A guy up voted me which is proof that you do not speak for all men's experiences 😀 I'm still trying to look for your logic that you claim to have written
Not true. I get over break ups really quick considering that there's over 3.5 billion girls in the world. So why should I waste my time on her. My exes are irrelevant to me.
Obviously by relationships they don't mean fling or a high school bs. They refer to a REAL relationship where both parties invest a lot emotionally, physically and mentally. You're 17 bro. Come tell me this in 13 years 😏 @cinderelli LMAO! That cracked me up 😂
highschool relationships don't last for more than 6 months, too immature to do anything about it really. Just because you had a play-date and waxed off with righty doesn't mean you know what a break up is. College relationships can be serious.
Lol the whole thing about religion is something I can rail against you in another post this post is about how most men have difficulty getting over a break up. And what everyone is telling you is that your balls have not dropped yet nor meaning you are still a boy. end.
@ShayanMortazavi HS relationships aren't real relationships. Of course when you're in HS and in a relationship, you'd think it is real because you're experiencing it at that moment. But there's a reason it's called puppy love. Not saying that HS relationships can't morph into a real REAL relationship, further down the road, because it can.
Oh cool your lover joined in. That is actually just how I imagined you bahaha dude just stop talking you are hurting your-self... since you are entertaining I will play along https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBGWtVOKTkM
I am touched you would go through all that trouble for me... but seriously your comebacks suck they aren't even original, you are just angry because you come up short between the legs. Anyways kiddo, nice chattin, us adults have to work and do things with our lives, just order a pizza and cry into your tampons. #butthurt
Is this also the reason why a lot of men jump straight into a new relationship after a break up , while most women are locked in their room crying into their pillow?
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I definitely agree with this take.
I know some men are able to shake it off and move on. But it makes sense why some men have a harder time doing so, it's because they usually have no support system. This makes a lot of sense.
It depends on the relationship. I have some girls who think I was taking it seriously when I wasn't. If I'm not attached then I won't feel much, but if I'm invested I'll be devastated.
Exactly men need to just realize that women can vent and men need to hold it in. I still have not gotten over my ex from 6 years ago. Nobody wants to hear I from me.
My experience was similar, no one wanted to hear about he breakup. For me it was divorce, and I think people (primarily married couples) were afraid it would rub off on them. I learned who I could talk to eventually, and am gratefully I worked through it quickly (about a year "quickly"). I hope you are able to work through things and see that they can be much better. I sure didn't believe that going in, but it has beenh experience so far. In fact, id say now that the breakup was possibly one of the best things that ever happened.
she's talking about how it isn't true for her. she could be going through that phase of hurt which makes her lose faith in most guys. it's pretty normal. I don't know if you'll understand.
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I don't believe this lol
I know several guy friends who moved on quickly from their exes
... lol its a majority of guys that go through this. Please watch the video before commenting.
I'm pretty sure my ex moved on pretty quickly after he left me
I don't hate my ex either. He actually apologized to me but I'm no fool
Hmm well thats your way of thinking, I don't agree with it at all but since your experience is what speaks to you awesome.
You don't speak for all men
A guy up voted me which is proof that you do not speak for all men's experiences 😀 I'm still trying to look for your logic that you claim to have written
I speak for most; just like I said above. This conversation is pointless.
Ok then stop
Nah just blocking you, I can't convince shit if you are all high and mighty. later
Not true. I get over break ups really quick considering that there's over 3.5 billion girls in the world. So why should I waste my time on her. My exes are irrelevant to me.
this doesn't revolve around you.
You're dumb
#butthurt
You're probably the only guy that doesn't get over break ups
#superbutthurt
You're 17. I find your answer hard to believe
@thisGUYknows haha.. 😂😂 longest relationship he ever had would be one with his hand.. so immature..
Obviously by relationships they don't mean fling or a high school bs. They refer to a REAL relationship where both parties invest a lot emotionally, physically and mentally. You're 17 bro. Come tell me this in 13 years 😏
@cinderelli LMAO! That cracked me up 😂
@Awesome93 i am glad it did,... LOL.. 😂😂😂 he totally failed at trying to be cool..
>:) @Cinderelli stealin my thunder
@Awesome93 High School and college relationships are real relationships
highschool relationships don't last for more than 6 months, too immature to do anything about it really. Just because you had a play-date and waxed off with righty doesn't mean you know what a break up is. College relationships can be serious.
