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Here is why (most) men never get over a break up! (Page 2)

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  • HandsomeRaj
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    Guru Age: 55
    +1 y

    VERY CORRECT there but again the 'man up' part has it's own reasons but that's another topic.

    I'd still say that there should be support but judicious :) - there are reasons for that again :)

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  • ShayanMortazavi
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    Xper 5 Age: 28
    +1 y

    Not true. I get over break ups really quick considering that there's over 3.5 billion girls in the world. So why should I waste my time on her. My exes are irrelevant to me.

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    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      this doesn't revolve around you.

      Reply
    • ShayanMortazavi
      ShayanMortazavi
      +1 y

      You're dumb

      Reply
    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      #butthurt

      Reply
    • ShayanMortazavi
      ShayanMortazavi
      +1 y

      You're probably the only guy that doesn't get over break ups

      Reply
    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      #superbutthurt

      Reply
    • thisGUYknows
      thisGUYknows
      +1 y

      You're 17. I find your answer hard to believe

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    • cinderelli
      cinderelli
      +1 y

      @thisGUYknows haha.. 😂😂 longest relationship he ever had would be one with his hand.. so immature..

      Reply
    • Awesome93
      Awesome93
      +1 y

      Obviously by relationships they don't mean fling or a high school bs. They refer to a REAL relationship where both parties invest a lot emotionally, physically and mentally. You're 17 bro. Come tell me this in 13 years 😏
      @cinderelli LMAO! That cracked me up 😂

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    • cinderelli
      cinderelli
      +1 y

      @Awesome93 i am glad it did,... LOL.. 😂😂😂 he totally failed at trying to be cool..

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    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      >:) @Cinderelli stealin my thunder

      Reply
    • ShayanMortazavi
      ShayanMortazavi
      +1 y

      @Awesome93 High School and college relationships are real relationships

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    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      highschool relationships don't last for more than 6 months, too immature to do anything about it really. Just because you had a play-date and waxed off with righty doesn't mean you know what a break up is. College relationships can be serious.

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    • ShayanMortazavi
      ShayanMortazavi
      +1 y

      @cinderelli I'm Christian, I don't masturbate

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    • ShayanMortazavi
      ShayanMortazavi
      +1 y

      Atheists are some of the most annoying people on the planet

      Reply
    • ShayanMortazavi
      ShayanMortazavi
      +1 y

      If you're a Christian guy and you get all emotional over break ups, then you need to grow some testicles

      Reply
    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      Lol the whole thing about religion is something I can rail against you in another post this post is about how most men have difficulty getting over a break up. And what everyone is telling you is that your balls have not dropped yet nor meaning you are still a boy. end.

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    • Awesome93
      Awesome93
      +1 y

      @ShayanMortazavi HS relationships aren't real relationships. Of course when you're in HS and in a relationship, you'd think it is real because you're experiencing it at that moment. But there's a reason it's called puppy love. Not saying that HS relationships can't morph into a real REAL relationship, further down the road, because it can.

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    • cinderelli
      cinderelli
      +1 y

      Lol.. 😂😂 @OrdinaryGentleman now he is bringing religion in.. 😁

      Reply
    • ShayanMortazavi
      ShayanMortazavi
      +1 y

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQYob6dpTTk Here is a message for you all

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    • ShayanMortazavi
      ShayanMortazavi
      +1 y

      @OrdinaryGentleman Go ahead, rail the religion thing against me then

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    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      Oh cool your lover joined in. That is actually just how I imagined you bahaha dude just stop talking you are hurting your-self... since you are entertaining I will play along https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBGWtVOKTkM

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    • ShayanMortazavi
      ShayanMortazavi
      +1 y

      https://vocaroo.com/i/s1CiK7bX4Xyn

      Filler

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    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      I am touched you would go through all that trouble for me... but seriously your comebacks suck they aren't even original, you are just angry because you come up short between the legs. Anyways kiddo, nice chattin, us adults have to work and do things with our lives, just order a pizza and cry into your tampons. #butthurt

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    • ShayanMortazavi
      ShayanMortazavi
      +1 y

      Your dumb @ordinarygentlemen

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    • ShayanMortazavi
      ShayanMortazavi
      +1 y

      Whoa just take it easy man

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    • ShayanMortazavi
      ShayanMortazavi
      +1 y

      https://youtu.be/-0I1sdMLFCg

      Filler

      Reply
    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      Bait you're*

      Reply
  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    Agree here, men are not able to express themselves emotionally and becomes built up. I think this pretty much sums it all up.

