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Sexual/Demisexual Relationship, and how to approach it?

So I recently began a relationship with a demisexual girl, and am really interested in her, though am a sexual male myself. Do any of you have experience with this kind of relationship? For those who don't know,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How does neck kissing feel good to guys?

My boyfriend told me he really enjoys kissing my neck. It feels pretty amazing for me, but I don't see how if would be enjoyable for him?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 27?

I know it's not legal But I really don't know. Im turning 15 in 5 months, and he's turning 28 in 7 months. I know this is bad and stuff, but I can't help that I like him. He says I look a bit older like I'm in my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

GIRLS: What are some reasons you may pretend to ignore your crush?

Today I was walking with my friends behind this girl I like who was walking with her friends. She used to always notice me and wave hi or something like that and we'd always glance. Now we aren't glancing as much anymore...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why is my girlfriend with me if she's not physically attracted to me?

My girlfriend of 6 years always says that im handsome and sexy TO HER. what does this mean? every time I ask her what does she think about my looks she always say "i think your sexy and handsome to me". how can she want a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my boyfriend stare at my leg? Guys is this normal?

Why does my boyfriend start to take deep heavy breathes. He'll spread his legs wider and put one arm between them. Then he'll get fidgety and touchy. He especially touches my legs, and he just like stares at my legs...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How much does weight matter? This is a question mostly for guys.

This is a question mostly for guys. How much does the weight of a girl matter to you. How do you prefer them " skinny" " fat" " thick" "curvy" .

StephMB

Xper 5 Age: 26

Guys what does it mean when a guy "high fives" you?

This guy at my job regularly says hi to me. But he often times does it in a silly way not like "hi" but in a way that makes me smile. And when we cross paths while going about our business he'll high five me. Another...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this girl testing me or fobbing me off?

We work together and are Friends and she is very friendly to everyone. Some days she can be flirty and talkative with me. However some days she'll hardly acknowledge me and conversation becomes difficult. She now keeps...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do white/european guys not like me?

Now before I hear people saying stuff like "why do you want a white guy so much you need to go for other guys as well" etc. let me say this. My family has immigrated from the middle east into a scandinavian country and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

Girls, how do I show off my abs>?

i want to show off about my abs, but it would not be a nice idea to go cocky about it.. so, how do i let girls know about my abs? especially my crush?

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean if my crush played a song on the piano, and it symbolizes me?

So I was in the chorus room during a concert last week. And I LOVE PLAYING PIANO! It's my ultimate passion! And as I was playing for a while, my crush comes up next to me and watches me play for a couple minutes. Then he...

katnisseverdeen

Xper 3 Age: 26

Guys what do you consider chubby and what do you consider really skinny?

I always hear guys don't like chubby, but then I see guys whith chubby girls. which got me thinking what do guys consider skinny and what do they consider chubby? post a pic please because that would give a great visual....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he only hug me for a goodbye?

So I recently started hooking up with this guy - right now we are in kind of "grey zone" where it is really unclear where it's going (nor I'm sure what I want from it) even though he said he likes me, we haven't really...

natalieblue7

Xper 5 Age: 31

Family & Friends

Why would my "friend" constantly try to sabotage me?

I never really have that much success with men because I am shy and in the past I was kind of overweight and not that attractive. She knows about my failure rate with men. She used to try to help me meet men. Ever since...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, are any of you strong enough to lift and carry me?

I am 5'9 and 130 lbs By 'lift and carry' I mean cradle lift, front lift or fireman carry. Not piggyback (too easy) Please list your height, age, weight and for how long you can do it.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My boyfriend seems careless about our relationship, he still says he loves me but I am unsure?

I will start with the important details. I am 26, my boyfriend is 22. We met online and were long distance for a while and then moved in with each other 4 months ago and have been together 14 months now. I guess the usual...

pandah

Xper 6 Age: 38

Girls (aged about 14-17), what's your opinion if you're sitting on a guys lap and he gets a boner?

I've been stopping it from happening with my girlfriend and I'm not sure if she'll like it if I let it happen.

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to ask a cute guy stranger for his number without sounding creepy?

so im going to the mall with my friend to find cute guys for our life, and I was wondering how I could approach them and talk to them without sounding like a total freak... help? I would like a guys opinion best but...

Ilikepineapples

Xper 5 Age: 24

Guys- if you think a girl is a 'total babe' does that mean 1.) you are attracted to her OR 2.) just think she is attractive?

