My ex can't stand to be around me, why?


I'm getting really frustrated with my current situation.

Me and my ex boyfriend had been together 3 years when we broke up because he wasn't giving me the relationship that I wanted and he wanted his freedom. Since then, we have had 2 hiccups in the first month but we have since had no contact for 30 days.

I went to party last weekend and was pleasant with him- I said hi then continued to greet other people there, and then saw him put his drink down and leave.

Tonight, all of our mutual friends were going to a newish male friends house where all of our friends would be & he asked the person hosting the party not to allow me to come because it would be 'easier for him' if I wasn't there.

I should probably say at this point that the group of friends we have have been friends since we left high school 12 years ago, and for the last three of them I have been in a relationship with my ex so it's not as easy as not going out with my friends or seeing them because I'd have to go out and actually make a brand new set of friends, which isn't easy.

Why is he refusing to see me? Eventually we are going to have to be around each other as its going to make it awkward for our friends. I just can't work out why he doesn't want to be around me; we are 2 months into the break up.
My ex can't stand to be around me, why?
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