Am I being manipulated?

Question

me and my situationship got into an argument today.
he basically was entertaining other women on Instagram, while telling me he wants me to wait for him and how important I am to him and stuff like that. I got mad and said something to him, but now the problem is no longer an issue I have, he's trying to tell me it's over because of how I went about having an issue, instead of the actual issue, which never got solved. he's ignoring me now and he won't listen to my actual problems.
did I really make a mistake? Because I don't feel like I did, or am I being manipulated into not being listened to?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It seems like you and your situationship had a bit of a barney because he was mucking about with other girls on Instagram while still telling you that you're important to him. Now he's giving you the cold shoulder and not listening to what you're saying.

It's not on for him to ignore your feelings and put his own actions first. You deserve someone who will listen to you and respect your emotions. Take some time to think about what you want from the relationship and tell him straight. If he's not willing to meet your needs, it might be time to pack it in. Remember that you deserve to be treated with kindness and respect.

Tyrael · Accepted Answer

If you flipped out at him and handled the situation badly then that's on you and he's well within his rights to end it.

Also this whole scenario could have been avoided if people would stop with this "situationship" rubbish. Either lock it down or don't, and if you don't then he's not beholden to you.