It's a long story but I can shorten it. Basically my ex led me on and really hurt me badly. He has a new girl now, just two days after we ended things for good.
I deleted all of our texts so I wouldn't be tempted to read through them and I unfollowed him on Facebook so his posts wouldn't show up on my newsfeed, I unfollowed his friend and girl too. My friend says to just delete them and I'll feel better but I'm too scared for some reason! I can't bring myself to delete his number either.
We haven't talked ever since the day things ended. It ended with a four text conversation and he said if I need a friend or need anything at all he will be there for me, which I don't know how much I believe: I still care about him a lot and part of me keeps secretly wishing he'll message me but the other part of me hates him.
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Delete all his stuff, you won't heal until you stop thinking about him.
Get away from the social media to see things. Take some time alone to mourn the loss. Then go do things you want to do and hang out with friends. Do not get into any relationships. Learn about you and figure out what you want and need. Before you know it, you will think less and less about him until you won't care or worry, then you are over him. Then you can return to putting yourself out there to find someone.
The longer you hold onto things about him, the longer you will hurt. Mourn the loss of the relationship as you would a death, but not for weeks and months. Embrace the hurt for a few days, but move on. Coming to the true realization that it is over is key.
Do not reach out to him. He isn't a friend, he is an ex. Don't let yourself be his consolation prize when he has nothing else. If you see him when out, just politely say hi and move on.0
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