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My boyfriend is going into th national guard and I need advise please help!!!?

My boyfriend thinks that he needs to join the national guard to make a difference and thats ok with me im ok with that... im really not and he knows it but i won't let it stop him and I don't know how to handle it i know...

justdoitgirl

Xper 5 Age: 27

Guys Opinion on Butts?

Why are guys so obsessed with girls have a "good" or big butt? Just want to understand better!

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my boyfriend poke me?

He looks at me for a bit then just pokes me. Like my thighs and belly.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have you ever dined and dashed before?

Was it an exhilarating experience?

Itaintrocketscience

Xper 4 Age: 34

Is anyone actually turned on by intelligence?

This is called sapoisexual? Is anyone actually sexually aroused by someone who knows a bunch of facts?

farmerjohn1324

Xper 5 Age: 39

Is "hurry down the chimney tonight" in the song Santa Baby innuendo?

know it's a pretty crappy song and this really doesn't matter... but is she asking the jolly, jello-bellied old man that brightened so many a young person's imagination to hurry down her chimney or her?

Lil_Miss_Lola

Xper 3 Age: 29

Why can't he make eye contact?

I can sit a seat away, i can sit right next to him, we have have the funniest greatest conversation but he struggles to look at me! He looks down or straight ahead when we talk. He only does this with me too! Anyone else...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When you see your crush flirting with someone else?

How do you feel when you see the person you like flirting with somebody else? https://i61.tinypic.com/wbca3n.jpg

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Is sharing food and drinks flirting? What about fork or hand feeding someone? What if you both eat or drink each other's stuff without asking?

my friend and I share food or drinks every day. We don't need to ask and have no problems putting stuff in our mouths that was in the other's mouth. He picks food right off my plate and I bite off stuff he's eaten. He's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would ex post love song for me to see?

My ex bf broke up with me 2 months ago saying he didn't want a relationship and that he needed some time on his own. I accepted it and didn't contact him at all. Anyway, fast forward 5-6 weeks and he texts me asking me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: do you guys care about thigh gaps?

do guys care about how a girl looks if she is a little chubby? like not obese but has like a little bit of a round stomach, and do they care if you don't have a thigh gap? please explain

Ilikepineapples

Xper 5 Age: 24

Is it common for girls to bully guys?

Found this story on the net. I wanted to get a girls take on how common this sort of thing might be. "The office I work at were having a picnic in the park and one of the woman, around 5'11 and on the heavy side, started...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My gf talks to me so rudely?

Hey.. My girf is very sweet.. She loves me more than anyone elz.. To her m her everytn.. Bt smtyms even fo my smallest mistakes she shouts at me so bad.. She spills out such breaking down words..:( i donno hw to mak her...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If you've flushed your underwear/socks/slippers down the toilet is it possible to retrieve them back? If yes how? Have you ever done it?

I flushed down the toilet one pair of socks of mine just out of curiosity LOL I wonder where do they go after the fushing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is the stereotype true that Latinas are crazy?

Yes, I know entire populations of people can't be generalized or stereotyped like this. But I just see so many people saying that Latinas are amazing women... but that they're also a bit psycho as well. Is there any...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend chooses his family over me?

We are together fo almost two years. I do not know if I am only asking for too much of his time or if he really chooses his family over me. - he always wanted me to be in their house during weekends. I spent whole...

Krieszta

Xper 5 Age: 35

Is this guy a presumptuous a-hole?

Went to dinner with a guy... he took a cherry stem and said "amazing things I can do with my tongue." He'd only pay if I told him it was a date. He wanted to give me a ride home and I said no... then I couldn't talk him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Rate my profile picture out of 10?

I wanna know what you guys and girls think of how i look.

KafJ1996

Xper 5 Age: 29

My boyfriend rated me a 7/10 and rated an actress a 9/10. Is this good or bad?

