All Questions

Guys, Would you date a chubby girl if she is losing weight?

i'm not saying curvy because i have seen guys on here saying "curvy means fat" so i'm saying chubby. So would you date a chubby girl who is trying really hard to lose weight so she gets thinner? Like for example i'm a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are wide shoulders on a girl a deal breaker?

I've always been very self concious about it. I used to tell myself people wouldn't really notice it, but they do because occasionally someone says something like "You have very wide shoulders, do you swim?". I don't by...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Guys, How should I text my crush telling him happy birthday?

I want to add a flirtatious twist but dont want to come off as desperate or thirsty

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I get so nervous around my crush?

Why? I blush a lot, my body feels unstable (like my legs can't hold me), I seem to forget what I'm doing or saying around him. My stomach turns into a butterfly breeding ground and I just feel... like I'm going completely...

-dani-

Xper 5 Age: 29

Wandering hands when spooning?

so me and my best female friend often stay at eachothers houses after nights out and spoon. Last night she stayed over we were spooning, I was really drunk and so my hands went wandering abit, I gently rubbed her inner...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I be concerned that my husband's Facebook status still says "Interested in Women" after over a year of marriage and 4 years in a relationship?

My husband claims he hardly uses Facebook. Since being married we both said that we would delete our accounts. Out of curiosity I looked one day to see if his account was active again and sure enough it was and still is....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

My boyfriend is leaving to go to a boarding school and still wants to be togther. But inside I believe long distance doesn't work. What to do?

Coming back every holiday an every month

Khalifa100

Xper 4 Age: 24

Why does he keep bumping into me?

so i have a mazor crush on a guy and i don't really know if he likes me back because he have never talked before. He is 2 years older than me so yeah... But we keep bumping into each other and it's obvious he does that on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is 19 too young to have a bf?

My whole family sees me as innocent and pure, but little did they know, I've been in a relationship and have made out a few times. I'm still a virgin though, and I want to stay one for as long as I can. The thing is, I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

I want my girlfriend to be fit and look like this?

I already work out in the gym several times a week. My GF is a few punds extra so I want to encourage her to excersise and show her this photo so she can make it her goal to look like that. What I`m asking is it fair...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is a girl being artistic/creative a turn on?

I love guys who are artistic or creative. It's such a turn on! I'm an artist though, so I guess it makes sense. Guys, do you find this quality attractive in women, even if you aren't particularly artistic?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Why do Finnish people often dye their hair black?

Why do Finnish people often dye their hair black? I know most of them have light brown or blonder hair color... Is it a cultural thing? Does it have anything to do with their music culture? Is it for the sake of fashion?

LittleSally

Influencer Age: 37

True or not true? Do women dislike blonde men?

So I am a 19 year old guy who happens to be blonde (a regular tone however, not that color that's almost white) ( good straight hair), I am German and have been told that I look very Scandinavian and have rather fair...

DanHart

Explorer Age: 30

How does a shy guy react when offended?

This shy guy clearly likes me but has problems making a move so i made it easy for him by inviting him to a dance lesson that i was taking since he already came by the other day to check it out. He didn't come in but was...

Cruch101

Xper 5 Age: 38

Do you think that hair extensions are a waste of money? How can I go around this?

My mom thinks that hair extensions are a waste of money because I can just grow my hair out. But it will take at least 2 years for my hair to reach below my breasts. Right now my hair is at my shoulder blade and it was at...

SakuraChii

Yoda Age: 27

A woman that can be bought... isn't worth having?

do you agree?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is this guy so quiet around me? What he may be thinking of me?

So I've been liking this guy for about a month I guess. When I stared at him, he stared back and immediately looked down. He's also very quiet around me. Like if a teacher asks him questions, he would reply with brief...

Shannonashley

Xper 4 Age: 31

If a guy calls you "hun" through text, is it something deeper, or just him being himself?

We have been texting everyday for about 8 weeks on and off now. But these past 3-4 weeks we have been texting on the daily. He lives in Virginia because he is in the navy, and i live in California. we both have known each...

alyx_no

Xper 4 Age: 40

Other

Why do people project their insecurities onto others?

"We hate in others the things we hate most about ourselves" Do you agree?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, when you send a "I hope you're ok" text, do you expect an answer?

If you ask someone, more specifically a guy, " I hope you're ok" ... Do you expect to get an answer?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does anyone else feel guilty after making out with someone?

I'm 22 and I've been single for a few months now. A friend of a friend who I found cute started dancing with me at a party and we ended up making out. Even though I'm single, and I should be able to do whatever I want, I...

Babaorom1

Xper 6 Age: 33

What does it mean when a girl blows you a kiss in text message?

I have been friends with this girl for 2 years. We have suddenly become very close and started going to the movies together and going out to dinner together. She has started calling me lovely and sends me x's at the end...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My crush messaged me first out of the blue but is taking a long time to reply?

So she rarely messages me first but she finally did it today since I've stopped messaging her for the past few days. However, she is taking quite a long time to reply to my message and it's been almost two hours since I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, would you date someone without an instagram and/or a snapchat?

I know that sometimes when social media is important to a person that social media also might be a part of a relationship with that person. If a guy doesn't have a snapchat or instagram, would that affect whether or not...

introvertedboy

Xper 5 Age: 26

Other

If you could meet anyone in history, who would it be?

And why? Let's talk about it. :D

usernameismyusername

Xper 6 Age: 32

Do guys still like us fit girls?

Seems like all the focus is on big butts and big titts. Do guys still like us fit girls? We're tones, but we're rarely curvy.

Anonymous

(30-35)

A cute girl likes me, but I don't know how to take it. Never had a cute single girl with no kids contact me before. Should I take the risk?

Got this girl that's been messaging me and wanting to "get to know" me. Keep in mind I've been single for six years, so I've been out of the dating scene for a while. I've just been doing my own thing and minding my own...

Waterhorseslayer

Xper 4 Age: 46

I am depressed and on omegle everyday?

So I feel depressed and I am on omegle everyday. Does this mean I am lonely? Or could it be something else?

Anonymous

(30-35)

This girl wants to fight me?

I've been having problems with this girl at my school since about November of this year. I just need some advice. I'll try to make this as short as possible. So basically I started dating this guy in October and we are...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Intelligent BUT Short Guy vs Stupid BUT Tall Guy?

Who wins?

Anonymous

(30-35)