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Well this has just opened my eyes as to just how many mean, cheating women there are out there! Sorry to hear that guys, but don't lose faith, there are still plenty of good women around.
Anyway to answer the question it was due to long distance.
My relationship with my hand started when I was 12, and is still going strong. I've never even once cheated on my hand. Girls find me extremely undesirable, so I think my hand and I will be together forever.
I had too many issues in other departments of my life. Had to deal with my bpd mother and was really insecure. After we broke up i tried fixing things with him too hard and that eventually destroyed any chances of a possible reconcilation...
I was his rebound but thankfully he was mine too. We where together for about 5 months. He thought I loved him and contacted me a few years ago to apologise which I thought was nice. Thankfully he didn't cause me any pain nor I him.
I wouldn't consider it a relationship. But it lasted for about like 4 months. It wasn't bad, we just grew apart. We both had shit going on in our own lives. So I had to broke it off so I could focus on my own shit.
5.5 years, neither him nor his kids respected me & my kids & belongings, talked down to me all the time, didn't get along with my family... emotional/mental abuse. And he threw me to the ground 3 too many times!!
I was with my first so called boyfriend for 1 full month but I had to break up with him cuz he called me names just because I was spending time together with my siblings they are younger then me
And he also played with my feelings
And etc
we were together about 6 or 7 months. i broke up with her because i felt we had very different maturity levels
side note: a week later i met the girl who'd become my wife
2 Years. She said her feelings changed, she needs a break, "its not you, its me"
1 Week later her feelings did change, she didn't need a break, she was already with her next boyfriend.
"2 Years. She said her feelings changed, she needs a break, "its not you, its me"
It seems like it's standard on all relationships. LOL
@didigo182
It's alright, her relationship with that dude didn't last, after 1 year she emailed to ask "how I was doing", I wasn't receptive, so she did what she knows best, found herself another boyfriend within a week.
That relationship also lasted a year and now she's already on a new one again, so basically she has had 3 relationships after me, basically 1 new boyfriend per year. Well my ship has sailed now, good luck to the chumps she's with.
Here is the same. The best thing to do is "aham, hum... okay... goodbye".
My last one after 1 year was "idk what who i am... i need to find myself" i said "okay so go find yourself without me" (of course she wanted that). And i and a week later I found myself laughing at such cynicism.
"The problem it's me not you" it's a Classic too... to common, but we need to move on and don't look back.
@didigo182
Thats exactly what I did, I said "I am doing fine thank you, what do you wish to achieve by getting in contact with me now?" Her miserable reply to that was "didn't watch to achieve anything, just wanted to see how you are thats all" ... I guess she realised she wasn't gonna go far with me or just wanted to test the waters ;D
He didn't have any drive, career-wise. He was older than me and dropped out of college. I thought I could look past it but I couldn't.
Lasted 3 months.
We were at a new years party in philly just hanging out playing games and he decided He didn't like my friends. And said they didn't include him when they did talk to him he said barley anything, and sat on his phone the entire time. Then he left me there. A 4 hour drive home he just left me and I had to find a ride home. We were together almost a year.
I was 14 and it lasted 3 days because the boy dated me out of pity and then told everyone we weren't dating. Nearly 10 years later, he still avoids me.
2 months. Turns out he only dated me because he didn't want to hurt my feelings by rejecting me since I liked him. 🙄
Her friends and family didn't like me. We were together about 7 months.
Why didn't they like you?
Her friends and family were really religious and we slept together a lot and thought we were having a baby, so she told them. Big mistake! They grilled her non stop about my being a bad influence. So that was that.
7 months. He was a good guy but sadly I wasn't in love with him. It was very difficult for me to break up :(
He said we didn't spend enough time together, but he was on a date with someone else 1 hour after he told me.. Lasted roughly 4 months
Damn. These stories are terrible
My story - I was twelve. He was a year older. Lasted two weeks. I thought I wasn't ready for a relationship/too young
Because he never actually asked me out. We were friends for two years but in high school I was too timid to ask anyone out
5 and a half years.
Turns out he was a lying, cheating paeophile!
Not sure how this is helping your life.
Hopefully you don't mean pedophile!
I've been with my current boyfriend 3 years and 4 months.
Yes I do. But I was using the English spelling, being English and all.
Apologies I missed a d. But we spell it pae at the start.
So he was into small children?
More like early teens... it was enough to gross me out and run far. He wants to be a pop star. #NextIanWatkins
Because he was feeling comfortable living under his father's name and fortune, and don't wanna work for himself. I like to start from the scratch and build my own.