Is he just too honest or am i overlooking it

NovaOsha

Xper 4 Age: 29

Is it true that if a guy is ignoring you, then he is just not that into you or that they are talking to other girls?

There are times when I will be talking to this guy every singled day. He would text me like clockwork asking what I was up to or what i was doing. Then all of a sudden he would just stop. That led me to believe that he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys flirt with ugly girls?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do girls like sarcastic boys?

Well, do they? I mean I feel like a sarcastic person and surrounding people admit it. I'm asking that is it a negative point? I mean not being sarcastic in dumber way, sarcasm of a better class! ( If someone tells you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are Asian girls so giggly?

Ok NO RACISM INTENDED I actually am Into Asian girls, but their giggling sometimes makes me wanna burst out of cuteness. And no I ain't into guys aswell. It's just this thing that always attracted me to them so damn much....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Outgoing guy acts shy around me?

This guy who is NOT shy, always acts shy around me. He's so outgoing and isn't afraid to give his opinion. LOUD would be the word to describe him. Whenever he's around me, he's really shy and almost nervous. He looks at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should prostitution be legalized for the Autism Spectrum?

Since it's proven impossible for Autistic males to get a girlfriend because the world worships social skills. P. S. I will never grow up.

Foreverlonely

Xper 5 Age: 32

Why do guys touch their girls?

One of guy who is at the same university with me and interested in me told me that "I like kissing my girl all the time, that's normal. Also i like touching, physical control is important." What the hell is it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Crossdressing! - How to make my hair look short?

I'm a girl, and I crossdress as a guy sometimes when I get bored. I wouldn't necessarily define myself as being transgender or genderfluid, I usually just do it for a bit of harmless fun. Anyway, I have long hair that I...

WhereInTheWorldAmI

Xper 5 Age: 26

My boyfriend spites me when we get into arguements. How come? Is he needing to mature a little bit?

He spites me when we get into arguements. He will do things that he knows hurts me, to feel in control, to feel superior. I do not do that to him, and if I do, it is not intentional, ans I tell him sorry. But his actions,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is she too nervous to hang out with me, or just playing me to get attention?

We met a couple months back & went out with some of her friends a couple weeks later. Second date went really well, definitely sensed shyness & nervousness in her, but we opened up to eachother & found we have a ton in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Sex in a car anyone at all?

How many of you have had sex in a car or want too? Care to share any good or bad experiences?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Most intimidating height for a guy?

What height do you think is the most physically imposing?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do women act around their crush?

I've always been interested in the behavior of women. Do you tense up and become shy, do you become more sociable, what goes on in your head. For most guys, we can't even tell. You guys are so good at providing us no...

dudeforchicks

Xper 5 Age: 34

He hasn't texted me after hookup, what did I do?

I met this guy at a private party on Friday . I realized that he wanted to get with me because he kept staring at me and always standing near me. He kept doing that until I talked to him. He was a very nice and funny...

rubiiistone

Xper 4 Age: 31

Society & Politics

Girls who is your lady crush? Guys who is your Bromance?

It could be anyone celebrity, friend, acquaintance, cartoon character, who are you obsessed with?

PiuBelloAmante

Yoda Age: 30

Break Up & Divorce

Is my ex-boyfriend stringing me along or is he just a total mess who doesn't know what he wants?

My ex-boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. The break up was mutual (or as mutual as it could've been (, we broke up because our value systems were entirely opposite and although I wanted to work through it, he told...

champagnesforcelebra

Xper 5 Age: 34

Are guys afraid to admit their feelings for women?

Are guys afraid to admit their feelings for women? Or is that just a movie device? I mean, if a girl gives him a lot of encouragement, why should he be afraid?

Anonymous

(36-45)

If he cums inside me and knows I'm not on birth control does he secretly want a baby?

My boyfriend knows I'm not on birth control and during sex he often cums inside me, we are almost 30, but after says we need to be careful. Does he secretly want kids with me? He tells me he wants to spend the rest of his...

Anonymous

(36-45)