His girlfriend ruptured his testicle, should she feel bad?

A friend of mine was a serious player. I mean he would chase any girl he wanted and most of the time get them. He starting dating one girl that was a virgin when he met her, he told her that he loved her and he charmed her into having sex with him. After they had sex a week later she found out he was cheating on her, so when she approached him crying and asked him why he acted as if nothing was wrong. She then became so angry that she plunged her foot into his groin. She kicked him too hard, however, and he had a testicular fracture.
Should she feel bad about this or should she feel glad, and did he deserve it?
  • He deserved it.
    Vote A
  • She had no right to do that.
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  • They were both at equal fault.
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  • Let's put it into perspective, shall we?

    "A girl once cheated on her boyfriend. He got upset and punched her in the face."

    Notice how the original post seems "so debatable", yet nobody even takes a second thought once it is reversed and even more mild as in this case.

    People will justify women's violence because "he had it coming," even when they wouldn't justify the reverse.

    The mantra of domestic violence repeats itself:

    "If a man hits a woman, it's because he's a jerk. If a woman hits a man, it's because he was a jerk and deserved it."

    That's the only reason domestic violence is treated as an exclusive women's issue and not a relationship or human issue.

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  • That's horrible. For both of them. But I'm certain he's done this to 4373838384 other women before her. You reap what you sow. It isn't right, and if he can't have children now, that's really fucked up, but I'm not entirely sympathetic to him. She seems unhinged.

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    • Oh boy, SELF-HARM is a whole other question. I'll NEVER understand what drives people to be like "oh, look, I feel like shit - you know what would make me feel better? Using KNIVES to CUT into my FLESH so I can BLEED" i never understood it I think it's a cultural influence because it's so mainstream in the West.

    • its okay if he cuts off her legs with a saw blade and has a rabies infested dog saliva bite through her vagina and castrates her and rips out one of her ovaries. brutality? i dont think so? hate and be hated, kill and be killed, betray and be betrayed. an eye for an eye , a tooth for tooth, evil for evil,.
      -hammurabhis principle

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What Guys Said 38

  • She fucking broke his balls! What the fuck is wrong with her? He hurt her feelings, she caused him actual physical pain.

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    • he hurt her feelings, and judging by op's age (asumes she's the same age as her friend) took something she treassured or the right guy. I'm not saying doing what she did was ok, but he did more damage than simply hurting her feelings! Just because you does not give a fuck about your virginity, doesn't mean nobody else cares either!
      Remember that

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    • I call it a kick in the balls from karma, for all the hearts he has broken

    • its okay if he cuts off her legs with a saw blade and has a rabies infested dog saliva bite through her vagina and castrates her and rips out one of her ovaries. brutality? i dont think so? hate and be hated, kill and be killed, betray and be betrayed. an eye for an eye , a tooth for tooth, evil for evil,.
      -hammurabhis principle

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    What's wrong with that crazy BISH! She had no right do that! She needs to be arrested and her ovaries punched and she how she likes it.

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  • So what, cheating warrants physical violence? Voted B).

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    • She isn't a user and asshole.

    • "Rupture. An injury can tear the tough, protective covering surrounding the testicle and damage the testicle. This is called a testicular rupture."

      That sounds curable, though. Luckily. She still overdid it.

  • If he goes around screwing girls over, then protecting his balls should have been a top priority... Do I think what she did was right? No...

    That must have been incredibly painful for that guy and will haunt him for the rest of his days.

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  • He deserves the bad karma that will inevitably come his way in life, but being kicked and having one of his testicles destroyed? No, I don't think that's warranted, and I think that girl will also have that come back to bite her somehow as well.

    (Imagine if a woman cheated on a man and lied to him, and he responded in hurt and anger by kicking her and destroying one of her ovaries. That would be similarly horrific.)

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  • Let's look at the opposite scenario. Guy finds out his gf is cheating on him, and he punches her in the face. How many people out there would think she deserved that. And that's not even close to what this guy's experiencing.

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  • He deserved it, but she shouldn't just be able to walk away Scott free, at the very least she should have to pay his medical bills and should do jail time on top of that.

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    • its okay if he cuts off her legs with a saw blade and has a rabies infested dog saliva bite through her vagina and castrates her and rips out one of her ovaries. brutality? i dont think so? hate and be hated, kill and be killed, betray and be betrayed. an eye for an eye , a tooth for tooth, evil for evil,.
      -hammurabhis principle

    • At least it reflects human nature.

  • I can't vote. She had every right to be upset at him for cheating on her making her believe she was desirable enough. She shared a part of her life that is so sacred and meaningful but the guy took it as if it was a walk in the park. I understand. One thing though, you do not kick a man in the groin unless you want to permanently inflict damage to him possibly taking away any chances of him having babies or cause severe internal bleeding potentially killing him if the odds are against him.