Or does it mean that you think she is attractive but you might not necessarily be attracted to her? I mean whenever my girl friends or I say we think a guy is hot, we are usually attracted to him- so just wanted to see if...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Confusing German guy... German style or just not that into me?

So A guy at work I have become friends with seems to be very attracted to me and I like him to. He's pretty shy and can be very nervous around me. I asked him on a date to the zoo and he said yes and seemed pretty...

seaside

Xper 5 Age: 41

Relationships

If your girlfriend ruined your favourite shirt, (if your boyfriend ruined your favourite dress) how would you react?

My friend just called me upset, because her fiance just did the laundry for her lol and her favourite sweater dress shrunk into kids' dress size lol she was like furious mad hahaha lol but I think it is still sweet that...

mei0313

Explorer Age: 38

When a guy stands or sits really close to a girl in public, would it mean that he is attracted to her?

I sometimes notice guys sitting/standing really close to me in the public (on the bus, in the subway, etc.) when the bus/subway is otherwise vacant. They would also look my way whenever I make simple movements (such as...

ccara64

Xper 5 Age: 33

Guys standing with legs apart?

Why do guys stand with the legs wide wide apart when they look at a girl.

monica23

Xper 2 Age: 35

Auto - Rejection and experience?

Has anyone experienced this and if they got out of it how? I sort of got into it (one of my other questions related to a girl I met in a mall will explain in detail) and I see in school. Is there anything I can do? Here...

Mysterio421

Xper 7 Age: 31

How to tell a nice guy that he's not my type?

I've been trying online dating mostly to hook up, so this is my problem I saw this handsome white guy's profile and he "looked hot" but when we met up he was too fat!!! And I mean too fat 220lbs of fat not muscle!! and I...

Ersacol28

Guru Age: 40

Does anyone else hate listening to heartbeats?

Okay so it absolutely grosses me out when I hear mine or someone else's heartbeat. If I'm laying on someone's chest I must have a pillow or something In between. I also don't like it if I'm laying down & can feel/hear my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm skinny, but heavy?

I'm skinny, but I'm heavy and I play tennis and soccer. I'm 60 1/2 inches, but how can I be heavy? My friends say it's muscle, but I still don't know. What is going on?

sammy214

Xper 5 Age: 25

He French-kissed me on the first date?

The guy i went out with has been flirting with me for a month or two and asked me out a couple times and i finally agreed to go out with him. At the end of the date he asked me to kiss him but I hesitated and told him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he stare into my eyes with a straight face?

So this guy and me sometimes make eye contact. And he doesn't talk to me unless I say something first. And he usually stutters or ends up saying "damn" because he messes up. But since we talk why doesn't he say hi...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

What so good about latinas?

I think there too overrated. And I hate when people say white girls are plain but Latina women look white. White skin straight hair. Brazilians looks white Puerto ricans, Argentinians etc. So why do men lust over them so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy keeps calling you his good luck charm?

I was hanging out with a guy friend a couple of days ago and we were with a group of friends, but separated from the group and played arcade games and he kept calling me this.

existing_not_living

Guru Age: 30

Other

What's the most embarrassing thing to happen to you?

Mine was I got a wet willy by this girl who sat beside me in highschool and she did it when another girl I liked was looking and she laughed at me. Then both girls took turns giving me wedgies after school... i think ill...

Funnycoolnerdy

Xper 5 Age: 37

My boyfriend is afraid of arguing?

he grew up with a lot of arguing in his home, and when it comes to disagreements or times where he feels there might be, he shuts down or filters himself. he won't express himself, if i do something that pissed him off or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can you get addicted to being warm?

My GF sleeps in thermal underwear and tall socks, and when she wakes up she puts on a hoodie and sweat pants and another pair of socks. Our apartment is definitely warm. The problem is now she feels cold all the time if...

SteveSocFootBase

Xper 7 Age: 38

Guys: what's your preferred body type on a girl?

Curvy-ish? Tall? Petite? Short? Hourglass?

insanelyme

Xper 5 Age: 25

Her profile says oops the profile your looking for is not available?

Was talking to this girl on match and we where planning on meeting up, never got a message back from her saying where. When on match and I can see her from are past emails and when she liked my pictures. But when I click...

jshiloh25

Xper 5 Age: 36

My boyfriend thinks I'm a kid? or that I dont act like an adult. he's 22 and im 19?

our age difference isn't by much, but i guess our lifestyles are. I'm still studying, and he's already done studying and got a really good job and lives on his own. even tho we love each other i think our age difference...

Anonymous

(30-35)