@cinderelli I'm Christian, I don't masturbate
Atheists are some of the most annoying people on the planet
If you're a Christian guy and you get all emotional over break ups, then you need to grow some testicles
Lol the whole thing about religion is something I can rail against you in another post this post is about how most men have difficulty getting over a break up. And what everyone is telling you is that your balls have not dropped yet nor meaning you are still a boy. end.
@ShayanMortazavi HS relationships aren't real relationships. Of course when you're in HS and in a relationship, you'd think it is real because you're experiencing it at that moment. But there's a reason it's called puppy love. Not saying that HS relationships can't morph into a real REAL relationship, further down the road, because it can.
Lol.. 😂😂 @OrdinaryGentleman now he is bringing religion in.. 😁
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQYob6dpTTk Here is a message for you all
@OrdinaryGentleman Go ahead, rail the religion thing against me then
Oh cool your lover joined in. That is actually just how I imagined you bahaha dude just stop talking you are hurting your-self... since you are entertaining I will play along https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fBGWtVOKTkM
https://vocaroo.com/i/s1CiK7bX4Xyn
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I am touched you would go through all that trouble for me... but seriously your comebacks suck they aren't even original, you are just angry because you come up short between the legs. Anyways kiddo, nice chattin, us adults have to work and do things with our lives, just order a pizza and cry into your tampons. #butthurt
Your dumb @ordinarygentlemen
Whoa just take it easy man
https://youtu.be/-0I1sdMLFCg
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Bait you're*
Agree here, men are not able to express themselves emotionally and becomes built up. I think this pretty much sums it all up.
Sure, some guys move on if they are not into the girl as much, but if they do, I certainly think this holds true.
Fortunately I've been the one to break up in all my relationships xD
But that makes sense, when you have no support from anyone, it's normal and logical that you'll never get over that breakup.
guy put 100% into relationship. Girl don't like it so she break up.
guy has big plans for future then she come and destory's it. If you cared then not getting over it means that girl meant something.
girl make man life bad. it not fair.
You extraterrestrials make bad choices in girls... try dating women
women and girl are 1 in the same.
No you see, girls are childish and women are mature.
women do childish, reckless things all the time just like girls do.
it becomes hard to separate them from each other
Makes no sense.
how?
women do things just like girl. girls are spoiled, cry and fight. Women do the same.
they are one in the same, just different words.
Nope... girls do that shit, women act mature... why would you have two words with the exact same meaning... that doesn't make sense.
Is this also the reason why a lot of men jump straight into a new relationship after a break up , while most women are locked in their room crying into their pillow?
I definitely agree with this take.
I know some men are able to shake it off and move on.
But it makes sense why some men have a harder time doing so, it's because they usually have no support system.
This makes a lot of sense.
It depends on the relationship. I have some girls who think I was taking it seriously when I wasn't. If I'm not attached then I won't feel much, but if I'm invested I'll be devastated.
Yea , attachment reasons make sense. But I'm sure this take us assuming the guy has a fair amount of feelings for the girl.
*is assuming
Exactly men need to just realize that women can vent and men need to hold it in. I still have not gotten over my ex from 6 years ago. Nobody wants to hear I from me.
My experience was similar, no one wanted to hear about he breakup. For me it was divorce, and I think people (primarily married couples) were afraid it would rub off on them. I learned who I could talk to eventually, and am gratefully I worked through it quickly (about a year "quickly"). I hope you are able to work through things and see that they can be much better. I sure didn't believe that going in, but it has beenh experience so far. In fact, id say now that the breakup was possibly one of the best things that ever happened.
My ex got over the breakup by whoring around. I don't think that this is even 1% true.
So... your ex is every guy? #generalization299 @justBanANNas
@justbanANNAz is it generalization299?
i wouldn't count it as one. plus I'm still looking of #237 lmao
@justbanANNAz how is it not one?
she's talking about how it isn't true for her. she could be going through that phase of hurt which makes her lose faith in most guys. it's pretty normal. I don't know if you'll understand.
Is it from a way she feels? but I am not making the connection it isn't all guys who are like this..
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For some reason I have problems beliving this..
Well then thats on you and not my problem.
I know. . I never said it was your problem, dude
That's what the government wants you to think
Learn to move on and be a man about break-ups.
true and i appreciate your point of view
very insightful