I need to prove to this girl that I like her.

[james215]

well ill make a long story short me and this girl like each other and a lot of things have been happening in the past few weeks we first realized we had feelings for each other around 4 weeks ago. Since then it has been full of ups and downs this is mainly because things happened and got said we eventually got over it okay now fast forward to now. I only every see her for a little while every day since we go to the same school. But if I try to talk to her with just me and her she doesn't stay with me long because it is slightly awkward I can't get into that though. Anyway she is starting to think I don't like her and I need to make my move now how can I show to her that I like her a lot I can't really make it meaningful because my friends will be around and she will be uncomfortable or should I just get her with me for a second and be straight up and just tell her what I think about her even though she knows she's not sure please help people!

[tex151]

You said when you were talking to her things got ackward, why? What did you do to make them ackward? Then you said she is starting to think you don't like her. How do you know this, did she say it to you or are you just guessing that's what she's thinking?

Well you need to talk to her outside of class your house, her house somewhere besides school. You said you were dating her so the best thing to do is ask her be like so I know we both have feelings for each other and we've been dating off and on so, where do you want to go with this? Say that you don't want things to be ackward anymore, and then ask her if she wants to continue dating and if so then well there you go. Take her on more dates and when you both feel like your already in a relationship ask her to be your gf.

[eatokash]

Dude, show some balls. Do exactly what you said and you know is right. Get her to the side for a second and just tell her you like her.

Sure, it is a good idea to try to not make a show out of it. The worst that could happen is that she'll say no. I don't think she's going to even consider embarrassing you in front of anyone.

So GO FOR IT!

Oh, and hurry before anyone else gets their chance before you! ;-) (you never know...)

[-StillWater-]

If I were you, I would just take her somewhere...for like coffee, during the day, mind you, and talk to her. About silly, small, unimportant things, then after she seems comfortable, just put your palm against her cheek, pull in closer, tell her you really like her, and if she doesn't move back, kiss her. How difficult can it be?

I know it's scary, but if you don't try you'll never know, and when you really like/love someone, then it's just a HUGE shame not to try anything when you have a pretty good idea that it could end in a great way! (and even if you're not sure, you should try!)

Don't hesitate! The longer you wait, she slips away more and more!

Trust me! I KNOW what I'm talking about.

Hope I helped

:)

[james215]

Yeahh that really did help :) and thank you for answering but the thing is she isn't exactly 'ready' to go anywhere alone with me yet she says its 'weird' right now and it is a bit so any ideas on what I can do on the way home walking with her , my friend will be there no matter what she won't let it just be us lol...but yeah please help haha

[-StillWater-]

Haha

Ok...then...as you're walking, make sure you're walking by her side...no matter where your friend is...and..as you're hands are swinging, just move your hand closer to hers, make a little skin contact, and if she seems okay with it, take her hand in yours. :)

It's the sweetest thing!