    Sure, some guys move on if they are not into the girl as much, but if they do, I certainly think this holds true.

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  • AleDeEurope
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    Master Age: 30
    +1 y

    Fortunately I've been the one to break up in all my relationships xD

    But that makes sense, when you have no support from anyone, it's normal and logical that you'll never get over that breakup.

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  • Nathand
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    Explorer Age: 36
    +1 y

    guy put 100% into relationship. Girl don't like it so she break up.

    guy has big plans for future then she come and destory's it. If you cared then not getting over it means that girl meant something.

    girl make man life bad. it not fair.

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    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      You extraterrestrials make bad choices in girls... try dating women

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    • Nathand
      Nathand
      +1 y

      women and girl are 1 in the same.

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    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      No you see, girls are childish and women are mature.

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    • Nathand
      Nathand
      +1 y

      women do childish, reckless things all the time just like girls do.

      it becomes hard to separate them from each other

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    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      Makes no sense.

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    • Nathand
      Nathand
      +1 y

      how?

      women do things just like girl. girls are spoiled, cry and fight. Women do the same.

      they are one in the same, just different words.

      Reply
    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      Nope... girls do that shit, women act mature... why would you have two words with the exact same meaning... that doesn't make sense.

      Reply
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (36-45)
    +1 y

    Is this also the reason why a lot of men jump straight into a new relationship after a break up , while most women are locked in their room crying into their pillow?

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (36-45)
    +1 y

    I definitely agree with this take.

    I know some men are able to shake it off and move on.
    But it makes sense why some men have a harder time doing so, it's because they usually have no support system.
    This makes a lot of sense.

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    • syrick
      syrick
      +1 y

      It depends on the relationship. I have some girls who think I was taking it seriously when I wasn't. If I'm not attached then I won't feel much, but if I'm invested I'll be devastated.

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      Yea , attachment reasons make sense. But I'm sure this take us assuming the guy has a fair amount of feelings for the girl.

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      *is assuming

      Reply
  • larry69
    larry69 Follow
    Guru Age: 56
    +1 y

    Exactly men need to just realize that women can vent and men need to hold it in. I still have not gotten over my ex from 6 years ago. Nobody wants to hear I from me.

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    • xHeyUx
      xHeyUx
      +1 y

      My experience was similar, no one wanted to hear about he breakup. For me it was divorce, and I think people (primarily married couples) were afraid it would rub off on them. I learned who I could talk to eventually, and am gratefully I worked through it quickly (about a year "quickly"). I hope you are able to work through things and see that they can be much better. I sure didn't believe that going in, but it has beenh experience so far. In fact, id say now that the breakup was possibly one of the best things that ever happened.

      Reply
  • Chuhiya
    Chuhiya Follow
    Xper 6 Age: 34
    +1 y

    My ex got over the breakup by whoring around. I don't think that this is even 1% true.

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    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      So... your ex is every guy? #generalization299 @justBanANNas

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    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      @justbanANNAz is it generalization299?

      Reply
    • justbanANNAz
      justbanANNAz
      +1 y

      i wouldn't count it as one. plus I'm still looking of #237 lmao

      Reply
    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      @justbanANNAz how is it not one?

      Reply
    • justbanANNAz
      justbanANNAz
      +1 y

      she's talking about how it isn't true for her. she could be going through that phase of hurt which makes her lose faith in most guys. it's pretty normal. I don't know if you'll understand.

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    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      Is it from a way she feels? but I am not making the connection it isn't all guys who are like this..

      Reply
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (36-45)
    +1 y

    do you want to never be left alone? here is the ultimate gentleman's guide. www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22222-how-to-not-approach-girls

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    For some reason I have problems beliving this..

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    • OrdinaryGentleman
      OrdinaryGentleman
      +1 y

      Well then thats on you and not my problem.

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      I know. . I never said it was your problem, dude

      Reply
    • ShayanMortazavi
      ShayanMortazavi
      +1 y

      That's what the government wants you to think

      Reply
  • John_Doesnt
    John_Doesnt Follow
    Master Age: 35
    +1 y

    Learn to move on and be a man about break-ups.

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  • hidudes
    hidudes Follow
    Xper 2 Age: 29
    +1 y

    true and i appreciate your point of view

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  • Rcjh1987
    Rcjh1987 Follow
    Guru Age: 38
    +1 y

    very insightful

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