    Kicking a man in the balls should not be taken lightly. Yes I get it, hurting someone’s heart shouldn’t either but what she did was done out of impulsive frustration and no thought. It was wrong for both of them to do that, but I still can’t help to feel bad for the guy getting a fracture? Damn bro that is horrible. Not unless you're getting assaulted by a man, you should never go for the groin.

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    • He avoided her for long times, and insulted her when she confronted him eventually. He did not take her seriously and tried to force his way past her and walk away. That was when she snapped and did that, according to what she told me. She did not mean to kick him that hard, but at the moment she was afraid he would get angry and attack her if she kicked him too lightly, and only meant to drop him to the ground and not cause a severe injury

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    • No she shouldn’t of assaulted him like that, period. If your friend is seriously kicking guys in the balls so casually, she must be as brainless as the guy she decided to hook up with. Too bad the double standard society puts in won't get her trouble when she should. Shit if I were to kick a girl in the boobs and raptured one, cops would be all over me and send me to jail.

    • its okay if he cuts off her legs with a saw blade and has a rabies infested dog saliva bite through her vagina and castrates her and rips out one of her ovaries. brutality? i dont think so? hate and be hated, kill and be killed, betray and be betrayed. an eye for an eye , a tooth for tooth, evil for evil,.
      -hammurabhis principle

  • She should feel bad, and she should also be in jail for assault.

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  • seems like the d00d had it coming, but I can't really pick a side right now lol

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    • I'm with this guy.

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    • its okay if he cuts off her legs with a saw blade and has a rabies infested dog saliva bite through her vagina and castrates her and rips out one of her ovaries. brutality? i dont think so? hate and be hated, kill and be killed, betray and be betrayed. an eye for an eye , a tooth for tooth, evil for evil,.
      -hammurabhis principle

    • @raios who is that? hahaa.

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What Girls Said 15

  • No right, aboslutely disgsting behaviour of your friend! He should press charges against her.

    Sorry I get really angry about shit like this. I've had major discussion with several American women online about male abuse victims and their denial of their own actions. Yuck!

    Generalzing now, I know not all of you American girls/women are like that.

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  • She had no right to do that. Although cheaters are scum, I don't think you should resort to violence when confronting them. You should never resort to violence tbh. She should feel bad, she can get arrested for shit like that.

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  • Yes she should feel bad. That's horrible. Just because he cheated doesn't mean he deserves a ruptured testicle. That can affect him for life. All she had to do was break up with him. I understand that she was hurt and upset but there's no excuse for physical violence like that.

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  • well cheating is unethical but not illegal.

    losing control and causing injury thats illegal. it was illegal. and no she was not in the right.

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  • HE shouldn't have cheated on her but come on if you're old enough to have sex you should know in the back of your brain no person is immune to cheating everyone can cheat if they haven't already! But that doesn't mean you kick them in the nuts or assault them that is unacceptable and you cannot justify it unless he attacked her first. He didn't hit her first so that makes it wrong on her part. He is wrong for cheating but that doesn't mean his d had to be ruptured!

    All I say is never trust someone too much to the point of where you're shocked if they do something like this.

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    • its okay if he cuts off her legs with a saw blade and has a rabies infested dog saliva bite through her vagina and castrates her and rips out one of her ovaries. brutality? i dont think so? hate and be hated, kill and be killed, betray and be betrayed. an eye for an eye , a tooth for tooth, evil for evil,.
      -hammurabhis principle

    • I agree all im saying is she had NO RIGHT to do that. Thats assault it doesn't matter if she was mad it wasn't an act of self defense she just lashed out.

  • She had no right to do that. Hello, big boys and girls don't hit people when they're mad.

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  • that is really terrible. poor guy.

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    • i've been used for sex and felt sad but i never thought about lashing out

    • He really knows how to push a person's buttons, and that was exactly what he was doing to her

    • there's no excuse for violence

  • She should go to jail for assault.

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  • Love! He deserved it.

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    • It would be fair only if he ripped out one of her ovaries, which he did not.

    • its okay if he cuts off her legs with a saw blade and has a rabies infested dog saliva bite through her vagina and castrates her and rips out one of her ovaries. brutality? i dont think so? hate and be hated, kill and be killed, betray and be betrayed. an eye for an eye , a tooth for tooth, evil for evil,.
      -hammurabhis principle

  • I voted C.

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    • oh yeah that's a good one:D I mean she had to learn the hard way that sucks lol

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    • Playership is learned behavior, and far less problematic than being born into the hands of a religious extremist who slices off parts of your penis to donate it to her imaginary friend. The gender centric evaluation of a person's sexual worth is a cultural error, and far less extreme than anything that has to do with religion. (I am pretty sure you are referring to my comment where I said "I hope you will not have sons").

    • No that really is up to them whether they generalize based on that or not. Every individual is different, after all.

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