouble and seem not to understand or care about the consequences of what they do, they are hopeless people, so I catalog them, there may...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why would he do this?
So I had a one night stand with a guy. Never went back but there was some unpleasant news that can do it about him. I ignore him when I’m out because the news is vile mad I will not be very nice if approached. But the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is Spring such a good season for falling in love?
April feels like the perfect time, with all these pink flowers outside. China is really a heaven during Spring.
How to help my cousin?
Hi, my question is how do I help my cousin? My cousin and I are quite close as friends so he will share a lot of his problems with me, recently he has been complaining about his girlfriend and the list is quite long, they...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why don’t white guys or Asian guys ever approach me?
Lol it’s interesting to me that I’ve never been approached by a White or Asian guy. I guess they don’t find me attractive or approachable
Anonymous
(18-24) In your opinion, did this Korean model have too much lip fillers?
Or does she look good?
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Is a rock collecting/tumbling hobby weird/unattractive?
Sense I was a kid I’ve always been fascinated by rocks crystal shells and fossils. Would you find it weird of your friend or partner was so big on collecting stuff like that
pethouse
Xper 7 Age: 26 Does anyone want to turn the clock back X # of years and do things differently?
I feel like from 2011 to now just FLEW by, and I mean I found a way to do okay financially, but other than that, I would turn the clock back to that if I could and make some other choices. Like to me it shouldn't be this...
Anonymous
(36-45) Did I overreact?
The other day me and my now ex got into an argument over me attempting to jokingly flirt with her (she took it as trying to force sexual conversation on to her) but during the argument she proceeded to say in a unjokingly...
Anonymous
(25-29) What do you normally do on the weekends?
Go out for drinks , go out to eat, watch movies, or what?
cth2188
Explorer Age: 38 Do you tan or turn red in the sun?
Let's create some stats shall we
MementoMori777
Guru Age: 25 A couple of months after a breakup I posted a quote (see below). Do you think my ex thought it was about him?
Quote said: If there’s even a slight chance at getting something that will make you happy, risk it. Life’s too short & happiness is too rare. We’d been talking friendly after we broke up on good terms. I don’t think...
Anonymous
(36-45) Racist In-Laws?
My in laws are *generally* nice people. Like... I think they have good intentions. But their racial bias and ignorance is such a sore area in my marriage. I'm part Asian but was born in the US. My in laws basically reduce...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is this just insecurities or could something else be up?
Background info; boyfriend (34) I am 29, we’ve been together for 3 years. Things happened in our first year that has caused me to have some self esteem issues but we’ve since then worked on a lot and I have been learning...
Anonymous
(30-35) Never had a relationship before , one girl asked me for a date , having a hard time what to say?
I am a PhD student in one of the STEM fields. Never had a girlfriend before , have countless bad experience with girls. From bulling to make fun in front of everyone after inviting to house party and more terrible. I am...
Anonymous
(30-35) Have you ever fallen for a married person?
If so, was it reciprocated? How did it end up?
Anonymous
(36-45) Why is the internet filled with people who are bold online but are not in real life?
there are many people who are openly bigoted online who are homophobic, racist and transphobic but in rral life they would never dare repeat what they say online in their jobs and in in front of their friends. Why don't...
Anonymous
(30-35) Since when do people get to decide how I troll?
Here we go again. The so-called good boys and girls being hateful and abusive. #trolllivesmatter
bean2k21
Guru Age: 46 Why do some men hate the friendship zone?
Some women may not want a relationship, have other obligations that prevent them from being ready , maybe going through a break up, etc
cth2188
Explorer Age: 38 Did I experience a paranormal activity?
Last night I went to sleep around 2am and I got woken up exactly at 3am with a loud noise. At first I stayed in bed and check my surroundings and nothing had fallen then something told me to check the floor and notice 2...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls? Would you date a guy who is a writer?
Would you ever date a guy who is a writer? Even if he just does it as a hobby. I've been writing novels and short stories for years, but it dawned on me, none of the girls ever asked to see my work. What do you think...
In what ways is their gender equality and in what ways is their not gender equality?
Gender equality is about ensuring that every individual has an equal opportunity to make the most of their lives and talents. Is it fair that I would not feel safe, if I walked alone late at night in a deserted...
Adaeva
Xper 7 Age: 17 What is a first love?
I don't really understand what it is. Can you have a first love without being in a relationship? I had a huge crush on a guy when I was 13. He was 17 at the time. I would talk to him everyday for hours, and I thought...
Anonymous
(18-24) Has anyone read any books or audible books that helped them get smarter and grow more?
any recommdations of books that you found really helped you get smarter, mature more and basically become a better verison of yourself?
DellBell
Xper 6 Age: 32 How do I get over my ex?
I broke up with my now ex boyfriend around 4 years go. Whenever I see a post from his friends social media, as I blocked him, I think back to our memories that we had together. I don’t know why but I do still care about...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does this mean I'm not ready for marriage? Please help?
I will keep this as short as I can. I met this guy two months ago. Usually, I'm very slow to get feelings for someone, but right away, I felt like he was the one. Maybe I'm too excited to get married. PS I'm also...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
Has anyone ever threatened to leak your nudes/naughty videos?
story time 🫶 In high school, I was hooking up with this “straight” dude. I found out that he had a girlfriend. So I told him that I wasn’t interested in continuing anything with him. He blackmailed me and sent me...
Why is my (male) cousin jealous of my Boyfriend?
he's my cousin, and I've been dating my Boyfriend for 3weeks. A Week Later He Told Me He was Jealous Of Me and My Boyfriend Being Together and He wants me To be With Him <-- (my cousin) what is going on...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did he smirk I’m soo embarrassed?
So today i saw the guy I really like, it was the first time we had seen each other up close. I tried to stare into his eyes to see how he would react. He looked at me back and away a few times but kept on looking back at...
Anonymous
(18-24) When women flip between idealizing a guy and acting like he's dead to her, is the guy normally high or low value?
If a girl acts like a guy is absolutely wooooonderful, but when he tries to get close she pushes him away and acts like he's dead to her, is it usually because she idealizes him and undervalues herself?
Anonymous
(30-35) 