Cheater cheater what do you think?

[Anonymous]

I think my husband is cheating on me what do you think

We have this coworker who ill call Jolene he's been mentioning her name more and more often and is hanging out with her a bit don't get me wrong I was invited to all of it as well. They also spent time playing video games and such in his hotel room when he was on a business trip. She painted his finger nails and he's been pushing for me to be friends with her.

I passed by him while he was texting her and seen the message he sent said

" Good morning beautiful"

So I feel like he's most likely cheating on me but what do you think?

[Anonymous]

I was skeptical up until the good morning text, there’s no reason for him to be sending that to another woman.
I don’t wanna accuse him of cheating because that may not be the case and you can’t address it without proof. But I do think it’s a good opportunity to discuss what’s appropriate and what’s not. Like she’s your coworker, it’s ok for him to be cool with her and even don’t mind if there’s a much more casual text here and there. But good morning beautiful? That’s definitely crossing the line and he shouldn’t be doing it.

[Leapfrog00]

You could always ask him. I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet. Not saying nothing is going on, but these situations have to be handled delicately. The last thing you want is to come out sounding jealous, not that you wouldn't have a reason to be if it were true.

From my experience with cheaters, they wouldn't even have me meet the others they were cheating on me with, so that might be a good sign if he's inviting you to hang out with them.

A lot of times, people need friends outside the relationship because being around someone 24/7 in a relationship can damage it.

I'd say, ask him in not so many words, so you don't sound obvious but still want the truth. Try saying something along the lines of, "I've been cheated on before we were married and I'm just curious, have you ever thought about cheating on me?" and make sure you include, "Be honest with me."
I hope this helped.

[Asker]

Hey do you mind if I DM you because I'd like to tell you why that wouldn't be the best plan but also don't want other people who know me in real life to figure it out

[Leapfrog00]

yeah, it's OK, I understand. Something tells me there's more to it.

[Asker]

K I fallowed you

[Leapfrog00]

Ok, cool, DM if you'd like

[Asker]

Well it kinda won't let me until you fallow back you have your account on private 😹

[Leapfrog00]

oh, I'm sorry, I didn't even know that. I'll take care of it.

[lorenzomichael]

You need to get with Joni and say "Hey Bitch you need to stay away from my man or I'm going to put my foot in your ass. And tell your man not to disrespect you while being alone or in front of anyone in the fucking world. But let this be a lesson to you. You shouldn't be working together. Unless you two own the company, if so fire Joni's ass..

[Asker]

We work in complete different sections he works in clothing and I work in the bakery

[lorenzomichael]

Oh I see. However you said "that you guys have this coworker" So I assumed you guys worked together, I'm sorry. Go back and read what you wrote.

[lorenzomichael]

We're do you two work? If you don't mind me asking.

[Asker]

Well we do kinda we all work at large store so it's all the same building she is just in his section of the store more than mine

[Sparkie460]

The " good morning beautiful " text made me think he was cheating but him wanting you to join them so you can get to know her throws me off. Maybe you should try talking to him and ask him what's going on between them

[exitseven]

maybe. you need to get a PI and have him followed. If he can get some pix you can kick him the the curb and tske him to the cleaners.

[Twalli]

Try to become friends. On the off chance that he is cheating, that won't happen.

[Anonymous]

That certainly sounds suspicious, but you need more proof.

[mommymommymommy]

Always trust your gut

[Anonymous]

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